Ask the opposite gender
14 years ago
Posts: 560
So this is a question towards the guys who currently have girlfriends or have dated before.
How do you feel about pleasuring a girl vs. being pleasured by the girl? Would you rather do the former or have the latter?
The thing is, my boyfriend loves making me feel good, but when I want to return the favor, he's very concerned and tells me that I shouldn't do anything I don't want to do. The reason for this is that the first time I did something(okay, fine, I'll be more specific: oral), he asked me how I personally felt and I was honest and said I felt awkward/the taste was bitter. I try and reason with him, saying that I want him to feel good, but he says that it's not a good enough reason and that his reason for making me feel good is because he likes it. Okay, granted, my reason is not a matter of liking to do it, but a matter of wanting him to be happy too, but still.
I'm just worried he might be hiding his true feelings of the matter just so he doesn't feel like he's taking advantage of me(oh the gentleman in him). Also, I feel like I'm taking advantage of him because I feel like I'm getting all the fun 🙁
14 years ago
Posts: 603
Quote from daisukidesuyo
So this is a question towards the guys who currently have girlfriends or have dated before.
How do you feel about pleasuring a girl vs. being pleasured by the girl? Would you rather do the former or have the latter?
The thing is, my boyfriend loves making me feel good, but when I want to return the favor, he's very concerned and tells me that I shouldn't do anything I don't want to do. The reason for this is that the first time I did something(okay, fine, I'll be more specific: oral), he asked me how I personally felt and I was honest and said I felt awkward/the taste was bitter. I try and reason with him, saying that I want him to feel good, but he says that it's not a good enough reason and that his reason for making me feel good is because he likes it. Okay, granted, my reason is not a matter of liking to do it, but a matter of wanting him to be happy too, but still.
I'm just worried he might be hiding his true feelings of the matter just so he doesn't feel like he's taking advantage of me(oh the gentleman in him). Also, I feel like I'm taking advantage of him because I feel like I'm getting all the fun 🙁
tsk, tsk you should have lied.
Him: " So how was it?"
You: "Yes darling, it tasted like pumpkin jelly pie!"
Him: "awwww, shucks" swings arm
yes...that would have been a better idea. 😉
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14 years ago
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I think it's the idea of having to kiss that mouth...maybe.
Lying to him wouldn't it taste any better.
He probably understands and doesn't wanna make you go through with it.
Perhaps if you really wanna pleasure him, insist on doing so?
Wow...first post on this thread and I'm advising about fellatio...
14 years ago
Posts: 163
Quote from otakuness
i have a question for guys!!
i have this friend and i really do so wanna help her but i have absolutely no idea on dating and whatever vague idea i have, it came from manga and the media.. so anyway, my friend is saving herself for marriage and she is thinking that maybe guys will not like her because of it.. i think that what shes doing is awesome! but how about guys? will you date a girl who's saving a girl for marriage.. shes 25 btw.
Well me personally I wouldnt mind if she was saving herself for marriage. but for other guys it depends. If the guy is really in it just for sex then yea it wont work and that relationship when he finds out will end in a wonderous ball of fire. but on the other hand, some guys like the idea of a chase and might find the wait for the event or the possibility of convincing her to get rid of her ideals to be very enticing, weird fetish i know but they exist. But there are guys like me who date to actually get a relationship on the emotional level, one that would actually last as opposed to one that is just for the physical pleasure of it. All in all it depends on the guy and the type your friend would attract.
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14 years ago
Posts: 187
Quote from Chaoswind
Not everyone likes Anal... i am somewhat curious of how it would feel, but so i am about drugs and i don't plan on doing them any time soon; also having anal with a girl is not too far away of doing it with a guy >_>
This is why I'm utterly confused. If you want to have buttsex so badly, why not do it with a guy and not try to do it with a girl?
lols
14 years ago
Posts: 81
Quote from fr33noob
Quote from daisukidesuyo
So this is a question towards the guys who currently have girlfriends or have dated before.
How do you feel about pleasuring a girl vs. being pleasured by the girl? Would you rather do the former or have the latter?
