And I'm not downing the arrogant prick character because a lot of the time, that type of character evolves enough to become likable. I just noticed a lot of the time, the second guy who she doesn't choose is usually a nice guy. Any where it's reversed? The nice guy is the love interest she chooses and not the other type?

Also, none of those "mysterious" type guys.

Try Hirunaka no Ryuusei 🙂 It's one of my all time favorites