Truthfully..Im not a whore or anything I just do think much of my first kiss and first time..and its stupid how ppl say "oh you have to do it with your true love"
I think ppl need to worry about reality ppl are gonna trick you to get into your pants and ur probaly gonna go for it..but you know owell you can't keep it forever (you can but..) 😁

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Truthfully..Im not a whore or anything I just do think much of my first kiss and first time..and its stupid how ppl say "oh you have to do it with your true love"
I think ppl need to worry about reality ppl are gonna trick you to get into your pants and ur probaly gonna go for it..but you know owell you can't keep it forever (you can but..) 😁

I agreee!!!!!!! people are gonna say they love you and then they screw you and leave you, and pregnant.

I'm soooo bored!

I'm keeping mine for as long as I can with the main reason being I have bad taste in women. Seriously, I attract nothing but weird women so I decided to keep mine until I meet someone who isn't mentally disturbed.

The whole thing went offtrack for 1 page...

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I'm keeping mine for as long as I can with the main reason being I have bad taste in women. Seriously, I attract nothing but weird women so I decided to keep mine until I meet someone who isn't mentally disturbed.

well why dont you do something about it and try to show your self to girls that are not weird to you 😕

i was nervous at first it was big & long & went straight up i had to try it i eased onto it & liked it! i went up & down on it.... i love escalators now! 😀

(great onizuka ftw)

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@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

the best security guard, EVER.

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@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

Weed? That's even better, cause you'll remember it.

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[quote=moritana]@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

Weed? That's even better, cause you'll remember it.[/quote]

I've never really gotten horny with weed, i was in the situation once, but i turned it down.

(Don't ask me why, its a loonnggg story, plus, i was high.)

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[quote=KennEH!][quote=moritana]@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

Weed? That's even better, cause you'll remember it.[/quote]

I've never really gotten horny with weed, i was in the situation once, but i turned it down.

(Don't ask me why, its a loonnggg story, plus, i was high.)[/quote]
Had a friend who got horny while he was high once, now he is always horny whenever he gets high.

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[quote=moritana]@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

Weed? That's even better, cause you'll remember it.[/quote]
dont use drugs either -_-

the best security guard, EVER.

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[quote=moritana][quote=KennEH!][quote=moritana]@doc: unless u have no internet, no phone, no money, and u live under a rock, its pretty easy to find one-night stands.
cuz its no problem at all to play the player in a club and get someone to sleep with you under the "never gonna meet again, and we know it" or simply find someone close to you geographically on the net with the minimum safety investigation ( gender and age) and meet up in a place with bed and privacy.

the problem is do u really want ur first time to be with a complete stranger u have no feelings for, or do u have the guts to go for it. personally, i simply dont have the guts.

A nice bottle of your favourite alcohol could fix that.

-_- yup, too bad i dont drink.

Weed? That's even better, cause you'll remember it.[/quote]

I've never really gotten horny with weed, i was in the situation once, but i turned it down.

(Don't ask me why, its a loonnggg story, plus, i was high.)[/quote]
Had a friend who got horny while he was high once, now he is always horny whenever he gets high.[/quote]

depends on what u smokin, some can hit u in the head, some can hit u in the chest, and others can hit u down below.

"Hip-hop was set out in the dark. They used to do it out in the park"

Wow, I actually read all 30 pages of this thread. Normally I would never, ever read a 30 page-long thread.

So... I was about to add myself to the already swelling ranks of virgins who've posted in this thread, but then I thought back to a rather... interesting experience in the second grade or third grade. You know, since we're all telling our stories. Admittedly I'm very curious what people's reactions to this will be.

Long story short, I lost it to another boy, a kid named Steven, or Steve. I don't remember much about him (or much of anything from my elementary school years), but I remember that Steve was definitely a problem child, the kind inclined to break the rules, steal things, etc. Somehow I came to be friends with him, and one day he told me to ditch class and meet him in the bathroom at a certain time. I reluctantly agreed.

I can't for the life of me remember what he said to talk me into it. I had no idea what sex was at that time, of course; I had no idea what we were doing at all. We just kind went into a stall, took our clothes off, and took turns going at one another. I still wasn't exactly sure what we'd done when we were finished. I didn't have the impression of us having done anything illicit; I was worried about getting in trouble for ditching class to go hang out in the bathroom.

I eventually ended up growing to hate this guy, along with most everyone else, but that didn't have anything to do with the fact that we'd had impromptu sex; he was just kind of an ass (no pun intended), and had a penchant for borrowing things and not giving them back.

