Hello! There has been a certain manga on my mind recently that I just can't remember the name of. I was hoping that someone would know the name of this manga to put my mind at ease. This was one of the first yaoi manga's that I read so the description isn't very good so I do understand if no one is able to help...
This is all I remember of the manga....

There is quite a big age difference in the Seme and Uke with the Uke being the younger of the two... I know that since there was such an age difference the Seme was reluctant to engage in sexual intercourse with the Uke. One day the Uke wanted to see what it would feel like so he decided to stick a flashlight in his... well you know. The Seme finds the Uke with the flashlight stuck in there and takes him home and I think after that they finally have sex. I also think that the Seme is a Yakuza boss or a boss of a big company (I do know that he was always wearing a suit).

I do apologize for the bad description, but any help at all would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance ^.^

It's Hidoi Otoko by AOI Akira

http://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=10793

Thank you so much!!! That will definitely put my mind at ease! ^.^