Ask the opposite gender
16 years ago
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To both genders: What's the worst(stupid, disturbing, craziest, etc...) thing a guy/girl has said while in bed? Doesn't necessarily mean before or after sex, btw.
That mentally unstable girl I always mention once made me play a word game for 90 minutes to figure out what she wanted to say because she was too embarrassed.
In the end it was "Thinking of you makes me wet down there".
The message wasn't very crazy or stupid or disturbing, but it was really weird playing a word game for 90 minutes just to get that at the finish line. 🤢
I am not prostrate. I am looking at the sky on the other side of Earth.
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16 years ago
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A guy once said to me (after making out):"Babe, you're more passionate than a cockroach is when giving birth."I didn't know cockroaches could display passion. 😕
Plus, I'm pretty sure they lay eggs. 🤨
and they lay eggs in cases. They're prolly laying eggs like taking a big dump out of their bodies. How can that be 'passionate'. It's a turn-off xD
What a weird guy you got there. O__O;;;;
I second that last statement. Either he REALLY sucks at coming up with endearing analogies, or he somehow finds reproductive cockroach dumping sexy.
Either way, you lose. o_o[/quote]
Exactly my thought! A cockroach doesn't give birth it looks like they're pooping when they lay eggs though. And yeah he was a weirdo!!...That was no compliment there, such a turn off. 🤨
16 years ago
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Agreed.
But if your not interested in me, than I'ma burn that bridge.
I don't have time to be stuck in the friend zone.
laughs A guy I met online once tried to do that to me.
I wouldn't let him.
We've now been friends for over 11 years, and we now live 15 minutes away from each other, when we were originally an 9 hour drive apart, because he helped me get a job where he worked. =)
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
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"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."
16 years ago
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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.
Don't know if this is relevant (probably not), but I felt like posting it anyway.
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16 years ago
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Don't know if this is relevant (probably not), but I felt like posting it anyway.
ROFL All true though. Words of wisdom right there!
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"A dick in a glass case!" 🤣
Guys must have platonic friends (females) though or at least I hope so.
16 years ago
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Guys must have platonic friends (females) though or at least I hope so.
It usually does work when both parties already have partners and belong to the same group of friends or they are childhood friends. But I am sure there are exceptions.
16 years ago
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Guys must have platonic friends (females) though or at least I hope so.
It usually does work when both parties already have partners and belong to the same group of friends or they are childhood friends. But I am sure there are exceptions.
yeah, platonic girlfriends just have to be ugly 😛 (but not really joking...)
this is why im concerned about a girlfriends guy friends. Theyre just friends to her, but to the guys what is she...?
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My question is for you girls. What do you and your group of friends talk about during 'girl talks?'
We talk about how crappy men are and why everything bad that happens to us starts with men!! I kid, I kid~ 😛
Girl talks are just a support group. We advice each other on what to say or do when you like a guy, break-up with a guy, try to get a guy, and so on...and of course we talk about what not to do in order to not make fools of ourselves. We talk about anything being work our sex life, or lack of one. I for one, find girl talks a comfort zone since you can freely express yourself and your needs which may or may not be similar, either way other opinions are always taken into consideration.
Oh and maybe you should edit your first comment, the mod was just doing his job, and he was even nice about itHeh, I wonder if guy talks are the same. I'm pretty sure they don't just talk about sex. What do guys talk about during 'guy talks'?
Lol ill answer your question from my life view...Well my talks with my friends are pretty much the same except its the other way around we talk about if this girl likes me or if i should ask her out...we dont talk about sex because the guys i hang out with keep it to them selfs we dont really talk about it its kinda to personal...but yea pretty much the same.
Well me and my guy friends have talks that waver between joking around and being really deep. I have one friend thats just obsessed with making everything deep and meaningful, but its fun i guess.
