So my friend asked me to look for this manga but i have know idea where to look and I really need help looking for this manga can anyone help? Please?

"Please HELP!! XP. I've been trying to find this manga for quite a while.
(Not sure if its a yaoi though)
Ok so both guys have known each other since high school. The Guy (Seme) has married and had 2 children, the wife is died. The Uke is very pretty and nice figure, very very strong person who can easily lifted up heavy items. The top and bottom both lived together with the children.
Sorry that the information was not detail and clear…
Or any manga which is similar to my description… But please help me!! :'(
Thanks for the help!!"

Moved to Yaoi/Yuri~

might be boku wa ne. Not yaoi though. not even shounen-ai.

if there is an option between "to do" and "not to do", I will always choose the latter.

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