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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him??

Usually, you have to choose between hurting someone physically or emotionally. So, if you want to avoid hurting him emotionally, hit him. Hard.

What if he is a masochist?

Then you're doomed no matter what you try. He'll never get it.

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how do u tell a guy u just arent interested without hurting him?? Like I said before, be blunt. Don't try to skirt the issue and hope he figures it out. He'll get over it eventually. Fallofkakashi is right, men have more emotional strength then is probably healthy.

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Hello ladies, I have a question to ask you which is probably different for each person.

I enjoy being around the people i love. If i had a choice to do anything in the world with someone i loved, it wouldn't be a dirty night. I enjoy long walks on the beach as long as she is there, i enjoy hugging and cuddling, and i enjoy watching the sun set over the horizon. That is, of course, my perfect day when accompanied by a special someone. 😳

Now, you always hear from chick flicks and other sources that say that is exactly what a woman is looking for...

so is it? Do you like the type of guy who will take you out to dinner, or the type of guy who will take you to a concert. The kind of guy who will lay his jacket over a puddle to allow you to cross, or the type of guy who will scream your name over the mountain for everyone to hear, so they know just how lucky he is.

Just wondering... 🙂

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so is it? Do you like the type of guy who will take you out to dinner, or the type of guy who will take you to a concert. The kind of guy who will lay his jacket over a puddle to allow you to cross, or the type of guy who will scream your name over the mountain for everyone to hear, so they know just how lucky he is.

I always think things like that are very sweet, but if, and only IF...it's sincere. A lot of guys do that (give you your jacket, pay for dinner, etc), because they want something in return, or just so they can "get some". That's the kind I hate. But smart girls can differentiate a sincere move from a show-off.

I think laying your jacket over a puddle is pretty extreme though. I wouldn't want that. 😀 But I do like it when guys give me their jacket when its cold. 😀 Dinner is nice, but not in some real formal place. I feel like we can't be ourselves in those schmaltzy places. I also think screaming over the mountain is extreme, but I did love it when the guy I was dating introduced me to his sister, in this cute way that made me feel that he was proud of having me there or something. 😀 I'm just too sappy......^^;

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Well... I said what i liked, but perhaps I may have asked the wrong question then...

I said what I considered to be a perfect date on my part, but i want someone here to explain to me what their perfect date would be like! from time of day, to places, to what goes on, to even what you consider a good attire for him to wear. It would be beneficial to know, because i would go on a date to make them as happy as can be, because seeing someone smile is what makes me happy as can be!!! 🙂

Thx Wild Star, you helped me out a little. I guess i understand what too much is, but i would still prolly cross that line. Well, i guess i cant be all that bad, because i got 3 whole smiles from you! 😀

You know, i've never actually carried a jacket around b4, as i dont think i ever looked good in one... but im thinking ill carry one out with me from now on... just incase 🙂

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I said what I considered to be a perfect date on my part, but i want someone here to explain to me what their perfect date would be like! from time of day, to places, to what goes on, to even what you consider a good attire for him to wear. It would be beneficial to know, because i would go on a date to make them as happy as can be, because seeing someone smile is what makes me happy as can be!!! 🙂

You do realize that it's going to depend on the individual, right? You could get 120whatever close-to-identical responses here, and then find out that the girl you actually like has completely different preferences, esp. as far as specific things like where to go & what to wear. You're a lot more likely to get useful information on more general questions than on something as specific as that.

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i understand that completely, and that's fine. In the end, it does indeed come all down to us as to what we do. But I was asking for an idea, so that when i go out on a date and i offer my idea where to go, i will know at that point whether or not she enjoys the idea. If something doesn't work out, it is pretty obvious. But i don't want to go out and have Nothing work out right... so I thought i would ask, hoping someone else would like at least 1 thing that she will, and then she'll at least be happy for a short time which is better than not at all. But i appreciate your opinion, thank you! 🙂

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I would say that girls would like it all! 😉

Someone sensitive and romantic, but at the same time wild, confindent and a challenge. A fusion between "prince charming" and a "rock star". Unfortunately, that's not very common, so they prefer to say "prince charming", although they normally date the "rock stars" types 😀

It also depends on the kind of relationship they are after.

But I'm just guessing, as a feminine brain is something that can't be unpuzzled with scientific methods. 😀

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I said what I considered to be a perfect date on my part, but i want someone here to explain to me what their perfect date would be like! from time of day, to places, to what goes on, to even what you consider a good attire for him to wear. It would be beneficial to know, because i would go on a date to make them as happy as can be, because seeing someone smile is what makes me happy as can be!!! 🙂

like tofuqueen said, you cant get a perfect date from people here, you can only get it from the person your taking on a date

but i got a suggestion for you as well....
just be yourself man, out of everything i've seen, people like it when you are just yourself and you dont put up any kind of front or such...
just be confident
confidence works wonders
i aint talking about that arrogant confidence, but just the casual kind...

good luck tho, i hope it works out for ya 😃

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Someone sensitive and romantic, but at the same time wild, confindent and a challenge. A fusion between "prince charming" and a "rock star". Unfortunately, that's not very common, so they prefer to say "prince charming", although they normally date the "rock stars" types 😀

Date the rock star type and marry the prince charming type, isn't it like that?

Personally, I'll stick to dating the "rock star"~

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Someone sensitive and romantic, but at the same time wild, confindent and a challenge. A fusion between "prince charming" and a "rock star". Unfortunately, that's not very common, so they prefer to say "prince charming", although they normally date the "rock stars" types 😀

Date the rock star type and marry the prince charming type, isn't it like that?

Personally, I'll stick to dating the "rock star"~

Yep, date the man-skank and marry the career man. That's how it always works, isn't it?

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Who said that the rock star type has to be "man-skank"? It's not an either-or thing~

I would date a man-skank if he was hot 😀

Hrm....I don't ever like the nice-kind of guys...lol. Dunno why, I think it's because our personalities are conflicted, because I tend to be blunt when I don't like something. So if he took me to go feckin hiking, I'd probably tell him "Wow this is horrible!" xD

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Who said that the rock star type has to be "man-skank"? It's not an either-or thing~

Just likening it to the attitude of men to date the skank and marry the girl who seems like a house wife. Well, not exactly likening, because I never made the connection in my comment, but that's what was going through my head.

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Edit: I have a question. To those who are bi/gay, whatever. Are you 'out-of-closet'? If so, how did your family react?

Yeppers, I am. Most of my family weren't suprised at all.. 🤣

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