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17 years ago
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For those who don't want to read a wall of text: [color=red]Are there any asian women out there that would be kind enough to give me advice on how to best approach another asian women.[/color]

Ok faceless internet masses. I have decided to stop taking half measures, and actually follow through with a course of action. What that action is? Well, first, it might be better for a little back story... bear with me for a moment, I will try to make this as a painless read as possible for you.

I am a person who is interested in being happy, to put it more eloquently, i enjoy chasing my own bliss, where ever that takes me. At the moment that very bliss has led me to a college life of drunken merriment and 1 night stands. Now at first it was alright, heck it was more than alright; it was a blast. But, with my attention span being what it is, i have began to grow tired of the endless party scene. How to best phrase this, i feel like Edward Norton in fight club; when he talks about the volume of life around him beginning to be turned down. That's how I feel at this juncture, so with me losing interest in my old ways, i have decided to do a pull a social 180 and try to find a new source of happiness.

What is this new bliss i have decided to chase you may wonder? To put it bluntly, a serious relationship, a girlfriend. Now obviously if it were that simple i wouldnt be here right now, but where to begin with the complications. Again, bear with me as i try to give some perspective so you can better understand my situation.

-Everything that preceded and follows is completely true to help you better understand my situation-
I am a 20 year old white( Polish to be exact) male attending a very large college in America, University of Arizona, maybe you have heard of it. I am an attractive person, and i have confidence in my appearance, although i am not cocky. Call it game or way with women, i believe i have it; at least to the point where sleeping with women has lost most of its challenge. (Well white women at least) To put it bluntly, getting white women in loose social settings, be it bars, parties, clubs, or 1 night stands; has lost all of its challenge, and therefore its excitement and entertainment. But, my problem arises from there, because although i believe myself to be talented with women in a frivolous manner, i have no talent when it comes to serious relationships.

And here is where it gets even more difficult for me. I also have a fascination with different cultures especially asian culture, even more so with asian women, who i find very attractive. This probably stems from the most enjoyable experience i had in my more cavalier times, which was with an asian girl. With her it was some how different from all the rest of the women i had been with, some how better, more interesting and exciting. I still dont know why, but this being known, i came to the appealing conclusion that i would very much like to seriously date an asian girl.

Now while i have success with women, i have virtually no success with serious relationships; much less in relationships with asian women. So finally the question i have been meaning to ask, and you have been probably been waiting to hear. [color=red]Are there any asian women out there that would be kind enough to give me advice on how to best approach another asian women.[/color] Keep in mind that this is the collegiate setting, and i dont know if they are asian exchange students, or asian-americans.

All serious advice will be most welcome.
I normally wouldnt be making such an embarassing request, but i just find the cute asian girls that i meet to be difficult to approach and carry on a conversation with. Anyways you have my thanks, and in return for good advice, i can share whatever advice i have acquired throughout my activities.


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dam, that took some reading. 😮

cudn't you have just put the question?...............


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what is the point of a question with out a proper reason?


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Because a wall of text just kills people's eyes.


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i should of figured as much... but than again it shouldnt destroy eyes as long as you leave the lights on when reading off a computers screen, or else you will seriously damage your vision..


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lol but i really have to agree that was too long. but interesting too. 😀 well i am gonna ask u something then why dont u treat them like normal ppl? just beacuse they r asians it doent have to be hard to approach them... of course this is my opinion only just wanted to write something cause i spent too much time reading this long post 😛


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yeah but some of them are like foreign exchange i believe... even more factors of difficulty


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That made me laugh~

Try not to be so cocky maybe. Erm, good luck?

loves seeing guys with Asian fetish try to talk to foreign students in campus


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Stop typing so much and go outside for a start.


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Quote from gan17

Stop typing so much and go outside for a start.

Pro tip.


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Quote from gan17

Stop typing so much and go outside for a start.

This.

Sooooooo this.


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My eyes hurt.

school computers suck >.>


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Quote from ahoaho

Quote from gan17

Stop typing so much and go outside for a start.

This.

Sooooooo this.

I agree.

very much so.


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Quote from gan17

Stop typing so much and go outside for a start.

Agreed. Do this! 🤣

Eeeeeeee.....
Ok.....
All I can say is, just approach to them as to any other woman...
I don't really understand why you're so worked up about them being asian...

Good luck.. I guess~.~


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No asian here, and definitely not woman. But just try to approach them like you would approach any other woman. And yeah, cockiness is usually a turn-off for women, doesn't mean you can't show it now and then. Just tone it down a bit.

And to have a serious relationship, you need commitment/loyalty on your part and really go for it. Try to make every day interesting with her in your own way, so that you keep falling in love with her 😕

@posters: Try to actually give an answer to the problem...


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