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I'm not saying it wasn't bad, just that it sounds more like molestation than rape. If he was tied down, beaten and then forced to do it, I would say rape. If he was just taken advantage of because he didn't know any better, then it's molestation.

In my mind molestation is when it doesn't happens intercourse. By the way are you still living with your family after all that?

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i lost mine when i was 15 to my 1st boyfriend. i'm 20 now and we're still together. thousands of miles apart though. Im living in California now... and he's still in the Philippines. Guess i dont have to say much about my sex life now, huh.. hahaha..

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I'm not saying it wasn't bad, just that it sounds more like molestation than rape. If he was tied down, beaten and then forced to do it, I would say rape. If he was just taken advantage of because he didn't know any better, then it's molestation.

In my mind molestation is when it doesn't happens intercourse, thinking better I gues that doesn't count as rape since i didn't say "no", in some courts that would be enough to lose the case. By the way are you still living with your family after all that?

I don't talk to that side of the family any more. They never liked me anyways because I'm half white and they are all mexican. I talked to the county social worker about it, and she said that happens in a lot of families that have molestors in them. The family has to choose if they accept a slut/homo in the family or a rapist/child molestor in the family. As a victim, I spent a lot of time defending myself and sexuality to the people who should have been supporting me. In the end, I am an outcast and the molestor is still a favorite to all of them.

Also they called the cops on me a few months later when I told them I was going to kill him. Charges were dropped later when the DA saw the history, but my aunts were all ready to send me to jail for it.

I hate them all.

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I'm not saying it wasn't bad, just that it sounds more like molestation than rape. If he was tied down, beaten and then forced to do it, I would say rape. If he was just taken advantage of because he didn't know any better, then it's molestation.

In my mind molestation is when it doesn't happens intercourse. By the way are you still living with your family after all that?

I don't talk to that side of the family any more. They never liked me anyways because I'm half white and they are all mexican. I talked to the county social worker about it, and she said that happens in a lot of families that have molestors in them. The family has to choose if they accept a slut/homo in the family or a rapist/child molestor in the family. As a victim, I spent a lot of time defending myself and sexuality to the people who should have been supporting me. In the end, I am an outcast and the molestor is still a favorite to all of them.

Also they called the cops on me a few months later when I told them I was going to kill him. Charges were dropped later when the DA saw the history, but my aunts were all ready to send me to jail for it.

I hate them all.

Now I do too, this sounds just like in the movies/seriates that an arabian girl have a boyfriend she loves and the guy for whom she is promissed to kills her for she to be "impure" and her family protects him, that always makes me be filled with rage, your case I never heard about, but it is as awfull if not worse. These kind of things is what I sat is wrong with the world, how can we have world peace with that kind of people around, people say it is wrong to be blinded by rage and to something stupid, but don't those kind of people desenver to die, ask anyone sane and they would say the same thing!
By the way, I hope you turn out to be ok.

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This happened a few years ago. I ended up with a lot of issues afterward for a long time. I ended up feeling very suicidal started doing poorly at my job, and I lost it and ended up not paying rent and living in my car for 6 months. I used to cut my arms (not to kill myslef, just to watch the blood come out) and would be very promiscuous with all the girls I could get with, ( I think I was trying to prove to myself I wasn't gay). I was also doing a lot of drugs and drinking a lot.

Nowadays things are better. I don't have all the self destructive tendencies and am in a relationship wit a very understanding woman and I got a really great job. So things are better, but there are some issues that I will always have.

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Glad the suicidal tendences never went too far and glad you could get back on track and find a nice girl. Hope you life doesn't be too harsh from now on.

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I'm a horny virgin and proud

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Damnit! I want a hot boyfriend!!! >_<

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Nowadays things are better. I don't have all the self destructive tendencies and am in a relationship wit a very understanding woman and I got a really great job. So things are better.

Glad to know... 😀

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I'm a horny virgin and proud

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Damnit! I want a hot boyfriend!!! >_<

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No more smut manga for you xD

15 I think, on a Toyota Landcruiser tray with a flat air mattress in the cold fekkin bush.

Sucked ass! LOL 😮

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Damnit! I want a hot boyfriend!!! >_<

And how old are you?

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... takes a moment to sit back and realize she's read the whole thread... which is something she never does Um, wow, hi, normally I get bored with long threads. Who knew people talking about virginity could capitvate me so? Right, well, down to details. Female, 21, I'm a virgin who's somewhat tired of waiting for Mr. Right at this point. I'm the kind of girl guys find it really easy to be friends with but can't see me as anything else. Sad days, I know. I haven't had a boyfriend and sad to say I don't really think I've properly kissed someone, and that fact that I'm even questioning that makes me realized that spin the bottle with your friends doesn't really count and that I haven't really kissed anyone. That's a run on sentence right there, my English Prof would cringe...

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... takes a moment to sit back and realize she's read the whole thread... which is something she never does Um, wow, hi, normally I get bored with long threads. Who knew people talking about virginity could capitvate me so? Right, well, down to details. Female, 21, I'm a virgin who's somewhat tired of waiting for Mr. Right at this point. I'm the kind of girl guys find it really easy to be friends with but can't see me as anything else. Sad days, I know. I haven't had a boyfriend and sad to say I don't really think I've properly kissed someone, and that fact that I'm even questioning that makes me realized that spin the bottle with your friends doesn't really count and that I haven't really kissed anyone. That's a run on sentence right there, my English Prof would cringe...

wow Same for me but..i'm 15 in novmeber, (7 days!! woot woot!) and i've actually already given up on the other sex in that way. =\
You'll find someone, even the grossest people manage to find someone, so you'll probably have absolutly no trouble. =)

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I'm a horny virgin and proud

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Damnit! I want a hot boyfriend!!! >_<

And how old are you?

Wonder that too, XD er I wouldn't just get a hot boyfriend and sex him up. >_>

🤣 that made me laugh...