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17 years ago
Posts: 1850
Quote from Pocono
like rule 1: always take the opposite of what they say ?
My god, I am so utterly sick of that stereotype, and any female who plays up to it or reinforces it. 🤢
SOME of us females are pretty damn straightforward, mean what we say, and don't expect people/guys to read our minds and "just know" what we want, expect, etc. 🙄
I'm single and fine with it. If I meet someone, great, if I don't, still great. There are advantages to being single & advantages to being with someone; right now single wins hands down. 😀
(And what the hell is up with all those "it's complicated" votes?? How complicated can it be, unless you're going out of your way to make your life difficult??)
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
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17 years ago
Posts: 412
Quote from TofuQueen
Quote from Pocono
like rule 1: always take the opposite of what they say ?
My god, I am so utterly sick of that stereotype, and any female who plays up to it or reinforces it. 🤢
SOME of us females are pretty damn straightforward, mean what we say, and don't expect people/guys to read our minds and "just know" what we want, expect, etc. 🙄
Seconded!

17 years ago
Posts: 176
the exception proves the rule....
Well, you can have a forward personality, while still being influenced by your emotions. 😮
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17 years ago
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this is turning into a fight i guess 😛

17 years ago
Posts: 176
yay fight, mission accomplished
and yes i dont have a gf 😉

17 years ago
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Quote from Dr. Love
Well, you can have a forward personality, while still being influenced by your emotions. 😮
^What I was going to say. 😮

17 years ago
Posts: 1850
Quote from Dr. Love
Well, you can have a forward personality, while still being influenced by your emotions. 😮
...which has nothing at all to do with meaning the opposite of what you say (unless you're messing up words because you're upset, but that's clearly not "always take the opposite of what they say"). 🙄
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
-James Nicoll, can.general, March 21, 1992

17 years ago
Posts: 492
Quote from Pocono
like rule 1: always take the opposite of what they say ?
girl: i like you blush
guy: ?! what the hell did i do!!?!?!?
rule one, rejected.
Let's get Kickin' ...whatever that means
Quote from TofuQueen
...which has nothing at all to do with meaning the opposite of what you say (unless you're messing up words because you're upset, but that's clearly not "always take the opposite of what they say"). 🙄
I am no match for your wisdom. 😛
But still even straight-forward people
do have topics they're sensitive about.
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17 years ago
Posts: 1850
Quote from Dr. Love
But still even straight-forward people do have topics they're sensitive about.
Of course. But straight-forward people will just tell you it's not something they want to talk about, rather than get all huffy because "you should know better" or some such crap.
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
-James Nicoll, can.general, March 21, 1992

17 years ago
Posts: 412
Well I do admit being "straight-forward" is hard a lot of times (especially girls because they're half expected to be passive and modest). Girls (or at least my friends) often don't like to "take the first step" because they don't want to be considered "loose" or "slutty" or "needy". And me, I don't like to burden people, so I try to say say answers that are more beneficial to the other person (ie. "Do you want me to pay for dinner?" "No." etc.)

17 years ago
Posts: 156
nope, single and loving it. I plan on staying that way for the rest of my life. 😃

17 years ago
Posts: 2172
new bf 😳