[Edit - the title is supposed to say lover not live, lol]

There's categories for aggressive seme, etc. but they usually refer to one's that are aggressive towards their partner. I'm specifically looking for one being really aggressive, but soft with their lover. Like mafia guy killing people, but being gentle and doting at home. Can be either the seme or uke, as long as they are someone that others fear.

Hitorijime My Hero might be one such example. I haven't read the manga, so going off how the anime is.

No limits on subgenre or categories.

Off the top of my head, Dangerous Convenience Store, Our Companionship, maybe Yuki to Matsu?

I had totally forgotten about Our Companionship! That one definitely fits perfectly.

Thanks for the recs, I'll check them out asap =]

Maybe Legs That Won't Walk?

but definitely not in the first chapters and, while he's protective/not aggressive later on, the ML/seme willingly puts his lover in danger to prove a point