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WHAT you never had a boyfriend!!! how did i miss that sentence!
May the powerful one bless you with a man's touch

I find your statement to be boorish and offensive. She already gave her reasons for abstaining, and doesn't need your commentary.

Dang was anybody talking to you, i was referring "powerful one'' to be god and to
''bless her""..with the love she's looking for,if your looking for something outrageous and not boorish,go talk to someone your age and stop concentrating so hard on what people post 🙂

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WHAT you never had a boyfriend!!! how did i miss that sentence!
May the powerful one bless you with a man's touch

I find your statement to be boorish and offensive. She already gave her reasons for abstaining, and doesn't need your commentary.

thanks. (:

@mastercontrol - it's not like a girl can't survive without a guy and vise versa. o_o

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Considering you're not a virgin, of course... >__>;

Mine was when I was 15. It was a mistake, and I regret it up to this day. ^^; But what can you do?

For those wondering...

I used to be this huge loner in my freshman year of High School. I spent all of middle school as an outcast. x__X; So when this guy I merely knew by sight one day comes up to me and actually tells me he LIKES me, I was all taken aback. o_O At first I thought it was a joke people put him up to, so I rejected him. Because I got really annoyed by people picking on me 24/7. It didn't hurt me anymore [i was used to it], but it was just plain annoying. >_>;

Well, obvsly, I started thinking about him. Even if he WAS joking, he was the first person to ever tell me they liked me. And I guess it touched me? o_O; He was in my Math class, and kept being really nice to me, and stood up for me at times. So I guess I started believing that he was serious. ^^; Long story short, I eventually started going out with him. After about a month, he started pressuring me into having sex. I didn't want him to not like me, so being the idiot I was at the time, I had sex with him. :3 Not only he did take my virginity, he took my first kiss. >_> And.. other firsts of mine.

A week later, it was all over the school. -_- Little prick HAD just been playing with me. It had been a dare between some other pricks to see if he could steal my virginity. Such nice people. 8D <3 Of course, it was also my fault for being so stupid... >> I still see the little prick around school, and and he always used to joke about my virginity. "HEY, VAL, SO LIEK, IMMA SELL YOUR VIRGINITY IN eBAY" and stuffz like that. When my boyfriend found out last year, overhearing one of his little comments when he came to pick me up from school, he threatened him. MY KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR! 8D He's left me alone since then. n.n <3 Yay? n.n

But, ah, I'm fine now. I'm more confident, and if I could, I would rewind time and give my virginity to someone more special. ^^; My REAL first time having sex was last year, but it wasn't really as special as I always fantasized, because I really really wanted to give him my virginity. tear ;-; I always dreamed my first time having sex would be like, really special and with the person I loved. >_> How nice of that person to ruin my fantasies. n.n <3

OH, WELL, MY BOYFRIEND IS JUST AMAZING. ;D <3 I'll make it up to him. xD <3

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I want to compare boy/girl results. =o

this could be like a manga story you can write about.

This topic is really cool. Usually, talks like these things cannot be shared easily even with closest friends. The open post from different people made me feel cozy 🙂

I don't know but, hmm, can you consider your virginity lost when you did smutty things EXCEPT the penetration part?

I have that case, so I don't know where to place myself 🙂

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This topic is really cool. Usually, talks like these things cannot be shared easily even with closest friends. The open post from different people made me feel cozy 🙂

I don't know but, hmm, can you consider your virginity lost when you did smutty things EXCEPT the penetration part?

I have that case, so I don't know where to place myself 🙂

Well, could you describe your situation? 😀 😀

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This topic is really cool. Usually, talks like these things cannot be shared easily even with closest friends. The open post from different people made me feel cozy 🙂

I don't know but, hmm, can you consider your virginity lost when you did smutty things EXCEPT the penetration part?

I have that case, so I don't know where to place myself 🙂

Well, could you describe your situation? 😀 😀

No, and I don't want her to.

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This topic is really cool. Usually, talks like these things cannot be shared easily even with closest friends. The open post from different people made me feel cozy 🙂

I don't know but, hmm, can you consider your virginity lost when you did smutty things EXCEPT the penetration part?

I have that case, so I don't know where to place myself 🙂

Well, could you describe your situation? 😀 😀

No.

Btw, technically your still a virgin, by my definition atleast, since you haven't had straight up sex.

Well instead of giving her(?) mixed signals about whether or not to explain her circumstances, let's provide her with some options on what counts as not being a virgin.