We dont really talk about sex. Back in middle school i remember we would, but once you get to my age, you either have the people that like to keep it private, or the dick wavers who would just want to brag. As i hang out with a mix of these people, we just dont talk about it and everyones happier.
16 years ago
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[b]A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.[/b]
Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.
Don't know if this is relevant (probably not), but I felt like posting it anyway.
Doesn't always have to be that way. Generally it is true, but there are cases. If you have a clean mind, then nothing is dirty. It all depends on how you perceive the world and how you were taught to deal with other people. Unfortunately the world we live in is a screwed up place....
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this is not about cannibalism...please get back on topic
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I think it is exactly the topic. I see nothing wrong.
16 years ago
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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
Agreed or disagreed? That that is what happens.
I agree and disagree.
Anyone who tries to be around another person is always interested in that person. Whether it strictly stays as friendship or develops into something romantic.
Ultimately, it depends on the person. Not every girl is like that. I actually ended up dating someone I was close friends. Was it his intention from the beginning? I never asked.
I have several guy friends that expressed their romantic intentions over the years. After being denied, some stayed around and some disappeared. I'm grateful for my those who stayed around, they are amazing and fun to be around with. I try not to complain to them about my relationship woes either, but something like talking about relationship problems is sort of expected to be had with friends, no? I think there is a difference between having a "go to guy when it's convenient" and truly being friends.
16 years ago
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Question- Is there such a thing as being too sweet? Or would you question somebody for being too sweet?
Need advise since apparently I am meeting too many sweet guys lately, sharing a story of sorts would be appreciated. 🙂
Member16 years ago
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Question- Is there such a thing as being too sweet? Or would you question somebody for being too sweet?
Need advise since apparently I am meeting too many sweet guys lately, sharing a story of sorts would be appreciated. 🙂
i would say no. but since i usually think people being too sweet is either fake, or laughing at it behind my back, the answer is prolly yes -_-
16 years ago
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Question- Is there such a thing as being too sweet? Or would you question somebody for being too sweet?
Need advise since apparently I am meeting too many sweet guys lately, sharing a story of sorts would be appreciated. 🙂
i would say no. but since i usually think people being too sweet is either fake, or laughing at it behind my back, the answer is prolly yes -_-
Yeah that's what I thought too. Sometimes when someone is too sweet it's because they are hiding something, or just want something of you. This applies for all kinds of relationships, imo.
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[b]Question[/b]- Is there such a thing as being [i]too[/i] sweet? Or would you question somebody for being too sweet?
Need advise since apparently I am meeting too many sweet guys lately, sharing a story of sorts would be appreciated. 🙂
i would say no. but since i usually think people being too sweet is either fake, or laughing at it behind my back, the answer is prolly yes -_-
Yeah that's what I thought too. Sometimes when someone is too sweet it's because they are hiding something, or just want something of you. This applies for all kinds of relationships, imo.
and girls you always see smile and rarely utter a negative word when youre around. there is no way someone is that sweet!
16 years ago
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I know a few guys that just put on acts Luna. It really does give a bad name to the rest of guys though that they pretend to be all sweet when they are really just trying to get with the girl.
16 years ago
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Question- Is there such a thing as being too sweet? Or would you question somebody for being too sweet?
ANYone who seems overly sweet, guy or girl, I'd question.
First possibility - they're faking it, and are really very calculating. Not the kind of person I want to be around.
Second possibility - they really ARE that sweet, in which case they're likely to allow themselves to be a doormat, won't stand up for themselves (or others), won't be honest if it means hurting someone's feelings, will give total jerks unlimited chances, etc. - also not the kind of person I want to be around. 🤢
Basically very sweet at heart, as long as there's a little "spice" as well (an occasional sarcastic remark, for example, or getting justifiably irritated about something) - THAT I have no problem with. 😃
Of course it's hard to tell until you get to know someone better, because most people try to be on their best behavior when first meeting someone. I wouldn't really be suspicious of people who are "too nice" unless it's sustained after you get to know them.
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
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