Falling In love
Member14 years ago
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I made this thread bcuz,,, I'm currently in love with a guy he's my friend, close friend, classmate, uncle (fake; for our family at school). We've known each other for almost 4 years now once I enrolled to his school we become pretty close, I think it's bcuz we're both athletics tho he keep teasing me since I'm small xD.........
But the thing is he already have someone else, to him I'm juz a friend who's always there to support him,,, but it hurts seeing them together, when he smiles at her then he'll smile at him,, sometimes "i wish i'd juz dissappear from the world" or "I wish I never came in Australia" but also at the same time I'm happy juz seeing him...
Every night i keep asking myself "Why did u fall in love with a guy who already have someone else"
ugh this is the worse~~!! i don't now wat do u anymore.. sigh
Also there are times when he's going to say "I love u" to me if I bought him some food, help him with his homeworks, or if he become team-mates (if our team wins) etc.... I'll tell him "I love u too" and smile but hearing him say that it hurts cuz for him it's juz as a friend and nithing else 🙁
It hurts but at the same time I'm happy ---- wat a complicated feeling...
NOTE: This is my fav quotes so far
The worst way to miss someone, is to have them sitting right next to you & you know you can never have them.
Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else.
It's painful to fall in love with someone who has someone else especially if you tried everything to ignore the feelings... Worst if that someone made you feel as if you're someone special but then you're just special and never would be LOVED...
P.S: please if u have any adive or expercience if it's possible can u please share them
sorry for asking something like thisbow bow 😳 😳
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Member14 years ago
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good to be young isn't it 😃
I never fallen in love yet 🤢 , so I can't say anything.
sometimes I feel really weird 🤢
"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"
14 years ago
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🙁 I haven't fall in love yet so I can't give any advice even if I want to.. lol im young xD
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Steal him if you can make him happier.
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Don't you think this is a bit over dramatic? You are still young and you will meet more people in the future. Most likely, you'll experience this same situation again. My advice is to get over him since he already has someone he cares about. Don't try to interfere with their relationship it's a trashy thing to do. Plus, even if you did manage to successfully steal him away from his current girlfriend would you honestly feel comfortable being with such a fickle boy? Don't waste your time just move on.
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I'm not really young anymore 🤢 , it just never happened.
all I can say, that I envy you.
"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"
14 years ago
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I've never fallen in love yet either in my 20 years of life, but it appears that the best way to get over your crush is to get a new one; so, find someone who will love you back and fall in love with him.
If falling in love naturally isn't coming along too well, you could always try to use the suspension bridge effect to your advantage 🙂 .
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Quote from WandereroftheDeep
I've never fallen in love yet either in my 20 years of life, but it appears that the best way to get over your crush is to get a new one; so, find someone who will love you back and fall in love with him.
If falling in love naturally isn't coming along too well, you could always try to use the suspension bridge effect to your advantage 🙂 .
you mean to use the suspension bridge effect to myself? XD
"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"
14 years ago
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Quote from WandereroftheDeep
I've never fallen in love yet either in my 20 years of life, but it appears that the best way to get over your crush is to get a new one; so, find someone who will love you back and fall in love with him.
If falling in love naturally isn't coming along too well, you could always try to use the suspension bridge effect to your advantage 🙂 .you mean to use the suspension bridge effect to myself? XD
No, the comment was aimed at shiira.yuuki.187; your comment wasn't there yet when I started typing 😛 .
And that probably wouldn't work; you need to put at least two people in an enclosed area for the suspension bridge effect to take effect 🤣 .
14 years ago
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haha dont worry you'll get over him sooner or later
you're probably feeling lonely and he's right in front of you so tada! you fall in love
all i can say is : dont make a move or tell him anything coz if you do his gf will never leave you be(this happened to a friend of mine ,trust me girls' bullying is a thousand times worse than a punch in the face)
anyways goodluck who knows...you might end up with him after all you've known him for 4 years 🙂
14 years ago
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Just be friend with him. I think it will not cause too much tense in your relationship. Everyone will be happier that way. 😀
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It's not love.
Love isn't a word that should be thrown around lightly - especially at your age. There is a whole life ahead of you. There will be others who will ignite this feeling of "love", so you should think thoroughly whether or not you really like this guy or just...move on :\
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Quote from LawX
Don't you think this is a bit over dramatic? You are still young and you will meet more people in the future. Most likely, you'll experience this same situation again. My advice is to get over him since he already has someone he cares about. Don't try to interfere with their relationship it's a trashy thing to do. Plus, even if you did manage to successfully steal him away from his current girlfriend would you honestly feel comfortable being with such a fickle boy? Don't waste your time just move on.
