This topic is still here? Last time I posted here was 9 months ago, and it was already over 4 moths old then.

I never understood the appeal of uniforms. On men or women. Too straitlaced. Bleh.

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This topic is still here? Last time I posted here was 9 months ago, and it was already over 4 moths old then.

I never understood the appeal of uniforms. On men or women. Too straitlaced. Bleh.

People seem to like talking/reading about virginity.
Or just about sex related things.

And, how do you explain a fetish?

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Well they can develop from trauma in the formative years. 'Trauma' does not necessarily mean something bad in this case. Just an instance that rocked how you perceive things.

There's this theory Freud cooked up involving stages of development and how if your needs aren't met in one of these stages then you'll develop a fixation on the focus of that stage. It went something like...

Oral:

• At birth the mouth is the focus of libido activity. Newborns are always sticking shit in their mouths right? If this is suppressed or they are denied the privilege of being breast-fed then they develop a fixation with mouths or breasts.

Anal:

• The stage at which the person is learning to be toilet trained. If this stage ends up being traumatic then there can be a focus on, well, the anus.

Phallic:

• The child develops an interest in the genital region. This is the stage where the famous Oedipus complex supposedly takes place.

Latency Period:

• A stage where sexual drive is dormant or repressed. The person pours his or her efforts into asexual pursuits such as school or sports.

Gential:

• A return top the Genital region. Depending on how much energy is left behind in unresolved psychosexual developments the persons capability to develop normal relationships will change.

Now this seems really cool and all, but Freud was a weirdo and you can only give his theories so much credibility. Still, this is the first thing that came to mind and the first stage, the oral stage, looks especially valid what with a decrease in breast feeding since before baby formula was invented,

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Smart move at least I know one other male my age thinks the same way I do >.>. I'm 19 ,but I seriously haven't met any1 around here that I think I would marry. Maybe after I leave this crappy small town I'll meet someone. With that said two more months until I ship out for the Navy 😀

Be careful, then. Women tend to throw themselves at men in uniforms. Heh.

🤣 so true men in uniforms are total turn ons 😉
you won't last that long.

I just hope it's the right woman >.<.

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[quote=doomsdayxxx]Smart move at least I know one other male my age thinks the same way I do >.>. I'm 19 ,but I seriously haven't met any1 around here that I think I would marry. Maybe after I leave this crappy small town I'll meet someone. With that said two more months until I ship out for the Navy 😀

Be careful, then. Women tend to throw themselves at men in uniforms. Heh.

🤣 so true men in uniforms are total turn ons 😉
you won't last that long.

I just hope it's the right woman >.<.[/quote]
I highly suggest watching the movie An Officer and a Gentleman, if you haven't. It's Hollywood-ized, but you'll get something of the idea. There are women who sit in the bars around military bases, waiting for guys in uniform to pick them up because that's what they do. (A friend of mine went to the Naval academy, so I got to hear lots of fun stories.) Choose wisely.

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Choose wisely.

That means don't pick the one with the lazy eye and 3 fingers on her left hand. Choose the femme fatale with the low-cut shirt.

...

You know you wanna.

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Im 18 and still a virgin it isnt that i havent found someone, i have and i really love her, but in some ways that is the problem lol, I am the type of person that thinks of the worst possible situations first -_-" so i start thinkin condoms break, birth control not 100% effective sometimes...oh shit. This scares because i know i am no where near ready to handle that responsibility and she wants to finish college and i am pretty sure my "worst possible scenarios" will get in the way of that. So I am going to stay a virgin until we are married or until we both feel we are responsible enough for the outcome (whatever it may be). I know its corny but I really dont wanna do ne thing to mess ne thing up with us.

Awww that's really sweet!
If only there were more guys out there like you.
Nowadays guys only care about the sex not really the consequences of having sex.
Which is why I will remain a virgin until I find someone who thinks of me first rather than getting their perverse hormones out of their system.

Ha ha thanks, and trust me there are a lot of guys like me its just that they probably dont seem like it.

