The subject is actually meant to be taken literally. Its not really something people think about at all. So, I decided the subject of romantic or sexual relations with the physically handicapped should be broached.

I'm pretty sure for probably evolutionary reasons people with physical deficiencies aren't seen as possible mates. They're "off the radar" so to speak.

I wondered what people here thought about it. Would/could you date someone like that? How cripple is too cripple? Would you be weirded out or even disgusted if they told you they loved you after only seeing them as a friend? etc.

Too crippled to fµ¢k = Too crippled for me. ツ

I don't think I could bother, too much work and sacrifices.

But you never know...

No one gives a shit what trite garbage you write here.

If it was something like paraplegia then I wouldn't mind, but I wouldn't have enough patience to deal with mental disorders.

Don't know if I could draw a line. But I wouldn't want to be in a long term relationship with anyone who wasn't capable of caring for themselves...I don't want to be a babysitter for life.

"It is those who know little, and not those who know much, who so positively assert that this or that problem will never be solved by science."

did you try Katawa Shoujo or "Cripples Girls"
a little controversial bishoujo game thought i think its better than what was expected of a simple game (thank you for making me visit the site it seems there is e new version "v5" and the Full version is to scheduled to 4 January 2012 , yeah!!)
the game itself is under creative common (basically it's free and in multiple languages)
I liked a quote from the game relevant to the discussion "It isn't an issue unless you make it one!" or something like that

But you never know...

-if you never try you'll never know
-you'll never know if you'll fall in love with someone like that
-you never know if it will happen to you (be crippled) and would be an outcast the rest of your life

Cripples are humans too.
I don't see it affecting anything.

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Cripples are humans too.
I don't see it affecting anything.

I'm supporting this comment.

BTW
I don't like your usage of words one bit.. (Refering to your title).
You should learn there are boundaries even on the internet.
Some things are better left "unsaid" or in your case better "said".

Yours Truly,
The Steed

He who hides the truth with lies,
Will only be left with his inner cries.

Sincerely Yours,
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BTW
I don't like your usage of words one bit.. (Refering to your title).
You should learn there are boundaries even on the internet.
Some things are better left "unsaid" or in your case better "said".

Yours Truly,
The Steed

what boundaries do you speak of o.o, lol seriously, there are no boundaries on the interwebz. people have a sense of anonymity on the internet. Although i think it's a false sense of anonymity.

But on to OP's question: Would i date a crippled? They definitely arent my first choice, chances are if i go into party i wont be checking out cripple girls as my first choice, but if i end up talking to one or she ends up talking to me, i'd treat her like any other lady, but yeah if i click with one then i click with one.

How crippled is too crippled? hmm not sure, i dont think i could handle being with someone with a motor neurone disease that's like Stephen Hawking's. It'd take quite a lot of time to adjust to this (hell i dont even know if i'd be able to adjust to it).

If my friend (who's a cripple) tells me they love me? I'd probably feel uncomfortable, probably the same feeling i'd feel if a friend that wasnt crippled told me they loved me. Love is a very powerful word (quite frankly it scares me lol), i'd probably end our friendship since i'd feel like a dick if i continued a friendship with someone that "loved" me.

but yeah bottom line, i wont mind dating a crippled, i'm open to the possibility and so therefore i guess i would "fuck a cripple" lol.

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BTW
I don't like your usage of words one bit.. (Refering to your title).
You should learn there are boundaries even on the internet.
Some things are better left "unsaid" or in your case better "said".

Yours Truly,
The Steed

what boundaries do you speak of o.o,

I see the title has been changed so I'm pretty sure it wasn't raising alarm bells just for The Steed. I also felt kind of uneasy when I saw the title, but it wasn't "f**king" that made me uneasy, which was the part that was changed, but "cripple". I always thought that was a derogatory, offensive term, and at the very least you wouldn't title a thread about the physically disabled with it any more than you'd title a thread about race with a racially offensive term. It is often used as an insult and has the potential to offend. There are boundaries on the internet. This may be a relatively quiet corner of the internet and I therefore doubt anybody who'd take personal offense has seen the thread, but I think if this had been posted somewhere a bit more visible there would have been a veritable shitstorm from disability rights groups.

There must be a more neutral word. Paraplegic, perhaps, although I think that's more specific than "cripple".

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BTW
I don't like your usage of words one bit.. (Refering to your title).
You should learn there are boundaries even on the internet.
Some things are better left "unsaid" or in your case better "said".

Yours Truly,
The Steed

There must be a more neutral word. Paraplegic, perhaps, although I think that's more specific than "cripple".

He even wrote physically handicapped in the text, I don't know why he didn't do it in the title tough...
"Sexual intercourse with the physically handicapped" 🤣

For example, my gf "developed" a deficience then I would love her as much as I do now, I don't know, with time even things like sexual desire become less physical and more...well I don't know if mental is the best word but, what I'm trying to say is that you begin desiring the mind, the existence behind the body rather than the body itself(I don't think I explained it at all 🤢 ).

Now, if I the girl already had the deficiency before I met her then I don't think at first I would consider her as a possible date, and I think only an unlikely sequence of events could change it.
But then I think back on the events that made me like my gf as much as I do now, and they also are very unlikely, maybe as unlikely as it would be for me to love a person with a physical handicap, not something that can happen many times in your life....Maybe love itself is unlikely.

😕 My final answer is: I would have to experience it to know.

(The whole text was for nothing)

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Would you be weirded out or even disgusted if they told you they loved you after only seeing them as a friend? etc.

it seems a little extreme to be disgusted by someone just for being disabled and liking you...

anyhoo, as far as if i would date someone who's disabled, it would depend on what specifically the disability is. i don't think i would have too big of a problem dating someone who is blind or deaf or uses a wheelchair (given that their lower half isn't completely non-functional 😉 ). but i probably couldn't handle dating someone who is disabled to the point of needing constant care.

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Cripples are humans too.
I don't see it affecting anything.

I think the TS is asking if you'd be personally interested in having relationship with crippled people, not weather you'd be discriminating aginst crippled people.

For example, I want to marry a handsome looking doctor, not a ugly garbageman. Now the ugly garbage man is a fine human as well, and I'm sure that the ugly garbageman would find someone in his life too, but generally, people perfer handsome doctor over a ugly garbageman for social and economical reasons. And I too, would perfer a healthy man over a crippled man for a very practical reasons.

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Cripples are humans too.
I don't see it affecting anything.

I think the TS is asking if you'd be personally interested in having relationship with crippled people, not weather you'd be discriminating aginst crippled people.

And so I am giving him an answer to it.

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Would you be interested in:

• Dating a person whose grandparents have eaten lobster last week?
• Dating a person who prefers red curtains?
• Dating a person who cannot name the seas of the moon?
• Dating a person who does not have a habit of buying personal water crafts?

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• Dating a person who prefers red curtains?
• Dating a person who does not have a habit of buying personal water crafts?

To be fair, red curtains are gaudy and awful in most buildings, and not being able to buy personal watercrafts is a complete dealbreaker.

What are you thinking, Mams, god. That's like asking if I'd date a girl who hates fennel.

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