Girls are very predictable?

excuse me, but I disagree, the only time you can be totally sure they like you is when they say it out front... for example: You meet a girl and everything seems to be going well... you think she likes you and then you do your move, but tada she only wants to be your friend and to make things worse she "likes" one of your friends, there is also that time of the month and the fact that in a moment they can say they just want to be friends and a couple of days later say they think they "love" you... (yes this is what she said so lets leave it at there)

In my personal experience, yes there are girls that you just need to look at them and they can easily be read, but others that are confusing as hell.

No puedes usar la misma regla para medir a todas las mujeres

In short, you can't use the same rule to measure all the women.

Guys are more predictable since guys react the same way to certain situations (unless they have a friend inside the closet) or are plain ODD

For example

Questions for the guys:

When you see a hot girl poorly dressed (in the good way), what is the first thing that pops to your mind?

When one of your friends suddenly falls or hits something for being distracted, what is your first reaction?

When humiliation befalls on a friend, what do you do/think before anything else?

heck even most of our fantasies are the same the only thing that changes is the place and the number of girls 😛

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excuse me, but I disagree, the only time you can be totally sure they like you is when they say it out front... for example: You meet a girl and everything seems to be going well... you think she likes you and then you do your move, but tada she only wants to be your friend and to make things worse she loves one of your friends, there is also that time of the month and the fact that in a moment they can say they just want to be friends and a couple of days later say they think they love you...

Anyone who says "love" so easily to anyone other than a family is not to be trusted. Don't you know that? 🤣

huh? oh sorry the proper translation is "like"

what about those that never say the L word? even to their family?

I am one of those

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Girls, IMO, are very much like guys. They say they like you and they are probably not lying or something. They probably do like you the moment they say it. Then the next moment they can like somebody else or change their minds. It's many guys' excuse to cheat, stop calling, break up, etc. It's not surprising to me anymore. I am sure girls can be the same too.

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Well, in a certain way, yes. But they are too ambiguous to be sure, unlike us men: straightforward like no others.

Pffft. Yeah okay... 🙄

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You meet a girl and everything seems to be going well... you think she likes you and then you do your move, but tada she only wants to be your friend and to make things worse she "likes" one of your friends, there is also that time of the month and the fact that in a moment they can say they just want to be friends and a couple of days later say they think they "love" you... (yes this is what she said so lets leave it at there)

I can say the same about guys. And I've met guys that PMS more than girls. Guys throw the 'I love you" card more often than girls. Why? Because when they screw up they think that's the only way back.

Are girls predictable? No, girls aren't all that predictable, but that's my opinion. There's no real answer to this question, it depends on the girl, her nature, and her unique preference, if she has any. Same goes for guys. Being unpredictable can be both a good thing or a bad thing, again it depends on preference.

And Chaos your last comments make all guys out there look bad. Here is me hoping that not all guys answer the way you would expect them to answer those questions, because if they do, it really does make the male population look bad.

Question on preference for both genders: Predictable or not?

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For example

Questions for the guys:

When you see a hot girl poorly dressed (in the good way), what is the first thing that pops to your mind?

When one of your friends suddenly falls or hits something for being distracted, what is your first reaction?

When humiliation befalls on a friend, what do you do/think before anything else?

heck even most of our fantasies are the same the only thing that changes is the place and the number of girls 😛

1. She is showing off for somebody.
2. Laugh, then help them
3. Try to turn it into a better situation.

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For example

Questions for the guys:

When you see a hot girl poorly dressed (in the good way), what is the first thing that pops to your mind?

When one of your friends suddenly falls or hits something for being distracted, what is your first reaction?

