Fist of all I have to say I'm sorry for all the misunderestanding...but I don't remember asking for sympathy..I'm not in that state of mind just yet.. 😛 so hold your horses...

And I wasn't implying that the guys that have kissed me were in any way pathetic...they were hotties all right in my opinion I was refering to myself..since I can remember and count my kisses......

Now to the root of all evil...

For me to like a guy I have to find his mind attractive since physically I can find guys that are totaly hotties but the magic just doesn't translate into an intelligent conversation..sometimes I just want to say shut up and look pretty please.....but I find that smart guys are usually shy

Problem # 2 as to why I don't ask guys out....
First if I were to like a guy enough to consider making the first move...I would probable fall on my face since I get tongue tieded and really nervous with guys I like...I can flirt with almost everyone but I just CAN'T do it if I feel something for them...so in the end its all up to the guy since I may just end up saying something I didn't mean 🤣

#3 I LOVE shyness(second only to brains) in a guy and those are the guys that are probably never going to make the first move...in other words Im DOOMED!

@ Layhe: I never said I was desperate for date, heck, if I wanted one I could have my pick of guys there are certantly a bunch that would love to...but that's not my case..... 😁

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Any parent that is pissed because their child's gay shouldn't be a parent.

You are right but sadly enough there are parents that still live on the dark ages...so they can't not see their sweet little babies as something other than marry with kids...

@ Layhe: My parents once/still think that I may be a lesbian (more like my mom) but if they were ever to confirm their suspision that I'm one which I'm not I think they will die and will try everything possible to "turn" me into their picture of a perfect daugther...

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Edit: I have a question. To those who are bi/gay, whatever. Are you 'out-of-closet'? If so, how did your family react?

No. The reason for this is twofold: first, I've never actually gone out with anyone before, so I've never felt the need to tell anyone and second, no one has asked. I am a private person and tend not to give out unsolicited information, no matter how trivial - or in this case, important - unless I feel the other party is entitled to it (which would be the case were I to actually start dating anyone).

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Edit: I have a question. To those who are bi/gay, whatever. Are you 'out-of-closet'? If so, how did your family react?

my mah is gay, so yea, she dident have a problem with me at all, she supports me 100%

but there are alota people out there not as lucky.... 😐 😢

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I have a really good question for guys...what the heck is wrong with you guys?

I probably get hit by older guys one or three times a day...they go and they don't care that you may be 10,20,30 years their junior..Im just about fet up with younger guys...they don't know how to ask a person out...I haven't date like in forever...and I can seriously count the amount of types I been kiss pathetic and the problem is not me..since I can tell you Im pretty easy to the eye. So why guys won't even try to talk to a woman even when she's really friendly?

PS. and yes, I just got hit by an older guy(he comes to where I work) by phone..today at work..weird!!!! 🤢

i mostly talk to women if i whant something from them(LOVE xD)
the problem is that i'm pretty cold and direct and shortbound so I dont like smalltalk. When I'm looking for someone that is worth a relationship i dont think "mmm she's nice maybe,if we meet more and talk more, I will learn to love her"
Women need to have a certain aura to them if they dont... I wont care about them.
I only am interested in women that are somehow unique/special and are not one of the "ordinary" girls. women where you look at them and think to yourself "I absolutely whant to know her"

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I have a really good question for guys...what the heck is wrong with you guys?

I probably get hit by older guys one or three times a day...they go and they don't care that you may be 10,20,30 years their junior..Im just about fet up with younger guys...they don't know how to ask a person out...I haven't date like in forever...and I can seriously count the amount of types I been kiss pathetic and the problem is not me..since I can tell you Im pretty easy to the eye. So why guys won't even try to talk to a woman even when she's really friendly?

PS. and yes, I just got hit by an older guy(he comes to where I work) by phone..today at work..weird!!!! 🤢

i mostly talk to women if i whant something from them(LOVE xD)
the problem is that i'm pretty cold and direct and shortbound so I dont like smalltalk. When I'm looking for someone that is worth a relationship i dont think "mmm she's nice maybe,if we meet more and talk more, I will learn to love her"
Women need to have a certain aura to them if they dont... I wont care about them.
I only am interested in women that are somehow unique/special and are not one of the "ordinary" girls. women where you look at them and think to yourself "I absolutely whant to know her"

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That's a good line...You want something from them (love) 🤣

Pretty cold and direct sounds like a great idea to me..small talk..boring..if you don't have anything good to say then why waste time? But I don't think anyone would go up to someone and say "hey..maybe if I talk more with her/him I would fall in love.." I don't think even girls do that 🙄
but for them to have that certain "aura" you will have to get know them abit since sometimes our attraction to them makes our judgement do all the work while reality is something completely different....I can say that I was pretty much like you, I would ignore people for years and never spare a thought just to discover that they are actually pretty amazing people.

And I totaly underestadn that special quality...but that too is a bit intimidating sometimes they don't even have to be attractive.. 😐 I can remember only once maybe being captivated by a guy..He was to me like the mystery of the Nasca lines...rarely talk, very few friends, loner, play the guitar heart, and would spend time on the library reading during lunch 😲 awwww and it didn't help that he was just a cuttie pie....never knew much of the guy except his name and a few flirty looks
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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

i dont think i've ever seen a way to do that without some sorta pain involved.

i would go with the straightforward thing, and just tell em outright, so that it is'nt drag'd out.

hes the dense sorta type....and annoying...i still like him but only as a friend...so i dont wanna hurt him its annoying tho....>_>

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hes the dense sorta type....and annoying...i still like him but only as a friend...so i dont wanna hurt him its annoying tho....>_>

guys are tougher than we get credit for emotionaly (most of the time atleast)
i understand ya care for as a friend, but the thing is, guys are kinda stupid, not all, but alot of em, espically when it comes to feelings(i know i am too lol, i went two years without relizing someone liked me) and by being straight forward you can just help him as a friend get along with it and then you can get back to fun!

well, thats my take on it anyway, ultimintly its gonna be up to you to decide what to do about it 🙂 😃

wow your having boy problems sweet

anyways i dont think its possible to say you arent interested in him without hurt him unless he doesnt really like you but you can try lessing the blow by trying to be meaningful when you say it and dont say "we can still be friends"

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wut wolfie?? surprised?

As if handcuffed, I'm bound to the memories of you...

actually not really but im bored enough to pretend i am

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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

Usually, you have to choose between hurting someone physically or emotionally. So, if you want to avoid hurting him emotionally, hit him. Hard.

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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

"I'm gay" The magic words to get out of any relationship.

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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

Usually, you have to choose between hurting someone physically or emotionally. So, if you want to avoid hurting him emotionally, hit him. Hard.

What if he is a masochist?