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But yeah, I don't mean this literally, so if you do want to talk about that, make another thread. 😐 It's just an expression I liked, and I could just NOT NOT use it, you feel me? o_o

"Pooping where you eat" is like... when you start to develop feelings for one of your friends, and I don't mean like just any friend, but people you're very close to. So, basically, if you do happen to come clean with your feelings, you might be "pooping" where you eat, and ruin it, or if you do hit off, and then suddenly you break up, and your relationship isn't the same anymore as before. Those kind of situations. So, had any experience with it? Did you have feelings for your close friend or your close friend having feelings for you, and how did you deal with them?

Ooo~h, Mams had such a situation recently! 🤣 realization

Happened to me once. XD I was on the hurt side, and won't reveal more than that. O_O~

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I've never heard that expression in my life 🤣

I guess it's never happened to me, and I hope I don't ever fall in love with a friend, confess and get rejected, then have the relationship go sour. (ack) Though I'd probably never confess so "No, I wouldn't let such a situation arise in the first place" also applies.

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It's never happened to me. I try to prevent it as well. I keep the feelings to myself, and get over it.

I don't like the complications that happen after you break up. Especially at the age I am at the moment. It's not very serious when your 17...and there are only a few cases where you'll stay in a relationship from 17 until your married....

It happened to my friend recently, and now it's just plain awkward between them, and awkward to the people who know them and are good friends with both i.e myself.

Not worth the hassle really.

And that's a weird expression to describe it... 🤣

That's the most alarming expression I've ever heard. Lol.

Yeah it did happen to me, but I ended up losing a friend because I couldn't return their feelings... And to be honest, I feel guilty because I was kind of insensitive about it, I mean I knew they were attracted to me but somehow I figured it wasn't a big deal, like... I didn't think it was love or anything, but then when I started seeing someone seriously, this friend of mine suddenly blew up in my face and I was like, "Huh? What happened?" And then it hit me - it was LOVE, they were in love with me, and I was such a stupid person for not realizing how deep their feelings were. When they finally told me the three infamous words ("I love you"), it was too late; I'd already been an insensitive prick by constantly talking about my partner in front of them. headdesk

Ok, so it was partly their fault, since they never said anything earlier - if they had I would've taken things differently. But still, that doesn't absolve me of my responsibility as a friend - I mean, aren't you supposed to notice this kind of stuff about your friends? The fact that I didn't notice the depth of my friend's feelings until it was too late remains a regret of mine. Not that I could've returned those feelings or been in a relationship with them, but at least... I could've been more sensitive? Like not gloating about my s.o. in front of them. It makes me wince when I think how that must've made them feel. 🙁 God I sucked.

Well, I've sworn a solemn oath to never let something like that happen again.

I hope my friend is doing well now, and has found true love and happiness with someone else. Maybe one day we'll meet, somewhere down the road, and we can smile with our whole hearts and genuinely become friends again. Look after yourself, S. I miss you.

EDIT: Amusingly (or is it uncomfortably?), I just realized that this situation kind of sounds similar to the Sherlock Holmes movie that just came out... You know that scene in the restaurant where Watson introduces his wife-to-be to Holmes and Holmes is all... weird about it? Yeah. That expression. Amplify it a little and you have the expression on my friend's face when I first told them... So much of desire, when it comes to desire between friends, remains in the "subtext". And when it finally becomes text, it can be disastrous... Especially if it's unrequited.

Nope.

Because most of my close friends are girls. lol
And I'm not a lesbian.
But the one close guy friend I do have did like me... 😐 But I didn't like him because I thought of him as a brother...we've known each other since we were four.
And NOT only that, people always tried to push us towards each other just because we were the only asians. -_-
I told my friends that if they ever tried to joke around like that again, I'd be really mad and they would feel my wrath.

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I have never heard of the expression...

And to answer...no...

I was already thinking that this thread was
related to that peeing in shower to save nature.
Well, a lot of stuff like that has happened.
We're all still friends like we used to be.
Besides, just because we are friends, it
does not mean we cannot do whatever a
couple can do.

I've never heard of this expression but yeah, only happened to me once. I've been friends with this one guy since freshmen year in highschool (juniors in college now). I started liking him in my sophomore year in highschool. Later on in our friendship, it seemed like he started showing signs of liking me but I was afraid to ask. There were these two other girls who I was friends/rivals with who had confessed to him. Only one successfully became his girlfriend for about 6 months. After they had confessed, they never really spoke to each other much anymore. Because of this, I learned not to tell him because I didn't wanna lose my friendship with him. I'm slowly trying to see him as only a friend again, but it's really hard.

I know the expression as "don't fart where you eat" (my brother told me about it and violated the very same rule soon after...).

And yes, ohoho, very, very bad moments arise out of foolish behaviour like this.
Fortunately, I have always been on the receiving end of this emotional dilemma and thus was spared the pain of unrequitted love for a dear friend.
I never participated in a somewhat romantic entanglement with a friend, but there is a slight chance I will soon enough. Not good at all. I rather not fart where I eat, afterall.

And about doing the couple-stuff with your friends....it never works out alright. Sooner of later one of the involved grows complicated feelings. At least that is what my experience told me.

See, I have no idea how to answer. I liked him a lot, but I have no idea if he ever felt the same or if he still does. There are things that he does that can lead me to think that he has feelings, but I'd rather not delve into it. Our relationship as friends at the moment is so important to me, that I would risk a lot just so it never changes.

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yup,first option. thats all on the subject