Okay, so I went to my friends birthday party about a week ago and the guy that I have a crush on went as well. So we all met up at the mall and I was pretty sure that my friend said he wasn't gonna come because he kept saying he had plans or somethin. So when I got there I was totally surprised that he actually showed up. He looked happy that I was there.

So after I was there for awhile I saw he was by himself and I decided to stand next to him. Then I suddenly felt his hand slowly go over mine. I coulda sworn he had held it for a few seconds. Then I looked at him I was confused and he looked at me and smiled. Then he cuffed my hand into his and made it into a fist and play punched my face (was that just a cover up?). After that happened I've been getting this weird feeling whenever I'm around him. I dunno, I'm just so confused. I really hate it when he gives me hopes that he may like me. It just makes it worse. I just wish he would tell me. >>;

How bout you tell him how you feel, if his not going to take the initiative, then you do. I'm pretty sure if he wasn't flirting, he wouldn't had touched your hand.
It doesn't hurt for a girl to ask a boy out, besides if the both of you ain't going to confess, then it'll draaaaag for a long time. SUM UP YOUR COURAGE!

If you want to make sure that he likes you, ask your friend to ask him how he feels about you or sumthing.

Cute story by the way.

well.. if this thing with him being a bit flirty with you and stuff keeps on going for some time.. then try asking him out to go someplace as friends.. and watch his reaction.. maybe you can figure out what he really feels and wants 😉

You are sure he is not a skirtchaser? XD
Anyway...just confess to him. Is it that hard? Well...I don't know anything about a girl's feeling. Maybe it's not so easy for girls...

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You are sure he is not a skirtchaser? XD
Anyway...just confess to him. Is it that hard? Well...I don't know anything about a girl's feeling. Maybe it's not so easy for girls...

I've known him for 5 years and It'd suck to lose my friendship with him if I told him how I felt and he didn't feel the same way. I'm pretty sure he's not a skirtchaser. xD

How about asking him
instead of just waiting?

Based on your description, it does sound like a cover-up to me.

If you can't bring yourself to say it outright, you could try doing the same 'brushing of hands' back to him at some point, only don't do the 'punching the face' thing. How long he lets you continue to hold his hand is probably a pretty good indicator of what he thinks about it.

A good friend wouldn't let that ruin a friendship. Not doing anything because you don't want to change the status quo is a waste though. At some point you eventually realize that life's too short and someone else will take the opportunity you didn't.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

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Based on your description, it does sound like a cover-up to me.

If you can't bring yourself to say it outright, you could try doing the same 'brushing of hands' back to him at some point, only don't do the 'punching the face' thing. How long he lets you continue to hold his hand is probably a pretty good indicator of what he thinks about it.

A good friend wouldn't let that ruin a friendship. Not doing anything because you don't want to change the status quo is a waste though. At some point you eventually realize that life's too short and someone else will take the opportunity you didn't.

He leaves next week to go back to school so if we do get together it'll be a long distance relationship (those usually don't work out well). I just hope he won't lose interest in me when he goes back. I'll hafta keep in contact with him through Skype so he won't lose interest (if he is interested).

EDIT: And I just feel like I have no time to make my move back. a week isn't enough time. >>;

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How about asking him
instead of just waiting?

couldn't have said it better myself...

i mean if you dont want to confess, just ask him...and tell him that what he did was kindda weirding you out...thats all you have to do...i mean if he likes you, after asking him that he will surely tell you so!!! good luck!!! 😀

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Well, seems like a cover-up to me, since you watched him in a confused (probably awkward?) way. Rather than explaining to you why, he decided to play the fool instead. It's ambiguous I know, but he holding your hand probably means something.

And it's totally not wrong to ask a guy out. They won't make fun or look down on you. Those days where only guys chase girls are over. If he's a good guy and you like him alot, get him before someone else leaves you haunted with your unrequited love.

And this opinion comes from a guy...

And regarding u long friendship with him, it is not like it would be destroyed. I mean if it was reversed postions, i do not think you (let ´s say ur not intressted) would suddenly have a problem continuing beeing friends. as long the confeser can accept it.

And the long distance relationship is both way, u might find someone, just like he might. Just trust each other and stay honerst and no mather how it works out u´ll both laugh about it in a couple of years/month as u tell others ur story to others.

And if things sadly does not work out, then (no mather how hard it is) it is important to accept it, if someone can honerstly say no, then it is a fact that must be accepted, im not saying, Give up. but also realise that if he does not want that kind of relationship, then you (since u like him/and ur his friend) would have to accept it.

If he makes a choise he want´s to make, then you should support it right? He´s ur friend and someone u like.

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He leaves next week to go back to school so if we do get together it'll be a long distance relationship (those usually don't work out well). I just hope he won't lose interest in me when he goes back. I'll hafta keep in contact with him through Skype so he won't lose interest (if he is interested).

EDIT: And I just feel like I have no time to make my move back. a week isn't enough time. >>;

I was in a similar situation once. A guy who graduated a year ahead of me came back for Homecoming the next year. We went out that night, and we confirmed that we liked each other. But he was going back to college in 2 days.

I went to see him not too long thereafter, and he told me that it wasn't going to work over the distance for him. It wasn't a huge shock. And though I was sad, I was so much happier to have at least tried (and remained friends afterward) than to have not tried at all and wondered. We had a great time for the time we were together.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

Some times it best to take things a little farther, but every now and then you have to be the one to take it to place yourself because one day it might be to late and you always be thinking what if. Yet, if you cross that line and things go south. It sad to, but things may not ever go back how it use to be.

P.s. It's easy to cross any line the problem is getting back

Would I lie to you?

Take the initiative girl!

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Yep he likes you, he's just to embarrassed/shy yo try and do anything openly (i think), so either way go for it. 😎

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