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um, I have a question you virgins out there. Can you tell me about more yourself, I wanna know whether virginity has anything to do with look, outgoingness or it is more like a reflection of your standard for partner.

It would be rude if I just ask and don't talk about myself. I am male 23. I consider myself good looking and outgoing, you can check if you really want to 😛
I hold back because I don't wanna have sex randomly. I think people should only have sex when they are in genuine, beneficial relationships.

I'll answer. I don't believe in sex before marriage, I was raised Christian and that is a non-negotiable for me and honestly I just don't care about sex. I don't care if I ever have it, doesn't interest me much. In general I'm not a touchy feely person and it usually takes a long time (like years) knowing someone before I'm comfortable even hugging them. I don't want kids and that is the only reason I can see for going through something that seems rather smellly and dirty and in general not worth the effort when you could just get a massage or something instead.

There is also the matter of me not accepting dates in the first place because a relationship at this point just seems too much effort to maintain.

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um, I have a question you virgins out there. Can you tell me about more yourself, I wanna know whether virginity has anything to do with look, outgoingness or it is more like a reflection of your standard for partner.

It would be rude if I just ask and don't talk about myself. I am male 23. I consider myself good looking and outgoing, you can check if you really want to 😛
I hold back because I don't wanna have sex randomly. I think people should only have sex when they are in genuine, beneficial relationships.

I'll answer. I don't believe in sex before marriage, I was raised Christian and that is a non-negotiable for me and honestly I just don't care about sex. I don't care if I ever have it, doesn't interest me much. In general I'm not a touchy feely person and it usually takes a long time (like years) knowing someone before I'm comfortable even hugging them. I don't want kids and that is the only reason I can see for going through something that seems rather smellly and dirty and in general not worth the effort when you could just get a massage or something instead.

There is also the matter of me not accepting dates in the first place because a relationship at this point just seems too much effort to maintain. =[

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Mine was at the age of 15. I don't exactly remember it cause I was really drunk at the time. Not like I'm regretting it, I don't really give a damn, never met the girl again either so it just happened like that. MOst of the time its not the kinda stuff you see in movies (or manga), it just happens, often embarassing especially if both of the participants are beginners (missing holes, not knowing how to put on a condom, pathetic foreplay) but after some time you look back and laugh 😀

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Mine was at the age of 15. I don't exactly remember it cause I was really drunk at the time. Not like I'm regretting it, I don't really give a damn, never met the girl again either so it just happened like that. MOst of the time its not the kinda stuff you see in movies (or manga), it just happens, often embarassing especially if both of the participants are beginners (missing holes, not knowing how to put on a condom, pathetic foreplay) but after some time you look back and laugh 😀

Never had that problem, just slipping out a couple of times 😀 but that's more funny then bad ^^

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Mine was at the age of 15. I don't exactly remember it cause I was really drunk at the time. Not like I'm regretting it, I don't really give a damn, never met the girl again either so it just happened like that. MOst of the time its not the kinda stuff you see in movies (or manga), it just happens, often embarassing especially if both of the participants are beginners (missing holes, not knowing how to put on a condom, pathetic foreplay) but after some time you look back and laugh 😀

Never had that problem, just slipping out a couple of times :D but that's more funny then bad ^^

Wow, please put up spoilers... did not want to read that.

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Mine was at the age of 15. I don't exactly remember it cause I was really drunk at the time. Not like I'm regretting it, I don't really give a damn, never met the girl again either so it just happened like that. MOst of the time its not the kinda stuff you see in movies (or manga), it just happens, often embarassing especially if both of the participants are beginners (missing holes, not knowing how to put on a condom, pathetic foreplay) but after some time you look back and laugh 😀

Never had that problem, just slipping out a couple of times :D but that's more funny then bad ^^

Wow, please put up spoilers... did not want to read that.

haha lol 😎

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15 and still a virgin...to scared to freak,had PLENTY of chances but if my friends ask me at school ill be like "hell yeah" and make up a reasonable number and say "nine thousand five hundred and ninety nine times" if i get desperate ill go find me a fat girl and freak her but i'm not desperate. I have a girlfriend at the moment her name is hand-rella

I'm still a virgin as well, but I've never even had a boyfriend before, so I'm not really worried or anything. I want to wait until I'm love to have sex, but not necessarily married. I know I definitely want it someday, but I'm kind of scared. I was raised in a really conservative and Catholic family and I spent the first 11 years of my life hearing about how dirty sex was and that I should never ever have it for as long as I live. and then I heard how babies were made and my outlook on life changed a lot. O_O it suddenly made my parents into hypocrites..

@TaDa_Baka - I guess I would say that I'm average to slightly below average in looks. But that's something that I don't think will change with sex. o_O I'm not very outgoing, but I really wish I was. I used to be, but then some stuff happened, and I've become pretty shy. I'm working on it though.

on a random note, I would prefer the person I fall in love with (and have my first time with) to be at least somewhat experienced. something tells me it would be easier if at least one person knew what they were doing. xP

have I responded to this topic before? I'm not sure.. o_o

<_< I too am a virgin...

_;;; Enough said...

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I'm still a virgin as well, but I've never even had a boyfriend before, so I'm not really worried or anything. I want to wait until I'm love to have sex, but not necessarily married. I know I definitely want it someday, but I'm kind of scared. I was raised in a really conservative and Catholic family and I spent the first 11 years of my life hearing about how dirty sex was and that I should never ever have it for as long as I live. and then I heard how babies were made and my outlook on life changed a lot. O_O it suddenly made my parents into hypocrites..

@TaDa_Baka - I guess I would say that I'm average to slightly below average in looks. But that's something that I don't think will change with sex. o_O I'm not very outgoing, but I really wish I was. I used to be, but then some stuff happened, and I've become pretty shy. I'm working on it though.

on a random note, I would prefer the person I fall in love with (and have my first time with) to be at least somewhat experienced. something tells me it would be easier if at least one person knew what they were doing. xP

have I responded to this topic before? I'm not sure.. o_o

WHAT you never had a boyfriend!!! how did i miss that sentence!
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WHAT you never had a boyfriend!!! how did i miss that sentence!
May the powerful one bless you with a man's touch

I find your statement to be boorish and offensive. She already gave her reasons for abstaining, and doesn't need your commentary.

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