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Girls: how long do you want to be in a relationship before it gets physical? How about on the four bases scale?

Also, how much do girls talk to girlfriends about relationships? cause as far as guys go, one my friends will just say "gonna have sex, see ya" and im wondering whats normal in girl world.

a) depends on the girl, her mood, experience and the commitment level she is ready for. in my case, if its a serius relationship, id take my time, if its a passing fling, itll take no time.

b) "so it was this that and this, and also some of this, but he was a jerk, lets move on."

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@Pirate1019 - Eh I don't think that's the problem. because in private, he's the one asking me for a hug. =P Do you know how long it took for me to man up and be that honest? Longer then it took or her to realize she liked me, which says a lot.

I am curious about hearing a women's timetable for physical intimacy. I'm not a particularly sexually focused guy, but it flusters me trying to sit on the same schedule as a women. Everything feels so reserved.

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I am curious about hearing a women's timetable for physical intimacy. I'm not a particularly sexually focused guy, but it flusters me trying to sit on the same schedule as a women. Everything feels so reserved.

I have never been in that situation...

Maybe I've just dated some loose girls, though...

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I am curious about hearing a women's timetable for physical intimacy. I'm not a particularly sexually focused guy, but it flusters me trying to sit on the same schedule as a women. Everything feels so reserved.

I have never been in that situation...

Maybe I've just dated some loose girls, though...

......

/facepalm.

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I am curious about hearing a women's timetable for physical intimacy. I'm not a particularly sexually focused guy, but it flusters me trying to sit on the same schedule as a women. Everything feels so reserved.

I have never been in that situation...

Maybe I've just dated some loose girls, though...

......

/facepalm.

sigh

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I have never been in that situation...

Maybe I've just dated some loose girls, though...

......

/facepalm.

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Is that your honest reaction? In this thread?

So, any more on that timetable I mentioned? Pie charts and excel sheets are allowed.

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Girls: how long do you want to be in a relationship before it gets physical? How about on the four bases scale?

Also, how much do girls talk to girlfriends about relationships? cause as far as guys go, one my friends will just say "gonna have sex, see ya" and im wondering whats normal in girl world.

Oh and Pearlized: not PDA'ing is a respect thing for other people, so trust me its a nice thing for other people that your boyfriends doing that, dont think its weird. Just when you're in private, go wild to make up the difference 😀

1- this question depends a lot on how old you are. =\ I'm still in high school, and I'd say maybe a week for 1st, 2 weeks for second, 1-4 months for 3rd (eh well I guess it depends on which one you're referring to), and like a year for 4th/home. =P

2- girls talk a lottt. but it's not a boasting thing.. it's more of a "you're my friend and i value your advice" type of thing. but out of courtesy for my boyfriend (who doesn't want details spread around), I don't really talk about it.

I actually didn't know what all of the bases were until a little over a year ago (I didn't really care, sue me). Even now it can still get dicey, since practically everyone I know is split between whether genital fondling counts as second or third base. Not like it matters, I haven't heard anybody refer to the bases system in context to a real relationship in years.

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That's the kind of shit that left me confused for so long. is 'stealing third' genital fondling, in your opinion, or not? Maybe I'm just slow on sexual metaphors.

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^Yes. But I am not the denizen of sexual prudence, so don't take my advice. (as far as how to get around)

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Girls: how long do you want to be in a relationship before it gets physical? How about on the four bases scale?

Also, how much do girls talk to girlfriends about relationships? cause as far as guys go, one my friends will just say "gonna have sex, see ya" and im wondering whats normal in girl world.

1. It depends... so it's hard to answer >.< But unless I really like the guy and had known him for a long time, a good night kiss is the most that he's going to get on the first date.

2. Girls can be brutally honest when talking to their girlfriends about their relationship. If you're intimate with your girlfriend, her bestfriends prolly know almost every detail. Yes, that includes sizes.

Bwahaha! I laugh because it's true. Especially the second one. ESPECIALLY the second one. But yeah, I agree on the first... though you should really check with the girl, because if you assume that she wants to move really, really slowly just because that was her stance on the first date... well, you could be wrong. Really, it varies from girl to girl, so it's more about the girl you're with at the time.

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Girls: Whats the biggest turnoff in guys that a guy might not expect to be a turnoff?