It seems to me, being a long time yaoi fangirl, that people try to make the seme look manlier than the uke, which means a huge pointy nose and a neck bigger than his head. I DON'T like that! He needs to look at least a little like a human XD and he needs to not be ultra dominant( except for...ya know...those...moments XD...) I'm okay with pretty explict stuff, so make sure ish not shounen ai. I just finished reading suteneko no karute and that's the good kind of style in my opinion 😀 The uke shouldn't look too uke-like or manly, but I personally like lighter hair more. It doesn't have to have too much of a plot( yeah, i'm evil XD) and I like it when it's more like the uke is neglected a lot before the seme comes along. Thanks! <3

Most of the yaoi that I read doesn't have BIG semes in them. Most of the time I hear more complaints about how both the uke and seme are too feminine looking hehe. I would love to recommend some yaoi to you but with what you asked for that would mean me posting my whole list on here and that would be wayyyyy too many. Can't you specify on what you want? Like characteristics of the uke or seme? That would help lots!! ^.^