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Post #280877 - Reply To (#276788) by TheRedSpade
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Sweetly Macabre
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[quote=TheRedSpade]i am apparently insensitivequote]

That tends to mean "you don't listen to her" or "you don't communicate enough" with each other. Again, you actually need to do something about it yourself, in actions. And if you don't understand what she means, ask instead of complaining or worrying.


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Sorry if these have been asked before, too many pages...>_>

-Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?
-What do you do when a ex shows up?
-How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?
-Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?

That should be enough, you don't have to answer all. Boredom ftw! -.-'''


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Post #280910 - Reply To (#280905) by LunaMay
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Quote from LunaMay

Sorry if these has been asked before, too many pages...>_>

-Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?
-What do you do when a ex shows up?
-How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?
-Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?

That should be enough, you don't have to answer all. Boredom ftw! -.-'''

Depends on the people. I have a friend who has been going out with the same girl for 6 years now with no sex involved.
I have no answer for the second one.
Whatis considered weird? I'd most likely try to satisfy it...assumeing it doesn't involve anything extreme.
Depends on the situation, and if he asked first.


Post #280914 - Reply To (#280905) by LunaMay
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Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?
Depends how both people feel about sex.
I think if one person feels the other isn't willing to even try to meet their needs, the relationship won't last long, whether those needs are about sex or not.

What do you do when a ex shows up?
I've never been in this situation. I think I'd leave the other person and their ex alone to sort through their issues.
If it was my ex, I'd do the same and try not to make too much fuss.

How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?
I'd been cool with it and indulge it as much as I felt comfortable with. I'd be happy just to know they trusted me to tell me and know I wouldn't judge ^^

Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?
That's happened to me before, and it didn't go well... but in the future I will try to be more okay with it.


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What do you do when a ex shows up? Well, I suppose it would depend if you make eye contact or not and if you actually want to meet them. No eye contact, you could pretend not to see them and be on your way. In the chance you do make eye contact, saying hi to them should suffice. It's better than staring at them awkwardly.Not sure what to do if they just come up to you. Haven't had that happen to me.


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Post #280920 - Reply To (#280905) by LunaMay
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Quote from LunaMay

Sorry if these have been asked before, too many pages...>_>

-Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?
-What do you do when a ex shows up?
-How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?
-Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?

That should be enough, you don't have to answer all. Boredom ftw! -.-'''

Depends on the people, some do well with it and some do well without it.

I'm friends with mainly all my ex's, its no big deal.

Sure, as long as i don't have to be included if i don't wanna.

sure, but it rarely works out.


Post #280963 - Reply To (#280905) by LunaMay
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-Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?

A relationship that depends on sex definitely won't last as long on a relationship without it at all. I don't think it really changes other than that, though.

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-What do you do when a ex shows up?

I'm friends with most of mine, so I don't mind at all.

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-How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?

Well I'm pretty much open to anything. If I'm really obstinate about I'd try to talk about it and explain why I would rather not.

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-Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?

Not at all, unless I totally hated her or she did something really wrong. I'd tell the person just to be careful or what happened to me if it's not too personal.

I love how some people answer question from their same gender. 🤨


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What last longer a relationship with sex or without?

Well considering most long lasting relationships are marriages with children and considering how you make a child...
Also Woody Allen says that in a relationship, when the sex goes, so does the relationship.


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1.Don't you guys who cheat ever feel guilt facing your girlfriends? Or are you totally fine with it?
2.How do you know when a guy is just into a sexual relationship instead of a love relationship? [Meaning he just wants sex,not love]
3.Would a relationship last long if you know your partner already lost their virginity to someone else?

*Sorry if these questions were asked before, i just cant read all 125 pages -.-"


Post #281480 - Reply To (#281476) by Yenoh
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Don't you guys who cheat ever feel guilt facing your girlfriends? Or are you totally fine with it?

No, I would feel guilty.

How do you know when a guy is just into a sexual relationship instead of a love relationship? [Meaning he just wants sex,not love]

I think he'd either do things like act bored when you try to tell him about what's going on in your life, not like to talk about your future, try to get out of going on dates where it didn't seem like it would end in sex. Or he might try really hard to make you feel happy so you'd want to have sex, like doing textbook romantic things, buying flowers and expensive gifts, giving you over-the-top compliments, etc.
When someone enjoys your company for real, not just hoping it will lead to sex, you should be able to tell because they act more natural.

Would a relationship last long if you know your partner already lost their virginity to someone else?

It doesn't really matter to me.


