All I can remember:

It was set so it was comedic (like the lord's uncle or advisor or something, aimed for sabotage, had intercourse with him, and then couldnt' help himself but suggest marriage, to which he promptly got a reply - can't happen, we're both men)

Pretty sure in one of the chapters it showed him get attacked by dog or wolf as a child

Possibly one-shot collection, for I never spotted a continuation from one to another chapter that I found.

Main character was a lord of some kind, blond, very feminine, there were frames of crossdressing)

Sort of Historical topic, but I'm not sure it depicted any real history, more like ah set to look like it.

sorry for being so vague, in this moment I really hate myself for not taking care of my stuff better so I'd not have lost the title of this. 😢