QFT.
You're young. You'll get over it. Seriously.
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I was actually in a similar situation. Twice. One time it did not turn out so well, and after that I realised it wasn't love (I was going through a few issues and just really needed somebody to confide in) and was able to salvage the friendship. The second time she left her boyfriend to be with me. We might not still be together, but we were in love.
As for advice, well I have 3 suggestions. One is to just bide your time and wait until they break up. If it really is love then you'll be able to stand the wait, and it will be worth it. Another suggestion is to try to forget about your feelings. Try to meet other people and all that. Lastly, just say "screw it" and go for it. Some grand gesture. If/when you get shot down, at least you'll know that you tried.
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Quote from Domonkazu
good to be young isn't it 😃
I never fallen in love yet 🤢 , so I can't say anything.
sometimes I feel really weird 🤢
yeh... hehe it's ok,,,
weird?? doushite 😕 😕
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🙁 I haven't fall in love yet so I can't give any advice even if I want to.. lol im young xD
ehhe,, nah it's alright,,,,
I'm young too ^_^
NOTE: I always get mistaken for being 12 years old,,, how sad 🙁
Quote from Mamsmilk
Steal him if you can make him happier.
hahaha,,, I wish I could but I'm too nice (everyone always say this to me)
also I can't take him away if he's happy with her,,, then yeh the girl (his GF) is also my friend...
So I can't really do that,,, xD
Quote from LawX
Don't you think this is a bit over dramatic? You are still young and you will meet more people in the future. Most likely, you'll experience this same situation again. My advice is to get over him since he already has someone he cares about. Don't try to interfere with their relationship it's a trashy thing to do. Plus, even if you did manage to successfully steal him away from his current girlfriend would you honestly feel comfortable being with such a fickle boy? Don't waste your time just move on.
nyah.,.... thank u for that advice.. also dw I'm not someone who steal as person from someone else (does that make sense?)
Also of course I'm trying my best to move on,,, 🙂
Quote from WandereroftheDeep
I've never fallen in love yet either in my 20 years of life, but it appears that the best way to get over your crush is to get a new one; so, find someone who will love you back and fall in love with him.
If falling in love naturally isn't coming along too well, you could always try to use the suspension bridge effect to your advantage 🙂 .
😮 ... really 😕 well that happen i mean me I never expected to fall in love especially to a person who already have someone else....
and yep,,, that's true since there are people who likes me but i haven't said yes to them cuz I want to completely get over this feeling,,,, since i don't wanna hurt the person I'm going out with xD...
tnx for the advice btw <3 😀
Quote from darcyaglow
Just be friend with him. I think it will not cause too much tense in your relationship. Everyone will be happier that way. 😀
yep,, that's wat i'm intendint to do right now and that's true,,,
It's not love.
Love isn't a word that should be thrown around lightly - especially at your age. There is a whole life ahead of you. There will be others who will ignite this feeling of "love", so you should think thoroughly whether or not you really like this guy or just...move on :\
yes,,, true but it's not something i can control.. also I'm trying my best to move on 🙂
haha dont worry you'll get over him sooner or later
you're probably feeling lonely and he's right in front of you so tada! you fall in love
all i can say is : dont make a move or tell him anything coz if you do his gf will never leave you be(this happened to a friend of mine ,trust me girls' bullying is a thousand times worse than a punch in the face)
anyways goodluck who knows...you might end up with him after all you've known him for 4 years
nod nod,,,, that part maybe no ^^...... yah,, i'm well aware of that also she's my friend and I can't hurt her... hehe yep thank u.... yeh maybe, tho we're often mistaken as a coupl =_+.....
Note: If the GIRLS bully me I'm not sure wat to do,, i mean I never hurt a girl b4 i mean physically.... but I beat up guys who crossed the line, hurt me physically (intentionally) etc
Kinda scary <<<<< bow 😲
◕ ONE PIECE
◕ YAOI
◕ SHOUJO - WITH NOT SO ANNOYING HEROINE
◕ ANIME
◕ Asian Drama
◕ MUSIC - J-POP/K-POP
I can't put the siggy I want to this is what I did