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Post #281485 - Reply To (#281476) by Yenoh
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1.Don't you guys who cheat ever feel guilt facing your girlfriends? Or are you totally fine with it?

Most guys will fell some sort of guilt. They will either ignore it, which might fester and stress him out, or stop.

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2.How do you know when a guy is just into a sexual relationship instead of a love relationship? [Meaning he just wants sex,not love]

VyvyanWilde pretty much said it.

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3.Would a relationship last long if you know your partner already lost their virginity to someone else?

Not at all. For me anyway.

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What are your impressions of a guy who shaves below the neck? Does it depend on where he shaves? Prefer it? Hate it? Don't care?


Post #281492 - Reply To (#281476) by Yenoh
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Quote from Yenoh

1.Don't you guys who cheat ever feel guilt facing your girlfriends? Or are you totally fine with it?

They do feel guilty. Otherwise they wouldn't hide it.

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2.How do you know when a guy is just into a sexual relationship instead of a love relationship? [Meaning he just wants sex,not love]

If he's always "acting cool" instead of like a normal person, that's a good sign that he doesn't really want to stick around, since he can't keep it up forever. Another indicator is the circumstances in which you meet. If you start out as friends, getting to know each other first, it's far more unlikely that the guy would plan to cheat on you. But again, watch out for excessive "acting cool" (Some people really are cool. But that kind of cool has more substance).
And, of course, where you meet someone is a good indicator, too. If you meet a guy at a religious institution, he's far more likely to start a relationship than if you meet at a bar. This is less because he's a different person than that he assumes that you're a different person, actually.

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3.Would a relationship last long if you know your partner already lost their virginity to someone else?

*Sorry if these questions were asked before, i just cant read all 125 pages -.-"

Yes. Virginity is a very arbitrary thing to base a relationship on. If the guy is worried about it, it's also a good sign that he's not looking for a loving relationship (As that would mean that rather than liking you, he's pre-occupied with having sex with you).


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Post #281605 - Reply To (#281485) by KennEH!
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Ladies
What are your impressions of a guy who shaves below the neck? Does it depend on where he shaves? Prefer it? Hate it? Don't care?

I generally don't care one way or the other. I don't think I'd like it if he shaved his body completely bare - happy trails are fun - but it's not like I'd stop a relationship over it. If he feels like it's a personal issue and he wants to shave in various places, I've got no problem with that.

Then again, I was a swimmer, and I was around guys who shaved all parts of their body all the time, so I never found it that unusual.

That said... I really appreciate it when he at least trims his pubic hair shorter. Getting hair in the teeth is real annoying. He's also said the same to me, so that one goes both ways. =)


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"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

Post #281653 - Reply To (#281476) by Yenoh
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Quote from Yenoh

1.Don't you guys who cheat ever feel guilt facing your girlfriends? Or are you totally fine with it?
2.How do you know when a guy is just into a sexual relationship instead of a love relationship? [Meaning he just wants sex,not love]
3.Would a relationship last long if you know your partner already lost their virginity to someone else?

  1. From a reverse perspective, I would never cheat on someone.
    2.A lack of actual communication. It is so easy for me to tell if a guy only wants one thing, and he isn't getting that from me. Especially the sort who tries too hard to impress you and push the relationship-you just know where that is headed.
  2. So long as they don't have an STD or anything, I don't mind; what does that matter, really?

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Sorry if these have been asked before, too many pages...>_>

-Which lasts longer: A relationship with sex, or a relationship without?
-What do you do when a ex shows up?
-How would you deal if your partner has a 'weird' fetish?
-Would you be okay with it if one of your friends dates an ex?

  1. Communication. How can you have decent sex without communicating what you want with your partner?
  2. Act normally. I won't get involved unless the ex gets a little too close.
  3. I don't care about fetishes, but really gross ones (like killing little animals) make me walk them straight to a psychologist.
  4. An ex of mine? All the power to them, and good luck.

Can you tell I'm rather bored today?


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Post #281657 - Reply To (#281485) by KennEH!
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Thank you for answering the questions, fine gents~ ^-^
I don't always stay on good terms with my ex, don't know how I should feel about that... 😐

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What are your impressions of a guy who shaves below the neck? Does it depend on where he shaves? Prefer it? Hate it? Don't care?

I actually don't mind. Not like I'll stop a relationship for it. I don't necessarily mind what he shaves as long as he knows what's too much or too little, or he's fine with me saying so my self. But honestly, I don't mind. 🙂

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Can you tell I'm rather bored today?

Yes lol, but then again so am I. :/


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