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16 years ago
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I have a few more questions 😛
Not sure if these have been asked though...-If a girl is currently dating or interested in another guy, does this situation motivate you to pursue her more or to just give up? Some girls still go for it when guys are dating other girls, is it the same for guys?
Not really. I'm not a big go getter anyway. When I like person I just spend more time with 'em.
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Do guys like girls with more, or with less sexual experience then them? same applies for relationship experience.
Both have their pluses. The more she knows the better at sexing she will be. Though on the other end someone with little knowledge can be "taught," equally satisfying. The ones who know it all, but cant or won't do it is where it sucks.
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-Do guys really have a fetish for like example: maid, nurse, school girl costumes? I know they do, but around what age are guys really into that stuff?
Honestly ever since I knew they existed I kinda had a thing for 'em.
16 years ago
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Do guys like girls with more, or with less sexual experience then them? same applies for relationship experience.
Both have their pluses. The more she knows the better at sexing she will be. Though on the other end someone with little knowledge can be "taught," equally satisfying. The ones who know it all, but cant or won't do it is where it sucks.
Seems like guys like girls with experience. Somehow I always thought that guys would prefer virgins over non virgins because it's more arousing, form what I've read anyway. I guess I was a little off there. 😐
16 years ago
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For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls, but lets keep things real, girls are not virgins forever >_> and if you like a girl a lot the last you want to know is how many times she has done it and with who.
That is why is better to never know... heck If you know you are her first that puts some pressure on your shoulders (GOOD "pressure", but nevertheless is still pressure), and if you know she is already in triple digits (the word whore will be used) by your friends or by yourself in a discussion.
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For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
only an inexperienced guy should choose a virgin or virgin-like girl, cmon: if you had experience, you dont want your partner to be taught everything from scratch, its annoying.
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I need a die with 2 sides.
That's known as a "coin".
Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.
16 years ago
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So for a serious relationship you want an experienced girl that knows EVERYTHING? to the point in with the question (WHERE THE FUCK SHE LEARNED THIS!!!) will pop to your head every 2 minutes?
Don't know you, but I don't like that >_>
Also if you love her you should be willing to act as a teacher 😛
16 years ago
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For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls, but lets keep things real, girls are not virgins forever >_> and if you like a girl a lot the last you want to know is how many times she has done it and with who.
Well yeah for a serious relationship. And of course girls don't stay virgins forever same can be said about guys...it's really hard to find a guy that's a virgin. But your last comment I find a bit wrong, I've met guys who always ask me about my past relationships be it with sexual experience or not, and when you don't answer they get paranoid.
only an inexperienced guy should choose a virgin or virgin-like girl, cmon: if you had experience, you dont want your partner to be taught everything from scratch, its annoying.
Guess you're not patient 🙄
But seriously if you had the chance to choose between a virgin or a non virgin, and both are equally pretty, have a great personality and what not, which would you choose? And aren't guys even thinking if girls compare them to past guys based on how they are in bed? Guys must be a bit self-conscious in that situation.
16 years ago
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Well Virginity in a guy is more a mind state than a psychical state ^_^
Those guys are afraid of the past, I always say past is past and I can't change it, so the only thing that matters is If I like the girl or not, besides most of the important stuff can be learned by side characters (Friends, Family and whatnot and most of the time you don't even need to ask >_> )
PS: I like to teach/corrupt... is the greatest feeling of all 😃 😁
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For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
From the land of delusions.
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For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
From the land of delusions.
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I need a die with 2 sides.
That's known as a "coin".
Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.
16 years ago
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For me, the most important thing is trust, and the next is compatibility. I can literally tell my husband anything and everything. Granted, the only skeletons I have I don't care that most people know, but because certain sections of society tend to frown upon it, I don't make it public knowledge. (It'd probably break my grandmother's heart, so it will NOT come out before she dies.)
One of my ex's is currently living with me and my husband, and one of his ex's was living with us before that. (Both are very close friends to both of us at this point, though I didn't know her that well before him, and he didn't know my friend that well before me, even though we all played on the same online game together.) We're very compatible in that he and I think alike on most things, such as being able to be friends with ex's after the relationship is over. And because we trust each other, living with them is never a concern.
At the same time, he and I fill the gaps in each other's knowledge and abilities. He's not my ideal physically, but I don't care about that. (He's the only guy I dated who is shorter than me. It feels wrong since most of my ex's were over 6' 0" and he's 5' 7".) It may be [a Jerry McGuire] cliche to say, but he really does complete me, and we knew it pretty well instantly. I really never expected that to happen.
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."
16 years ago
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[quote=Chaoswind]For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
From the land of delusions.
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Um guys he said a serious relationship. Unless you're okay with having a serious relationship with a girl who has done more than 10 guys from a girl who probably only had sex/experience with 1 or 2 guys. If you choose the former than I wonder how serious a relationship you're looking for or how long it will last for that matter. 🤨
@Liria- I think it's absolutely great that you have such a understanding and trustworthy relationship with your husband! Trust is a must in a relationship, I'm glad that your marriage is proof of that.. 🙂
16 years ago
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[quote=grandexeno][quote=Chaoswind]For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
From the land of delusions.
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Um guys he said a serious relationship. Unless you're okay with having a serious relationship with a girl who has done more than 10 guys from a girl who probably only had sex/experience with 1 or 2 guys. If you choose the former than I wonder how serious a relationship you're looking for or how long it will last for that matter. 🤨 [/quote]
Your opinion might change when you're older and have had 10 boyfriends already.
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16 years ago
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I really would not ask exactly how many guys the girl I was dating had been with, but if I had to choose the amount of sexual experience they had, well I would say that I would be nice to be on a more level playing field, but not something I would change a relationship over in any way. If we connected, we connected for reasons other than sex.
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[quote=Mamsmilk][quote=grandexeno][quote=Chaoswind]For a serious relationship guys do prefer the less experienced girls
lol and where does this come from? 🤣
From the land of delusions.
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Um guys he said a serious relationship. Unless you're okay with having a serious relationship with a girl who has done more than 10 guys from a girl who probably only had sex/experience with 1 or 2 guys. If you choose the former than I wonder how serious a relationship you're looking for or how long it will last for that matter. 🤨 [/quote]
Your opinion might change when you're older and have had 10 boyfriends already.
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