I'm a bit tired of h-manga that deal with sex like a checklist, and am now looking for something a bit more realistic, where every sex scene doesn't involve a blowjob, etc, and more something where maybe they barely get their clothes off before doing it. I don't mind if the checklist sex comes at a later point.

Also I'm looking for sloow h-manga, where there's several chapters or pages of seduction before the sex. Borderline h is fine too, and I guess smut is okay too as long as it's the girl seducing the guy.