When did you lose your virginity?

16 years ago
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Joins the Go Adult Virgin club as well 18 and still a virgin. Worked it out with my last girlfriend that we wanted to wait (I was also 17 to her 20 at the time). I just want to wait for the right person (not necessarily the person i will marry), I don't want to rush it for no reason.

16 years ago
Posts: 372
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See, I learned something new about women and men. I've never judged a woman like that. At least not since middle school.
I actually used to hang out with a girl who slept around a lot. She was pretty nice and was fun to be with.
She just thought that if it feels good and you're taking the right precautions to avoid the negative repercussions then why not?
It always made for fun discussion. Interesting stories, those.
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Women seem to fear the purging of their sanctity (losing their virginity, in simple terms). Or admitting to it anyway. Is this because of the antiquated idea that men prefer un-bedded virgins, or is it something they truly don't want to admit to themselves that they gave up?
Probably a repeat question but I am NOT searching to check.
Well I've met girls who always asked me it I was a virgin or not and if I know the person I would answer truthfully nothing wrong with that, but when I asked them the same thing some prefer not to answer. I guess they were ashamed, which I find ridiculous. There's nothing wrong with not being a virgin. But others, often guys look down on girls who aren't. It's okay to have experience there's nothing wrong with it; however there is a limit to how much experience one can have. Girls nowadays believe that being experienced is bad, why? because that's what most guys make them believe in.
Bu there is also peer-pressure. When I was in high school, girls would always label non virgins as sluts, which is why no one would admit to not being one, because they feared being labeled as something that other girls regarded as immoral. Girls often don't admit to such a thing because they know the truth may not be what others want to here.
That's just my opinion though.
I don't know about other guys but personality can make or break a woman for me. I don't really care if your hot and rich if I don't like you game over >.>. I'd say most women just need to wake up and realize most guys don't really care about the whole virginity thing.

16 years ago
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[quote=Pirate1019][quote=LunaMay]But I was wondering the same thing about the pain. And is it even painful for guys?
No. Shouldn't in the least. Not if you're circumcised anyway. No idea what problems an uncircumcised penis might cause.
Damn once again guys have it easy. No offense to you though Pirate 🙂
Uncircumcised is more sensitive. That's all I'll say. 😁 [/quote]
Technically I knew the difference between circumcised and uncircumcised but I always wondered what the big difference was for guys, and that's it..sensitivity. Ah but it depends how good you are at it. 🤣 [/quote]
Actually it depends on hwo good your partner is at doing it when your talking about feeling.
Also if you want to get more scientific.
Circumcised guys get a bigger head due to scar tissue. Which is why they are less sensitive.

16 years ago
Posts: 26
Hahaha, I'm a good girl, I haven't done anything except foreplay stuff so far, and I'm 17 in 8 days lol
I guess I'm just not ready mentally for something like that cause aside from not having a boyfriend (or girlfriend if I decide to perhaps turn the other way? I wouldn't be bothered haha) I just don't want to regret it =0
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RoxiexXHahaha, I'm a good girl, I haven't done anything except foreplay stuff so far, and I'm 17 in 8 days lol
I guess I'm just not ready mentally for something like that cause aside from not having a boyfriend (or girlfriend if I decide to perhaps turn the other way? I wouldn't be bothered haha) I just don't want to regret it =0
just go both ways its best for every1 =/
i love reading the entirety of threads like this. its like the funniest shit thats happenes all day!
and last year at like thanxgiving btw! 😃

16 years ago
Posts: 54
Yea, lots of ppl were pretty young when "it" happened. Me, well I never have done anything like that. Pretty much the straight laced,old fashioned person that believes in dating normally and having a platonic relationship. Sex after is all is only sex. In the end it is only a physical act. You do it and its over just that. I am still a virgin so I can;t say exactly that what I know is true or not. Its just that when I think of a relationship I think of something more fulfilling.
Well may be I am an idealist
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16 years ago
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i love reading the entirety of threads like this. its like the funniest shit thats happenes all day!
and last year at like thanxgiving btw! 😃
Thanksgiving is a time where most people are with family, yeah? This warrants an explanation. I am curious.
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thanxgiving with friends. only family on my side of the country is me. im goin to school here. no way in hell is anyone comin over here to see me or am i goin over to see mom and dad.
its ok 😁 everyone was drunk

16 years ago
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its ok 😁 everyone was drunk
I'm only more and more curious.
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16 years ago
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Yea, lots of ppl were pretty young when "it" happened. Me, well I never have done anything like that. Pretty much the straight laced,old fashioned person that believes in dating normally and having a platonic relationship. Sex after is all is only sex. In the end it is only a physical act. You do it and its over just that. I am still a virgin so I can;t say exactly that what I know is true or not. Its just that when I think of a relationship I think of something more fulfilling.
Well may be I am an idealist
"Life is full of lies and half truths, for the reality of life is not colored by shades of black and white but rather a mix of many hues of gray"
I never really got the "sex is just physical" thing. I mean, emotions are just chemical reactions in our brain right? I think sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. Not the MOST important part and maybe not even necessary but to dismiss it as somehow unimportant just because it's "physical" seems wrong.
But what do I know, I'm part of the adult virgin club 😛
and now i dont really wanna say more because this is getting scary.
it was a one night thing ok? she was 20 (im 18)
now why was i drunk?...
i am done with this conversation either way

16 years ago
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and now i dont really wanna say more because this is getting scary.
it was a one night thing ok? she was 20 (im 18)
now why was i drunk?...
i am done with this conversation either way
lol no problem. I just thought it was funny because normally if everyone's drunk it's not a good thing. I wasn't there though so I can't say if that was the case or not.
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16 years ago
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and now i dont really wanna say more because this is getting scary.
it was a one night thing ok? she was 20 (im 18)
now why was i drunk?...
i am done with this conversation either way
No reason to be scared, you're unlikely to meet anyone on here anyway or recognize them if you do.
And don't worry, I know what you're talking about. A room full of drunk people make for some interesting stories 🙂 When you can remember them that is 😁