On Masturbation and Porn

14 years ago
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Masturbation helps relieve restless leg syndrome... or so I've heard.

14 years ago
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@mattai
yes you're right
and its normal that alot of girls would do it the wrong way,since most of them do it alone and are too embarrassed to ask people about it,and thus harming themselves without noticing
its like correlation,im not saying ALL girls who masturbate will suffer from damage ,im saying the risk increases

14 years ago
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There are a lot more things that are worse for you then porn and masturbating. If deciding to jack off or not is one of your biggest worries then you have a very easy life my friend. Just do it if you want to and use that energy from worrying if it is right or not to do something useful.
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14 years ago
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I don't find anything wrong with masturbation as long it isn't excessive, like multiple times a day or something like that.
On the other hand, I am against pornography (and pray of each actor/actress to burn in hell), I don't find much pleasure in watching others pleasure themselves and I just find it plain wrong and against my beliefs. I hold very strong beliefs against pornography.
Also, abstinent until marriage. 🙂
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It's like correlation, I'm not saying ALL girls who masturbate will suffer from damage, I'm saying the risk increases.
Risk of death increases when you go outside.
You heard it here first kids, don't go outside because you may die.

14 years ago
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I don't find anything wrong with masturbation as long it isn't excessive, like multiple times a day or something like that.
On the other hand, I am against pornography (and pray of each actor/actress to burn in hell), I don't find much pleasure in watching others pleasure themselves and I just find it plain wrong and against my beliefs. I hold very strong beliefs against pornography.
Also, abstinent until marriage. 🙂
Why are you against pornography, exactly? Most people are against it due to the exploitation of the actors, but if you want the actors to burn in hell, that's clearly not your issue...
Are you just against the cheesy storylines, bad production values, and miserable attempt at acting?
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14 years ago
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Masturbation is a fact of life, almost all men do it and half of women do it. Prejudice against women masturbating and how our society teaches girls that they shouldnt leads to girls who grow up completely oblivious to sex in general. I think at the proper age, girls should learn what they like.
With guys, Dont do it too much. It will become an obsession. But, in a relationship, if youre having trouble cumming too soon, masturbating will help (sounds weird I know).
On the topic of porn... My response is eh. Do whatever you like, but the internet makes it so readily available that young (I mean young, if youre older I dont care) boys get way to into it. My boyfriend let his ten year old brother use his laptop, and when he got it back, his younger brother quickly closed his browser. One of the top visited sites was a porn site, and my boyfriend didnt know what to say when his brother kept making excuses. It was completely shocking and really disgusted me. I feel like the women in most porn give young boys the wrong expectations of women. Fake boobs, completely hairless, et cetera. When in reality most of the girls their age have no idea this is what their male counterparts expect of them. I have no problem with Hentai and the like at all (maybe because it isnt with real people?)
In high school, I remember a couple sophomores and freshmen in my class (I was older) were commenting on the state of a classmates hair, 'It looks like pubes', I said no, it doesnt really. They all blurted out, 'HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT PUBES LOOK LIKE 😕 ' I stared, confused, until I realized that they thought women didnt have pubes.... It was a really sad day for me.

14 years ago
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I don't find anything wrong with masturbation as long it isn't excessive, like multiple times a day or something like that.
On the other hand, I am against pornography (and pray of each actor/actress to burn in hell), I don't find much pleasure in watching others pleasure themselves and I just find it plain wrong and against my beliefs. I hold very strong beliefs against pornography.
Also, abstinent until marriage. 🙂
Why are you against pornography, exactly? Most people are against it due to the exploitation of the actors, but if you want the actors to burn in hell, that's clearly not your issue...
Are you just against the cheesy storylines, bad production values, and miserable attempt at acting?
I am against the adultery, I am very religious so there is a giant bias for me.