The thing is, my boyfriend loves making me feel good, but when I want to return the favor, he's very concerned and tells me that I shouldn't do anything I don't want to do. The reason for this is that the first time I did something(okay, fine, I'll be more specific: oral), he asked me how I personally felt and I was honest and said I felt awkward/the taste was bitter. I try and reason with him, saying that I want him to feel good, but he says that it's not a good enough reason and that his reason for making me feel good is because he likes it. Okay, granted, my reason is not a matter of liking to do it, but a matter of wanting him to be happy too, but still.
I'm just worried he might be hiding his true feelings of the matter just so he doesn't feel like he's taking advantage of me(oh the gentleman in him). Also, I feel like I'm taking advantage of him because I feel like I'm getting all the fun 🙁
tsk, tsk you should have lied.
Him: " So how was it?"
You: "Yes darling, it tasted like pumpkin jelly pie!"
Him: "awwww, shucks" swings armyes...that would have been a better idea. 😉
From what I see, I think hes very caring since hes not very forceful. If you feel like you want to return the favor then just tell him that. I'm sure he'll understand.
14 years ago
Posts: 704
Ok. so i have problem with this guy friend i have. i've known him for 2 years. and (very recently) he've been talking to me about his sex life/girlfriends and such. and abut him reading hentai, loli, and so on.
I'm starting to get really uncomfortable here.
so i jokingly asked him "what do u expect me to fall for u when u say stuff like that" and he said "nooo i only think of u as a friend, i'll never date you"
and then the descriptions became more and more intense. I'm just annoyed at this point.
so for all the guys, WHY? is this some sort of ego thing? does guys feel the need to tell his sexual experience to others? to other girls? is he interested in me (i'm not interested btw) does he think i'm "one of the guys?" I DUN GET IT!!!!!
14 years ago
Posts: 313
Quote from Hespia Klarerin
Ok. so i have problem with this guy friend i have. i've known him for 2 years. and (very recently) he've been talking to me about his sex life/girlfriends and such. and abut him reading hentai, loli, and so on.
I'm starting to get really uncomfortable here.so i jokingly asked him "what do u expect me to fall for u when u say stuff like that" and he said "nooo i only think of u as a friend, i'll never date you"
and then the descriptions became more and more intense. I'm just annoyed at this point.
so for all the guys, WHY? is this some sort of ego thing? does guys feel the need to tell his sexual experience to others? to other girls? is he interested in me (i'm not interested btw) does he think i'm "one of the guys?" I DUN GET IT!!!!!
He definitely is interested in you. He's talking about sexual things with you to try and de-sensitize you so he can try and talk you into casual sex (-ie-friends with benefits).
He may or may not have any romantic interest in you, but he definitely wants in your pants.
14 years ago
Posts: 1439
Quote from Berzer
there are guys like me who date to actually get a relationship on the emotional level, one that would actually last as opposed to one that is just for the physical pleasure of it.
Can I give you a hug? 😁
14 years ago
Posts: 24
in what circumstances would a girl agree to a threesome?
14 years ago
Posts: 704
Quote from donbu9
in what circumstances would a girl agree to a threesome?
if she's a yaoi fangirl and ur doing MFM
otherwise, suggesting threesome is like saying "i don't think ur attractive anymore and i want to have sex with other girls, but i feel guilty for cheating"
if women ask for threesome, she's adventurous
if men ask for threesome, he's a pervert
14 years ago
Posts: 1310
Quote from Hespia Klarerin
Quote from donbu9
in what circumstances would a girl agree to a threesome?
if she's a yaoi fangirl and ur doing MFM
otherwise, suggesting threesome is like saying "i don't think ur attractive anymore and i want to have sex with other girls, but i feel guilty for cheating"
if women ask for threesome, she's adventurous
if men ask for threesome, he's a pervert
Or you could use the solution to all problems... ALCOHOL... dunno how that would go, but could work... get a couple of girls hammered check if they start something on their own, and try to join...
Sounds much easier if it was girl + girl first then you join... just saying.
14 years ago
Posts: 435
ive been wondering about this for awhile for guys would u prefer a flat/a cup or moderate b cup implants
never fr0wn cause you never know whos in love with your sm 🙂 e
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14 years ago
Posts: 24
no implants!!
dfc ftw
14 years ago
Posts: 560
Quote from donbu9
in what circumstances would a girl agree to a threesome?
Well, the problem with a threesome is that if two happen to be in a relationship, someone is bound to get jealous.
Be careful of that.