When humiliation befalls on a friend, what do you do/think before anything else?

heck even most of our fantasies are the same the only thing that changes is the place and the number of girls 😛

1. She is showing off for somebody.
2. Laugh, then help them
3. Try to turn it into a better situation.

1. Or Anybody... a feast to the eyes is a feast to the eyes, however that doesn't mean you will want to ***** her.
2. Laugh, and laugh, unless the guy doesn't stand up, in with case I would see if I can help.
3. That is exactly what most guys would do, since the only thing that can make a guy betray a friend is a girl, and in the end we will probably regret it (as a universal rule guys are aware of this and tend to forgive it more easily than other things)

PS: Luna How come it makes guys look bad? The first question shows how much auto control we have (or else a good amount of guys would end as rapist, because for some reason girls are wearing less clothes by the day -_-), the second how insensible we can be, and the last one how loyal we can be.

The comment about the fantasies is truth thought. Girls on the other hand have different fantasies...

(Fantasies don't = Dreams/Hopes and such, I am talking about sexual fantasies)

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PS: Luna How come it makes guys look bad? The first question shows how much auto control we have (or else a good amount of guys would end as rapist, because for some reason girls are wearing less clothes by the day -_-), the second how insensible we can be, and the last one how loyal we can be.

Oh I see. Sorry, I thought you meant for your questions to be answered the way certain guys would answer them. Like for the first one, I thought you wanted to prove that guys only do think about sex when they see a hot poorly-dressed girl. Guess I misread.

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The comment about the fantasies is truth thought. Girls on the other hand have different fantasies...

Well it is generally true for a few guys. But I think it depends on personality and such.

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Well, in a certain way, yes. But they are too ambiguous to be sure, unlike us men: straightforward like no others.

Hey now... there are women that are extremely straightforward.
Me being on of them.

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You meet a girl and everything seems to be going well... you think she likes you and then you do your move, but tada she only wants to be your friend and to make things worse she "likes" one of your friends, there is also that time of the month and the fact that in a moment they can say they just want to be friends and a couple of days later say they think they "love" you... (yes this is what she said so lets leave it at there)

I can say the same about guys. And I've met guys that PMS more than girls. Guys throw the 'I love you" card more often than girls. Why? Because when they screw up they think that's the only way back.

This I can agree with. But women use the line just the same as men to get out of hot water. There are so many other fun ways to fix one of your screw ups...

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Question on preference for both genders: Predictable or not?

Predictable is boring. I want someone that keeps me on my toes.

If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

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Questions for the guys:

When you see a hot girl poorly dressed (in the good way), what is the first thing that pops to your mind?

When one of your friends suddenly falls or hits something for being distracted, what is your first reaction?

When humiliation befalls on a friend, what do you do/think before anything else?

1. "That's nice, hope she doesn't get rape."
2. Nothing, walk away unless it was serious, which it most likely wasn't if it caused them such a distraction.
3. Think: "Thank the being upstairs it wasn't me."
   Do: Try to help whichever way I can.

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Question on preference for both genders: Predictable or not?

Unpredictable, I like a challenge.

A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.

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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.

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Ya.

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[b]A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.[/b]

Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.

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Ya.

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and seconded.

if you want to get a girl, stay other side of the line. once you are in the friend zone, it is not easy to leave there.

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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.

Disagree, on so many ways.

Anyway, this is one reason why I don't like the so-called "nice guys". The act is usually fake.

So hypothetical guy only got close to the girl with the intention of dating her? Why not be forward about it? Don't blame the girl (with really bad taste on men) if she doesn't go for him, no?

They're all stupid. If you're smart, don't date either girl or guy-friend or guy-alcoholic.

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**A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you.

We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants.

But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.**

Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.

If you had stopped the scenario at the points where I broke it, I agree with the top half 99%.
The second piece is true more often than it should be, but not across the board. Maybe 60-80% true?
The third part is only true if the woman is an idiot who can't or doesn't learn from mistakes. (It's certainly not true for me.) It is also going to depend in part on the demographics that you are around. It is generally more likely to be true for people who enjoy watching the Jerry Springer show than it is in a white-collar office environment, for example.

Take all of that as generally as possible, since there are exceptions to everything.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

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