Quote from ShadowSakura

thanks to all of you, but just to say, please don´t make my relationship a case. We have already accepted the fact that our friends shouldn´t know about our realtionship, but i think that this makes our bond stronger.

sorry then 😀
I dont have a bad intention, good luck on ur relationship 😀

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Quote from Klapzi

Firstly, yeah, I have a Girlfriend and in 4 days we will complete 2 years of realtionship

About sakura's "case"
I think both mamsmilk and you are wrong in a way(mamsmilk I wish everyone in the world was like you)

It's not easy as mamsmilk say, but it's not impossible as you say...

I know because I already had an situation like yours, tough I was younger at the time and I think being younger made it easier, since social circles were less estabilished
Long version in spoilers, for the ones who don't want to read crap just avoid

But it went like this:
I had this girl I knew since we were like 7 years old, when I was about 13 I started noticing her and vice versa. The problem was, she didn't grew to be so cute and I + my 4 friends were something like the popular group, when I told them about she liking me they laughed and say she was ugly etcetc. This went on the whole year, she tried to talk to me and I always dished her out only considering how other would look at me. Started dating a cuter girl I didn't like and stuff. In the end of the year after class she took me to a deserted place and started crying, saying she liked me and how I was acting different from the boy she liked. I got angry and said...well things one person should never say to another. Days after that she left the school, I felt like crap and cryied a lot and then decided I would NEVER look down on someone because of looks, likes and dislikes. The next day I said the same thing I told you guys to my friends, 2 of them said "do whatever you want" and the other 2 said "I agree with you"... These two guys, 3 years later are still my best friends, people I love the most. who support me in any situation, that I trust with all my being.

I liked a girl who looked...normal and knew she liked me, once I told about this to my "friends"(not the part about me liking her) and they said, "how pitiful, she's so ugly. In the end of the year After some time with this going, me ignoring her, she trying to talk to me. She said she like me and that I was acting different from how I was before, I hurted her a lot, she cryied and left the school. After that I decided I wouldn't look doen on others because of looks nor likings.
I told my friends about that(four at the time) 2 just "ignored" and the other 2 agreed with me, and today are still my best friends.

Now I think, what would I be today if I never had told them about how I felt?
I would still have the same "friends" , still "like" the same girls, I would still be the shit I was then

I know it really isn't easy to be open about it, but I just HIGHLY recommend him to tell them, by doing this he will only be separating, the persons who can bring him joy and the ones who are just holding his happiness back....

Well telling them or not, I really wish the bst to you since I can relate to this

dude you rock! (i read your spoiler tag)
lucky your GF 😉
not all people in that age can make such resolve

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i have a boyfriend of three years now 10/31/07. at first it was a secret from friends and family after about half a year some friends found out and after a year family all knew it was all very difficult keeping it a secret, denying it, and attending different schools. some of my friends still want me to leave him so at times im split in two. well all i can say is things arent all ways easy, but as along as your both happy its all that you need.

vanishcore and comel

Well, I never expected the post to get any repercussion...Im flattered, thank you

vanishcore, learning from our mistakes is all we can do isn't it?

comel, since we are in a manga community I will give you a manga example. When shounen heros face really strong opponents and say "I will take you down", and everyone goes, what? thats impossible, hide yo wives.
The main guy is stupid, he dosn't know how strong the opponent is, and that is exactly why he takes the challange and that is why the opponent is not impossible to beat
What happened was the same thing, taking this decision wasn't maturity, I was just being stupid and immature, and not knowing how difficult it was to be an "anomaly"(in Durkheim words) I went and did it, as a shounen hero does. >>>>> And this "recklessness" is something you luckly or not, lose with time....If I had to do it today, I don't know if I could

To sakura, be sure that if your relationship can get through this, it will be so strong that almost nothing will be able to break it. gambarimasu

I have a girlfriend right now, but she's been behaving kinda odd lately...

My paranoid side is fearing for the worst, but I guess that comes what may, I'll just have to take it on. And then, she's quite a cutie too.

Nopes I broke up.

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im single
for the past 2 years(10th and 11th grade) i've been concentrating alot on studies (the curriculum im studying is quite hard and the last 3 years are very important if you want to get into a good uni) and club activities...so i didnt have any free time let alone time to think of relationships...as it is handling "friendships" is enough nuisance

and since im going to be a senior next year it would be a waste of time to start dating someone coz chances are that...we might never see eachother again after graduating(and i would never get into a long-distance relationship i dont have enough patience haha)

so at the moment im not giving it much thought

No boyfriend for me, not really happy about it, but too lazy to go look for one. I'll just sit and wait for one to come to me.

If I'm 25 and still single, I might just try leaving the door open, put some beer in the fridge, and place an opener where it can be easily spotted, and one will show up on its own; I heard that's supposed to work, and I think that by then I'm sufficiently desperate to believe it 😐 .

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nope.. i want my bf to be Ren.(skip beat)

"trust noboDY"

Not since last year but my relationship status is by choice(or at least that's what i like to believe xD) 😛

I'd lose a part of my charm were I not single.

Plus most girls need to start at lower level, like dating some nascar fan
who wears a cap to bed.

Yes 😀

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Quote from WandereroftheDeep

If I'm 25 and still single, I might just try leaving the door open, put some beer in the fridge, and place an opener where it can be easily spotted, and one will show up on its own; I heard that's supposed to work, and I think that by then I'm sufficiently desperate to believe it 😐 .

I laughed so much. Are you trapping a wild animal?

Does the walker choose the path, or the path the walker?

I think I'm somewhat maybe in a relationship.... it's kinda complicated, haha..... but maybe not.....

Quote from WandereroftheDeep

If I'm 25 and still single, I might just try leaving the door open, put some beer in the fridge, and place an opener where it can be easily spotted, and one will show up on its own; I heard that's supposed to work, and I think that by then I'm sufficiently desperate to believe it 😐 .

... Oh my.... be careful if you do try this. @_@ Make sure to have a gun or defense weapon ready in case it doesn't turn out the way you wanted....... like if someone came to rob your house.... or your money.... or something else that's valuable.... or if someone tries to jump you or something........

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