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Im 18 and still a virgin it isnt that i havent found someone, i have and i really love her, but in some ways that is the problem lol, I am the type of person that thinks of the worst possible situations first -_-" so i start thinkin condoms break, birth control not 100% effective sometimes...oh shit. This scares because i know i am no where near ready to handle that responsibility and she wants to finish college and i am pretty sure my "worst possible scenarios" will get in the way of that. So I am going to stay a virgin until we are married or until we both feel we are responsible enough for the outcome (whatever it may be). I know its corny but I really dont wanna do ne thing to mess ne thing up with us.

Awww that's really sweet!
If only there were more guys out there like you.
Nowadays guys only care about the sex not really the consequences of having sex.
Which is why I will remain a virgin until I find someone who thinks of me first rather than getting their perverse hormones out of their system.

Ha ha thanks, and trust me there are a lot of guys like me its just that they probably dont seem like it.

i agree with that >.>

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Well they can develop from trauma in the formative years. 'Trauma' does not necessarily mean something bad in this case. Just an instance that rocked how you perceive things.

There's this theory Freud cooked up involving stages of development and how if your needs aren't met in one of these stages then you'll develop a fixation on the focus of that stage. It went something like...

Oral:

• At birth the mouth is the focus of libido activity. Newborns are always sticking shit in their mouths right? If this is suppressed or they are denied the privilege of being breast-fed then they develop a fixation with mouths or breasts.

Anal:

• The stage at which the person is learning to be toilet trained. If this stage ends up being traumatic then there can be a focus on, well, the anus.

Phallic:

• The child develops an interest in the genital region. This is the stage where the famous Oedipus complex supposedly takes place.

Latency Period:

• A stage where sexual drive is dormant or repressed. The person pours his or her efforts into asexual pursuits such as school or sports.

Gential:

• A return top the Genital region. Depending on how much energy is left behind in unresolved psychosexual developments the persons capability to develop normal relationships will change.

Now this seems really cool and all, but Freud was a weirdo and you can only give his theories so much credibility. Still, this is the first thing that came to mind and the first stage, the oral stage, looks especially valid what with a decrease in breast feeding since before baby formula was invented,

EDIT: More info for those who care

Yeah don't take anything that Freud said seriously. The man was an idiot and all his "experiments" were poorly constructed.

Man this topic is so old that I forgot that I had posted in it before 🤣
Anyway, I'm a year older and man did my perspective on things change. Still a virgin but now that I've gone through more opportunities where I could have lost it, I feel more.... bored about it now.

Don't get me wrong, I still want a relationship and want to lose it but I feel apathetic about the actual people now. Some girls just try too hard and some not hard enough to make things work. Boring.

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Yeah don't take anything that Freud said seriously. The man was an idiot and all his "experiments" were poorly constructed.

And yet these "experiments" led to a scientific revolution and led to a whole new field of scientific study.

Yea. What an idiot. 😔

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You're overestimating him. He wasn't as smart as everyone claims. He tried too hard to make it sound like the subconscious mind controlled everything you did. It's a cool idea, but it's not all-powerful. And he did a good job with the experiments considering he was testing data that wasn't quantifiable.

Arguably his most important idea was the concept of the Id, Ego, and Superego which helped explain blah blah babble babble blah...

On Topic:

Yeah. Still a virgin.

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This thread needs less (brain) masturbation 🤣

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I'm not overestimating. I'm simply saying the guy deserves respect.

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You're overestimating him. He wasn't as smart as everyone claims. He tried too hard to make it sound like the subconscious mind controlled everything you did. It's a cool idea, but it's not all-powerful. And he did a good job with the experiments considering he was testing data that wasn't quantifiable.

Arguably his most important idea was the concept of the Id, Ego, and Superego which helped explain blah blah babble babble blah...

On Topic:

Yeah. Still a virgin.

I could tell you stories that would beg to differ, but this is the wrong topic.

Well, I'm still a virgin 😃

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