14 years ago
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I don't find anything wrong with masturbation as long it isn't excessive, like multiple times a day or something like that.
On the other hand, I am against pornography (and pray of each actor/actress to burn in hell), I don't find much pleasure in watching others pleasure themselves and I just find it plain wrong and against my beliefs. I hold very strong beliefs against pornography.
Also, abstinent until marriage. 🙂
Why are you against pornography, exactly? Most people are against it due to the exploitation of the actors, but if you want the actors to burn in hell, that's clearly not your issue...
Are you just against the cheesy storylines, bad production values, and miserable attempt at acting?
I am against the adultery, I am very religious so there is a giant bias for me.
Adultery isn't the right word, since not all porn actors are married. Adultery is cheating on your spouse.
You must mean sex out of wedlock, correct?
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Now masturbation isn’t all the way suppressing that, (I still have a strong love for smut manga lol) But it does help sooth people -in my opinion, so that we are less ravenously hungry animals than what we could be. (Think wolf in sheep’s clothing) I guess for some people that could be a bad thing, but for me it works.
and thats exactly why you shouldnt masturbate! we ARE MEANT TO BE ravenously hungry animals,masturbating on a regular basis will make you less sexualy active...so when you actually find "the one" you will find urself sexually dead !
even if you sometimes feel desperate you should learn to control yourself,so that when you find someone worth your love,you'll want them and you'll want to make them yours
just be patient and keep listening to the voices in your head 😀Wow, you sure do like to romanticize rape, don't you?
At least, that's what it sounds like you're saying.
No, you have it all wrong. The random people who I may sometimes imagine are all willing partners, or even more dominant then me. (although not rape)
I don't think rape is sexy in any way, unless the other individual is fine with it, and its some kind of role-playing game. I don't get a kick out of imagining hurting someone, that's just mean.
And @ Sahrah Eats cupcakes: ...It's okay for me not to have as much sexual stamina in the bedroom, since I do not intend to lose my virginity, ever. So when you are saying that I shouldn't do it, it is implying for me that I should never even come close to something I'll never do in my life anyway. I don't over-masterbate anyway, so I think I should get a little un-stressed from time to time. I am just doing it for myself, and dont intend to bring anyone into the picture, so who am I harming?
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It's like correlation, I'm not saying ALL girls who masturbate will suffer from damage, I'm saying the risk increases.
Risk of death increases when you go outside.
You heard it here first kids, don't go outside because you may die.
@ Turbophoenix: Just...thank you. That comment deserves no words, except that it is so true :3

14 years ago
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[quote=AA2109964]I don't find anything wrong with masturbation as long it isn't excessive, like multiple times a day or something like that.
On the other hand, I am against pornography (and pray of each actor/actress to burn in hell), I don't find much pleasure in watching others pleasure themselves and I just find it plain wrong and against my beliefs. I hold very strong beliefs against pornography.
Also, abstinent until marriage. 🙂
Why are you against pornography, exactly? Most people are against it due to the exploitation of the actors, but if you want the actors to burn in hell, that's clearly not your issue...
Are you just against the cheesy storylines, bad production values, and miserable attempt at acting?
I am against the adultery, I am very religious so there is a giant bias for me.
Adultery isn't the right word, since not all porn actors are married. Adultery is cheating on your spouse.
You must mean sex out of wedlock, correct?[/quote]
In a general sense yes.
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Artistic or literary pornography is much simpler. No real people are involved, so - yay! Just paper and ink! One can enjoy oneself at least without worrying about whether the people involved are actually consenting or are being coerced as part of some crazy sex trade racket. Basically, there is 0% chance of getting my jollies from someone who's in an awful situation. Nothing to, uh, 'prick' my conscience, there! (Sorry, sorry. Bad pun, I know
So I guess my work in your opinion is porn. sigh
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14 years ago
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First, on topic.
I see nothing wrong with that.
It's pretty much the purpose of porn.
So smut away.
Now I feel like I need to reply to that...
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yes i do realise wat the word mutated means
female masturbation is different than male masturbation because it involves the internal organs,so any wrong move might cause serious damage (MIGHT i said might)
the inner reproductive organs are very delicate and can be damaged easily
and about female masturbation making females more prone to giving birth to disformed children,i saw that on tv for the reasons aboveand @mattai i know a girl who did it with a CUCUMBER and that caused her some serious damage she even had to stay in the hospital for a while,because she did it the wrong way
@waftingwish yeah i know that but i copied the part about the risks to explain wat i said
Wow, ok, you're seriously lacking common knowledge here.
And sense.
From your posts, it seems that you believe women only masturbate by "inserting objects into their vagina", which isn't true.
In fact, a lot of women find no pleasure (or less) in vaginal stimulation and much prefer stimulating the clitoris in order to get off.
The two can also be combined.
There's the anus, too, which can be used during intercourse and masturbation.
Men can use their anus and urethra, for example.
Things can go south if they do it the wrong way.
Same with women. There's no difference.
I've masturbated (alone as well, for the sake of our argument) using all kinds of different items.
As you can see, I'm alive and well as I am writing this post.
Everything is potentially dangerous. Even walking down the street.
Are you going to stop walking, then? I consider our sexuality to be vital,
(regardless of the type/sex drive). It's part of who we are.
Sex with a partner is not bullet proof, either.
It might get too rough and cause problems.
What if one of them wants to use sex toys?
What about masturbating in front of the partner?
Your arguments make no sense.
You're not gonna get a mutated baby from some minor infection, or just from masturbating.
It makes no sense whatsoever.
And for the love of corn, masturbating doesn't decrease your sex drive.
What's wrong with self pleasure?
Let's say I'm feel like having some when my partner isn't near by/busy/I don't have one/doesn't feel like it.
What do you do then?
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