How many of us are parents?

15 years ago
Posts: 167
A couple of months ago, I gave birth to a baby boy. But unfortunately he didn't make it. His name was Julian and he looked just like his daddy.
I'd really like to know about other people and their stories.
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“As he read, I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.”
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15 years ago
Posts: 225
Hey you left out the option for those who've had a kid, which died, but don't believe in (a) god(s).
Me? No thanks, from what I've seen they ruin lives.

15 years ago
Posts: 2275
[color=green]"Officially, this machine doesn't exist, you didn't get it from me,
and I don't know you. Make sure it doesn't leave the building."[/color]

15 years ago
Posts: 2126
I'm not a parent, but I think I might understand some of the feelings of parents. My family adopted a little baby girl (she was 6 months old) when I was 14. I fell in love with her. It didn't matter if I didn't give birth to her, or that she calls my mom "momma" instead of me. That little rascal stole my heart. From the moment I saw her, she became my reason for living (before she came I was in a very unhealthy place...) she gave me enough strength to climb out of the hole I had dug so deep I couldn't get out.
Since then I'm able to stand on my own two feet without her help, but she changed my life. I still adore her, and I can't imagine what my life would be now if she hadn't shown up. I can't wait to see how she grows up, how she changes. Children are one of the most miraculous things on the planet. Even though changing their poop is gross, and when they cry it just about breaks your heart, they are so worth it.
I'm deeply sorry your child didn't make it. I know my parents lost around 12 babies - three of which made it past the first 5 months before perishing, before I was born. And while I can't truly understand your loss, just imagining my baby sister dying allows me to share some of your pain.
Does the walker choose the path, or the path the walker?
Sorry about your little boy, I like the name Julian.
No I don't have kids (that I know about).......maybe someday when I'm in a better place in life and can afford the luxury of having someone depend on me. I am close with my little brothers.....but they pretty much take care of me.
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15 years ago
Posts: 4917
The link already posted will do, but I'm sorry for your loss.