You could consider not being a virgin being anytime after vaginal penetration, or only if the penetration is coital. I guess if it floats your boat, sodomy or some other form of anal penetration can count too. If you're an uptight or overly conscientious individual, not being a virgin can even be anything after making out.

So, pick your poison and then tell us if you're a virgin or not. Or don't. Whatever.

I am not prostrate. I am looking at the sky on the other side of Earth.

You should totally Join Vagrant Scans. No experience necessary.

You should also totally read this cool blog.

When did you lose your virginity?

Hmmmm

I was actually 11...
I hear the "O... No Your Lying"
But I'm Not...!

I had an older best friend who had already done it, so she kinda roped me into it, and yeahh...
I actually regret it... which is weird coming from a boy but yh....!
But to make up for it... I always try make other girl first times special....
You know the candles, soft music, the teddy bear holding a freash roses...
You know the lovey dove crap girls like....
Has any one else done that?

Peace

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Well instead of giving her(?) mixed signals about whether or not to explain her circumstances, let's provide her with some options on what counts as not being a virgin.

You could consider not being a virgin being anytime after vaginal penetration, or only if the penetration is coital. I guess if it floats your boat, sodomy or some other form of anal penetration can count too. If you're an uptight or overly conscientious individual, not being a virgin can even be anything after making out.

So, pick your poison and then tell us if you're a virgin or not. Or don't. Whatever.

Hmm...Well, this is all that I can say. I used to have my first boyfriend when I was 15, a very young age for us. Then when we were hanging for about 2 months, there started the talk about sex, after our first torrid kiss. Well, our relationship lasted for about 1.6 years, and between that time, we actually do all sorts of naughty things. We also did anal and so. But we didn't do the penetration using his genitals to mine, I guess you could see the picture from here. So maybe I'm just confused if I am still a virgin, or not, since I already did anal and others. It's so porn actually.

Gah I really regretted those days!

It's all dependent on what you think constitutes 'having sex'. One of the big appeals of sodomy as opposed to coitus is that many women still consider themselves virgins after sodomy. Same goes for oral sex. Most men consider anal to be 'real' sex and consider there virginity lost after having done so, but virginity is a lot more important to a woman than it is to a man.

Basically it's up to you. There is no set parameters for what makes you a virgin. If you feel like you have participated in enough sexual acts to no longer be considered a virgin, then you're not a virgin.

If it helps at all, I don't consider sodomy as an act that makes you lose you're virginity. Not for a girl anyway. Neither does any form of oral.

Note: Do not look to porn for any sort of guiding light in sex or relationships.

All it (was) good for was introducing more variety into the average couples sex life. Before porn, people thought anything other then penile/vaginal intercourse to be deviant and taboo. Porn sort of broke that, and now oral sex is possibly even more commonplace then 'traditional' sex, and anal is hardly considered deviant anymore. Nowadays though, unless you're looking at truly deviant pornography (bestiality, pedophilia, necrophilia, etc), then porn is simply hollywood sex, made for horny teenagers and middle-aged men who are unsatisfied with their sex lives, but not ballsy enough to have an affair.

I am not prostrate. I am looking at the sky on the other side of Earth.

You should totally Join Vagrant Scans. No experience necessary.

You should also totally read this cool blog.

Heck, I'm 29 and I never had a girlfriend. Given my current state of affairs, I probably never will, unless some pre-caught fish lands in my lap like it does in a manga. Actually, wait, no, even if such a thing happened I'd still be too shy to take advantage of the situation. (T_T)

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Heck, I'm 29 and I never had a girlfriend. Given my current state of affairs, I probably never will, unless some pre-caught fish lands in my lap like it does in a manga. Actually, wait, no, even if such a thing happened I'd still be too shy to take advantage of the situation. (T_T)

That's just sad

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Heck, I'm 29 and I never had a girlfriend. Given my current state of affairs, I probably never will, unless some pre-caught fish lands in my lap like it does in a manga. Actually, wait, no, even if such a thing happened I'd still be too shy to take advantage of the situation. (T_T)

That's just sad

you fail.

@lemec, don't worry, lots of people go around like that, you just need to find the right person, to make you come outa your shell and you'll be ok.

I was 21 and the girl was experienced. There was no real love involved but I don't regret the experience as it taught me a lot.

The next person after that was when I was 22 and this time I was the experienced one.

The third time was a stranger on an airplane... that was exceptionally fun.

Since then I've been preoccupied with other things and to this day still haven't had a steady girlfriend. I'm 24 now.