i've been cheated by four girls. yeah. 4! the first one just plain cheating. the second(after 2 weeks of the first) kept stealing from me, literaly. and sell 'em to get other guy. the third, she dumped me for a fat, perverted pig with thick pocket(got money) and the last one just use me to wait for her boyfriend to come back from 2 month vacation.

so i just gives up. T-T.

does this happen to you(or similar)?
then what would you do?

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Well, I would rather just be friends with
girls before even trying to hit on them.
Are you sure there is not something that
would make 4 girls cheat on you or is
your taste in girls like that? 🙂

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Are you sure there is not something that
would make 4 girls cheat on you or is
your taste in girls like that? 🙂

That's what I want to know too. Maybe you just don't know how to pick them?

I would also advise a deeper backround/personality check before starting to get together. That should help.

        By the way, the third girl who dumped you for a different guy doesn't count as cheating unless she, well cheated on you before dumping you. There is alway the chance of being dumped for somebody else. Thats just one of the dangers that comes with being in a relationship.

Ouch. I don't know what to recommend besides laying low.

Then again, I do have some words of advice. "It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved again." (Cliche, I know, but it fits).

This is coming from someone who's staying single for the rest of her life. (I'm serious).

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Hey man at least you have gotten a girlfriend. Think about people like me who couldn't land a date even if we paid them. Believe me i've actually told someone I will give them $20 if they would go out to eat with me, and they declined.

But anyways to answer your question, I think I would try to find someone that I actually feel comfortable with and have a really deep connection with. I think if those things are met then your lover won't be someone who cheats on you. Inless you come up a little short...

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Hey man at least you have gotten a girlfriend. Think about people like me who couldn't land a date even if we paid them. Believe me i've actually told someone I will give them $20 if they would go out to eat with me, and they declined.

But anyways to answer your question, I think I would try to find someone that I actually feel comfortable with and have a really deep connection with. I think if those things are met then your lover won't be someone who cheats on you. Inless you come up a little short...

Trying to get them to come with you by paying them?
Actually, that is a horrible idea...
Even if the girl might have accepted if you asked her out normally... When you go at it that way, any women who respects herself a bit would flat out refuse.
I would strongly advise you against this strategy...

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Trying to get them to come with you by paying them?
Actually, that is a horrible idea...
Even if the girl might have accepted if you asked her out normally... When you go at it that way, any women who respects herself a bit would flat out refuse.
I would strongly advise you against this strategy...

It was actually a friend who I asked. I wouldn't ask someone that I had never talked to before a question like that, I am unable to build up the courage to talk to them. Probably another reason I can't get a date, but it all started years ago in middle school where I lost all self-confidence. But oh well, being single means I can spend all my money on myself.

id do exactly the same thing i did with the guy who abandoned my group just bcuz he got an offer from another girl in class.
id ignore him flashily for years, glare at his back while he isnt looking to make him think he is haunted, and start talking lowdly about "TRAITORS!!! who abandon perfectly fine boats as they start sailing r such PETTY human beings dont you think?". its a very affective way to make someone nuts 😀 😛 🤣
and a lovely activity for free hours 🤣
besides, hearing "she is the damn DIRECTOR, how de fuck can she not come for shootin and editing hours?! and today is the damn test, WHERE IS SHE 😕 ?" just makes your day if it comes from the mouth of the person who left your group, just bcuz the other director was hot 😀 😀
(and my teammates show up every time i need them. mainly bcuz i have their cellphones and i can keep nagging them for hours ^_^)
and yes, i consider cheating on a group as the same thing as cheating on a partner.

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I've never been in the situation, but I'd want to lay low for a bit first, and work on a new plan, and figure out what kind of guy I'm looking for. As for now, I don't have a boyfriend, but have liked a good friend for a few years now.

You need to not be with a girl for a while and think really hard about what you have to offer a woman and what you want to find in a woman. I mean write it down and take a look at it. Once you have that in front of you in black and white, you will be able to visualize what the problems are in your relationships.

After the list is complete and has been edited (hopefully) to find better traits in your women, make sure that whenever you meet a new lady that she meets those criteria. If she doesn't, shake her hand and tell her to have a nice life. Do not date anyone that doesn't fit those criteria for the rest of your life. Always keep your standards up and you will be ok.

Also work on your self esteem. I'm sure that has a lot to do with your choice of woman and how you let her treat you.

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all i want is a steady relationship. a non-cheating, faithful girl is all i want. but that seems to be impossible nowadays. those who i don't like to date like me, but those who i like, like me(and/or) while cheating on me.

i'm easy to trust people. perhaps that's what gives them the idea to cheat on me/steal from me.

i'm heart broken. a girl hit on me and i just couldn't trust girls anymore. all i see is a very good liar. so i gave up until destiny turn my way around(that'll be in 100-150 years later).

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I would be friends and trust someone before I dated them. If, however, they did something like cheat on me or use me, I would break-up with them. However, since I would have greatly cared for that person in the beginning, if they convinced me that it wouldn't happen again, or seemed like they had a good reason (if one even exists), I might take them back. And if we were living together, I might even turn a blind eye to it because in the end I'm the one he comes home to.

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i would play with them to^^ revenge is a good thing 😉 or just give up if they are not worth to bother... and since someone cheating on me is worthless i would just give up^^

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