Concentrate on other friends and/or things you enjoy, and either mute her on social media or take a break from it.

They are right, it can lead to more drama or something like that. It depends on the people. If it is for me, we still follow each other on social media and I have seen all her post till now but I don't feel anything anymore. It is just like seeing a stranger's post.

I don't know how old are you but if you are still a minor. Then I suggest you focus on the big picture and ignore people who didn't want you in their life. Of course, friends are important but you can't depend on them all the time. It won't work if you are the only one who wants to fix them.

Give her some time to think about it. And as I said, we can't force people to like us. For the time being, make yourself happy with or without her. Don't let the present problems do damage to your future self.

Well, most of us have been in similar situations. I agree with muting her if she keeps coming to your mind. Don't overthink it too much, you've done what you could, try to cool it of some weeks. Learning to forget is difficult, similar to a breakup, the memories and feelings of the past will remain, but relationship has changed. The only different advice I can think of, is putting yourself first for a while and not turning the feelings of nostalgia/friendship into dejection or hate, it'll just fill your head with bad thoughts.

I can only hope you stay strong and wish you good luck.
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Thank you very much for taking the time to write such an answer. I am doing better now, and I've come to terms with the fact that we both went our separate ways. Honestly, I think your 4th option is the one most likely to be the case. I highly suspect she thinks anything is wrong and we're probably still best friends in her head. But no, I don't want closure, because confronting her will just make me out to be the bad guy: m suddenly so dramatic so emotional; and friendship only means constantly talking to me etc... I can already tell what she would say and how she would twist it, and I am not willing it hear it out just so it opens the wound that's finally starting to close. SO yes, I am fine with the way things are right now, though it still hurts sometimes when I remember our promises of spending a lifetime together and die as old ladies laughing at a meme on a bench
But such is life, I suppose

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It's been a while since I just read this thread. I had a similar situation. It hurts, but what can you do, this is life .. Everything will pass and this too - is a great quote that helps. I hope you did well and are feeling well now! 🙂

I guess everyone goes through something like this sooner or later. You're not alone in this! In my situation, I cried, I was upset, but over time I realized that I can not change anything and it is normal that friends get closer, then distant in communication.... I support you from the bottom of my heart, everything will be fine!