When did you lose your virginity?
16 years ago
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But yes, it is possible to pass out during, no matter how good it may be.
And that usually happen in smutty shoujos too! 😀
But in smut, don't those girls usually pass out from pleasure? (Which is very unrealistic, btw.) Rae meant that the guy passed out due to alcohol? Or maybe I'm just misreading things here.
Yes, I was referring to passing out from alcohol on both counts; him and the possibility during the act. I've never heard of anyone doing it irl from pleasure, sleeping immediately afterwards yes, but never passing out.
16 years ago
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[quote]But yes, it is possible to pass out during, no matter how good it may be.
And that usually happen in smutty shoujos too! 😀
But in smut, don't those girls usually pass out from pleasure? (Which is very unrealistic, btw.) Rae meant that the guy passed out due to alcohol? Or maybe I'm just misreading things here.
Yes, I was referring to passing out from alcohol on both counts; him and the possibility during the act. I've never heard of anyone doing it irl from pleasure, sleeping immediately afterwards yes, but never passing out.[/quote]
What a confidence booster that would be though. 🤣
16 years ago
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still a virgin,
but I clearly remember a time a couple years ago when I fell off my bike and landed very awkwardly
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all i could think was "Ohhhhhh, crap... That really hurt."
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16 years ago
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I lost it at 17 in the most classical, unromantic way, with a bf i didnt like that much...
Oh well, real life romance can be pretty boring compared to the romance in manga.
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Eh, I think the other way around. Manga romance is far more boring than real life romance, since most romance manga, esp. shoujo, shounen and some seinen, are predictable, cliched and/or painfully melodramatic. Just read the worst shounen and shoujo cliches on this forum.
16 years ago
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I was raped when I was 8... by my babysitter's grandson (who was 18 at the time). I had no idea what was going on and my little brother was watching. Kind of find it awkward to talk to anyone about this especially my brother.
16 years ago
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When I was 17 with one of my exes. I made her come through insertion too, so I was full of myself on that day. 🤣
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16 years ago
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Still a virgin. This might make me sound horrible but there hasn't been anyone worth giving it too. i swear I might just die a virgin and somehow I can live with that...for now.
But I have done other things with guys but well when they get all excited I fake it sometimes, if I ever do get excited well I think I can handle it myself. And I'm not even one of those girls that wishes their first to be 'magical', I actually want to get over it already. Maybe I'm just lazy... XD. Lazy and sex in the same sentence, yes that is what I have come to... 🤣
16 years ago
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I was 18 and in my second year of university. He was a guy in one of my Spanish classes that fall semester. I didn't talk to him at all until a bunch of us were downstairs before class studying before a test, in early-mid November. That night, after class, he asked if I wanted to grab dinner with him and his roommate in one of the cafeterias, which I did. I don't remember if I went to their room that night or the next night. I think it was that night. It was on the pretext that I'd never seen New Jack City, which I hadn't. I didn't actually stay in my own room after that for 2 months, though. I remember that much.
It was a week before I decided that I was ready and he was the right person. He was gentle, and it didn't hurt at all (which surprised him - I didn't know it was supposed to hurt the first time). It certainly wasn't the most romantic night (in the classic sense of the word), but it was passionate. =) (And no, his roommate didn't join in. I didn't wind up doing that until around 9 years later.)
He couldn't handle how much I liked him and dumped me just before Valentine's day, but we remained friends throughout college, except during periods of his jealous girlfriends. I didn't date (or have sex with) anyone else while I was in college, but I did enjoy giving... (Think of the scene from Clerks. My husband is somewhere fairly close to "37". 😁 )
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16 years ago
Posts: 163
Im 18 and still a virgin it isnt that i havent found someone, i have and i really love her, but in some ways that is the problem lol, I am the type of person that thinks of the worst possible situations first -_-" so i start thinkin condoms break, birth control not 100% effective sometimes...oh shit. This scares because i know i am no where near ready to handle that responsibility and she wants to finish college and i am pretty sure my "worst possible scenarios" will get in the way of that. So I am going to stay a virgin until we are married or until we both feel we are responsible enough for the outcome (whatever it may be). I know its corny but I really dont wanna do ne thing to mess ne thing up with us.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
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16 years ago
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when i was 14 in my room with my girlfriend...cinda boring story 🤣
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16 years ago
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Im 18 and still a virgin it isnt that i havent found someone, i have and i really love her, but in some ways that is the problem lol, I am the type of person that thinks of the worst possible situations first -_-" so i start thinkin condoms break, birth control not 100% effective sometimes...oh shit. This scares because i know i am no where near ready to handle that responsibility and she wants to finish college and i am pretty sure my "worst possible scenarios" will get in the way of that. So I am going to stay a virgin until we are married or until we both feel we are responsible enough for the outcome (whatever it may be). I know its corny but I really dont wanna do ne thing to mess ne thing up with us.
Awww that's really sweet!
If only there were more guys out there like you.
Nowadays guys only care about the sex not really the consequences of having sex.
Which is why I will remain a virgin until I find someone who thinks of me first rather than getting their perverse hormones out of their system.
Member16 years ago
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Im 18 and still a virgin it isnt that i havent found someone, i have and i really love her, but in some ways that is the problem lol, I am the type of person that thinks of the worst possible situations first -_-" so i start thinkin condoms break, birth control not 100% effective sometimes...oh shit. This scares because i know i am no where near ready to handle that responsibility and she wants to finish college and i am pretty sure my "worst possible scenarios" will get in the way of that. So I am going to stay a virgin until we are married or until we both feel we are responsible enough for the outcome (whatever it may be). I know its corny but I really dont wanna do ne thing to mess ne thing up with us.
Awww that's really sweet!
If only there were more guys out there like you.
Nowadays guys only care about the sex not really the consequences of having sex.
Which is why I will remain a virgin until I find someone who thinks of me first rather than getting their perverse hormones out of their system.
Smart move at least I know one other male my age thinks the same way I do >.>. I'm 19 ,but I seriously haven't met any1 around here that I think I would marry. Maybe after I leave this crappy small town I'll meet someone. With that said two more months until I ship out for the Navy 😀
16 years ago
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I was raped when I was 8... by my babysitter's grandson (who was 18 at the time). I had no idea what was going on and my little brother was watching. Kind of find it awkward to talk to anyone about this especially my brother.
That's just... scary.... dunno if its true or not, but I'll assume it is.
16 years ago
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Smart move at least I know one other male my age thinks the same way I do >.>. I'm 19 ,but I seriously haven't met any1 around here that I think I would marry. Maybe after I leave this crappy small town I'll meet someone. With that said two more months until I ship out for the Navy 😀
Be careful, then. Women tend to throw themselves at men in uniforms. Heh.
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."
16 years ago
Posts: 1138
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Smart move at least I know one other male my age thinks the same way I do >.>. I'm 19 ,but I seriously haven't met any1 around here that I think I would marry. Maybe after I leave this crappy small town I'll meet someone. With that said two more months until I ship out for the Navy 😀
Be careful, then. Women tend to throw themselves at men in uniforms. Heh.
🤣 so true men in uniforms are total turn ons 😉
you won't last that long.
