I am looking for Yaoi or Yuri series that has one lover physically and/or mentally abusing their partner in a non-sexual manner. I don't mind if the series has sex or even rape in it as long as that is not the main abuse. In other words I want abuse that is not erotic in any way.
Mental abuse is also fine, as in locking your partner in their room or throwing threats at the other person.

I am sick and tired of abuse being portayed as something sexy and even used to show love. They use excuses like; He was only cruel because he saw me with another man/woman= he was jealous = he loves me. I want serious and realistic abuse. (Sexual abuse is OK if it is written in a non-erotic way and not justified and the victim does not forgive his/her abuser)

The only example I can give you is Tetsu X Rika and Shiiku Gakari Rika.

EDIT;
Zankoku na kami ga shihaisuru also qualifies as non-erotic abuse.

I think Escape (KYUUGOU) qualifies.
But it's a oneshot so not too much builds up between the beating and the sex.
Really good though.

And maybe Cut? I'm not too sure.

I think the two titles you named are the best examples.
Great stuff.

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Escape was great! Exactly what I was looking for.. ^_^
I have actually read Cut before, and it's great, though not quite what I wanted in this case.

Thanks a lot, though.. =)

(Anyone have more examples I'd be really happy.. ;P)

try with Sakura Gari, it´s the best I´ve ever read ^^

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try with Sakura Gari, it´s the best I´ve ever read ^^

Sakura Gari : non-sexual abuse? 😕 are u sure? 🤨

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try with Sakura Gari, it´s the best I´ve ever read ^^

Sakura Gari : non-sexual abuse? 😕 are u sure? 🤨

I always thought of it as more emotional than sexual, I mean, we don't have him being raped in a erotic fashion. It's the pure look of fear and control.
Aside from that, he was just plain mean, like how he didn't tell the main character about his brother's death

and sakurako's abuse wasn't sexual

You could try Love Slave, though it's not quite what you're looking for.