Okay, this person explains it well, I think. o_o

ever since i was little, i failed at keeping my friends. i dunno why. it's like... all of a sudden, i just don't want to have anything to do with that person. it's not that i'm like... tired of them... kinda. it's just... every time they try to keep in touch, i tend to like... not return calls and stuff and ignore them and then i feel bad and then... i just kinda forget about it and move on

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it's not that they're clingy or anything and i need space or watever, it's just... rofl i dunno ~ i like to think i value my relationships more than that, but when i really think about it... i don't : (

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is this normal or am i just fucked up

Anyways, do you get this feeling? Like, "meh, I'd rather stay home" or something? D: Does this happen to you often?

It doesn't particularly happen that often with me, but it does happen. So, somehow I can relate. I don't have that feeling with the most important people though. O_O I keep them close to my heart. 8'D And I feel like that my friends are still my friends even if we don't talk as much as we used to -- there's still this lingering bond of "friendship" between us. Of course, you have to maintain that once in a while, or else it'll detoriate. Or you'll forget about the bond! And then you see them 10 years later, and it's like nothing has changed, yet everything did.

Enough rambling!! O_O Your turn.

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It happens quite often.

I don't think it's that I don't care, but I do go back and forth between talking with people alot. Sometimes I can go weeks or months without trying to contact people. I guess I'm lucky for having friends that put up with it, eh?

Yeah, happens a lot.

Yeah it happens.

You guys' responses make me depressed.

Are you being apathetic towards my topic, huh?!!

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You guys' responses make me depressed.

Are you being apathetic towards my topic, huh?!!

I couldn't be bothered to elaborate 🤣

Most of the time, actually. I think out of all my "friends" I only have 4 of them I actually like. 😐 The rest are people I hang out with at school because its less boring(and awkward) then sitting by myself.

Yeah, so, answering the topic, I don't really care about most of my friends, but I do care about a select few. (And it turns out I spend less time with the ones I care about then the ones I don't care about; because the ones I do care about are rather quieter and reserved then the ones I don't care about, so they go out less, giving us less chances to hang out. )

Does the walker choose the path, or the path the walker?

i have to say yess.. all the time.. i even though im sad.. i mean making friends for me is easy but.. keeping them?? its really hard.. its like when the school years over you dont have time to talk with them again because you are now in different classes.. even hough im the type who gets bored at people.. i also have this sentimental side to me so.. i still try to maintain the bond so when i see them in the hallways i rush to them and hug them.. scary as it is its just the kind of person that i am.. pfftt.. cant be helped.. seriouslyyy.. this parting talk sure makes me depressed.. i dont want to walk into the future now seriously.. and right after reading the ending of High School Girls!! 😢

but of course it not that bad as well!! because you have those people who are like attached to you and you wouldnt part for the rest of your life.. for example.. my childhood friends!! we used to go to teh same school in welementary school but we seperated in high school but we still see eac other in church!! so its not all that bad!! 🤣

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GUESS WHO??

I'm there for my friends if they need me (serious personal problems, e.g. medical/family trouble or very happy occasions, e.g. weddings/newborns). But otherwise, I don't really meet with them or socialize with them or even speak to them that often.

I care about them, and they KNOW I'll be there for them if the sh*t ever hits the fan - they'll be there for me too, and we've always supported each other - but we trust our friendship enough to be relaxed about it and not feel the need to treat each other like possessive/clingy lovers who wanna talk all the time. Lol.

Apathy? I guess it might look like that to some... But to us, it's just mutual trust and relaxation. As in, I know that if 4 months pass without meeting a friend, that doesn't mean she loses trust in me or thinks that I hate her or something weird lol, and I won't mind if she doesn't keep in touch either. But if she's getting married and needs help arranging it, or if my apartment burns down and I need a place to stay, we both trust each other without doubt that we'll be there for each other. 🙂

I don't think friends are people you have to cling to, or even feel the need to meet regularly. I mean, they're my friends, not my kids. Or my employees. 😀

I got in a huge fight with an almost bf because sometimes I just wanted to be by myself.
I literally spent EVERY NIGHT for a WHOLE SUMMER with him.
Not to mention we also worked together. It was crazy.

Finally September came around and with school and work I didn't have all the time to hang out with him.

Complications happened and he asked me out and for reasons other then being sick of him I turned him down.

I told him I didn't have time to deal with a boyfriend when I really meant I didn't have time for him.

Don't regret that. 🙂

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At lest your friends don't** break into your house just so they can get you out of the damn house** lol.

everyone needs space, you don't need to cut relations with the person totally you can be frank with them and say "I HONESTLY CANNOT BE BOTHERD OK?" 🤣

whatever if it is harsh hmm?

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All the time. lol

I always love time to myself and I'm really lazy and sometimes I just don't feel like hanging out with my friends or texting them back. xD Then I forget and don't text them back at all..

During middle school, ALWAYS, always, in the summer, I never kept in touch of my friends. I never saw them or called them. o_o The ones from school at least, I hung out with some church friends.

Though nowadays, it's different I guess. lol I still don't text them, they text me and most of the time I text back now.
But I never lose friends. I just drift a little away from some.
However...I'm still best friends with the same best friends I've had since middle school.
Though I'm no longer friends with anybody from elementary school, I drifted away from them big time, since they changed and went to different schools. o: I had to make new ones in middle school.

But I lahv my friends. ♥

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It happens alot. For most of them, I don't know if they're still my "friends" or not..It's like we were never friends to begin with but I still do like them. I tend to avoid them, ugh I know I shouldn't. I'm trying not to be a coward and talk to them once in a while. It's an exception to a few people because whenever we're together, even if we haven't seen each other for a whole year, we'll still feel comfortable with each other.

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i unno like for me im apathetic towards a lot of things, including friends i no care for me. so yeah maybe im just bored of life in general.

yes, but with only one exception...