Should I be traumatized about this? Steven probably told me not to tell anyone, but I doubt I would have anyway. I'm not particularly bothered or ashamed by it. I'd actually forgotten about it until I looked at this thread and started reading posts. By the time I got old enough to realize what it was I'd done, it was already long over with; when I moved and switched elementary schools, I never saw the kid again. I never told my mom because I knew she'd freak the hell out, and it's not something I'd be inclined to just tell people for obvious reasons. Looking back on it now, I'm just like, "Wow... that really happened... huh."

I can thing of several things that happened in elementary school that haunt me and might explain some of the issues I've had since then up to today, but this peculiar incident isn't among them. I don't think it's affected my sexuality in any way either. My mind and body have offered me plenty of evidence over the years to the firm conclusion that I like girls. While I might think a guy looks good, can appreciate the aesthetics of the male form, and constantly trade jokes with my friends about gay sex or something to that effect, I've never felt sexually attracted to a man, and the idea itself just doesn't appeal to me.

As for why, this incident aside, I'm still a virgin, I'd chalk it up to poor luck and crippling shyness. It isn't a race thing either; most of the other black guys I know have no problems whatsoever hooking up with girls, white or black. I go out to parties, drink, dance, and carouse. I consider myself reasonably good looking, and a fairly good improv dancer to boot (I've gotten compliments, been asked if I've taken lessons, and been invited back to people's apartments just for that). I don't know how many girls have ground their asses against my pelvic bone in what passes for dancing these days (not that I mind).

But when it comes time to actually talk to a girl, I get a few lines past the initial greeting and when I try to maintain the conversation, my mind goes blank. It doesn't matter if the girl I'm talking to is a Nobel laureate in the making or a complete ditz. The only situation where I'm relaxed and can talk normally and fluently with a girl is when I'm talking about something technical or nonsocial (like the lecture the professor just gave), when the girl in question is clearly unavailable (a friend's girlfriend), or if I just don't find the girl physically attractive in the least. I can't spit game, in other words. Not to save my life. So I've had opportunities, but I'm always to shy to follow up, continue pursuit, or close the deal. (Also, if I did get a girl, I'm not exactly sure where I should take her - up the stairs of whatever house we're at? Into the next room? Should I walk her back to my dorm? Hers?)

I go to parties to drink for free, dance around, have fun, and socialize with boy and girl alike, so as much as I'd like to get laid, not getting any after a night of partying doesn't mean I've wasted my time. I never go out with the sole intention of scoring, and if I did I would probably fail miserably. I do worry about it sometimes, wondering if being a virgin at 18 means something's wrong with me, or that I'm unattractive. And then I worry about worrying, wondering if my priorities are screwed up. Most of my male friends are either virgins like me, or varying extremes of the archetypal cynical player interested in banging as many women as humanly possible, with most of the former aspiring to become the latter (with varying degrees of potential for success). I don't like the idea of becoming the latter or of using people in general, but I certainly don't want to stay as the former, and I don't see the only alternative I can think of (an actual relationship with love and stuff) working for me in the foreseeable future. It's too difficult for me to genuinely open up to people; while I don't front or put up any false personas, I'm not inclined towards true intimacy with anyone, guy or girl (unless I happen to be posting on a forum behind the anonymous mask of an forum avatar). All of my friendships are arms-length relationships, based mainly around common interests.

Well then. Having read through all of what I just wrote, it all sounds colossally whiny. That wasn't my intention; I'm not pining for pity, just getting it off my chest in the only way I feel comfortable - anonymously. But if anyone feels like shooting some advice my way, fire away.

Even with all that said, I'd probably be a lot more self-conscious about this if I wasn't fairly certain that no one would ever read a post this long.

Allow me to reacquaint you with... THE GROUND!

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Long ass post.

Well I read it. Honestly that thing would disturb the hell out if me. Even if I never knew how babies were made at the time (which I did).

I know there are people who hate these kinda topics, but I like 'em. Gets you to really know about the users of thsi site.

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Long ass post.

Well I read it. Honestly that thing would disturb the hell out if me. Even if I never knew how babies were made at the time (which I did).

I know there are people who hate these kinda topics, but I like 'em. Gets you to really know about the users of thsi site.

he basically went through 10 years of therapy in his head by not givin a F**k. applause.

"Hip-hop was set out in the dark. They used to do it out in the park"

I doubt orgy action when it's played out like a cliche hentai.

I lost my virginity this last year to a guy I dated 6 months. Nothing spectacular.

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