what is your greatest wish or goal of any kind (has to be realistic) future and present?

18 years ago
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present:
I want to get good grades, and for now make my parents content and proud of me since those moments are quite seldom...
Find a girlfriend, yes i am a loser, and i am sadly looking for something pretty more (not physically, well maybe a little)
do well with my extra activites and instruments.
future:
first off, not to be a virgin forever... it would be embaressing to have a talk with guys and be the only virgin...T_T
Find a wife at a pretty young age, i want one of those high school romances and like marry the same girl. Not some fake love, marry, then get a divorce. I want someone to be with for real, and it may sound gay, or cheesy, but someone i could hug and say they love me T_T (I am such a loser)
maybe go to japan with my wife and try out those love hotels ^.^ they look cool. I read somewhere they even have a kareoke machine, a pool table, and a little spa!
Love, isn't a straight cleared out path. It's one with thorns, and perils that life puts in to shape ourselves to be worthy of that person we fall in love with. You just gotta keep walking.

18 years ago
Posts: 2596
easy.
Get good grades and go up to college/university.
Get a good job/profession, earn rich money.
Marry a hot husband and live with him.
Does not think about having children but for now, i think children is already a pain --___--

18 years ago
Posts: 1199
Heh this seem like a spinoff of my thread: deepest secrets an fears but oh well.
Make enough money to retire before i'm 25 and do whatever I want from there. Who cares if you're a virgin half of the ones who say they aren't are just cowards who are afraid they'll be laughed at. If it hasn't happened it hasn't happened wait for the right time and don't do like some idiots I know who just wanted to get it overwith and found a prostitute and ended up with a nasty little disease. Now they'' never get any from any normal girl again. 🤣
Ahhh i'm already too old for highschool romance and too young for grown up romance. I agree with you on the finding a wife early thing though. Love hotel in japan maybe if we're feeling wicked enough. But maybe just to go to japan with her and perhaps live there for a short time. 😕
Haha chueisha doesn't want brats right now cause she's still one of them. Haha. Agree with you on the make plenty money thing and want a pretty wife as well.

18 years ago
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Hmm....probably the same as chueisha's....cept instead of a hot husband, its a good wife 🙂

18 years ago
Posts: 290
Quote from luisalirio84
Ahhh i'm already too old for highschool romance and too young for grown up romance.
Ahhh I feel your pain LuisA 🤢
Right now I'm just trying to graduate within the year and hopefully find some romance along the way. In the near future, I just want to learn and see as much as I can, and further off in the future I just want to have a happy life where I get up and go to work and come back to a happy house and family.
Ah..so generic and cheezy...but it's what I want 😀

18 years ago
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WoooW such a nice caring dream hmmm...
First i need to finish my studies at med school, then i want work and study English Lit.to get my Degrees, along these lines i want to find someone i love and he loves me back, and no it doesn't sound cheesy at all, everyone will want someone he/she could be totally comfortable and stable with at some point in life, you simply take your time and hopefully find that person, but you won't find that someone here, they're mostly guys 😀

18 years ago
Posts: 1199
Ah those are the best goals FuN! simple but you end up happier than most of the others caught up in the rat race. Also If possible world domination. But that's not gonna happen so a simple goal is best and just as satisfying as world domination well maybe not but pretty close. 😛
@ranmaru actually lately there's been an influx of girls participating in the forums. Still don't compare to number of guys but they are growing in number. Nah I like spanish women and there aren't many around here. Spanish or a japanese woman or a ... so many now that I think about it. Oh well whatever.

18 years ago
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i was born lazy, and probably will when i grow up. I don't think i can handle kids and take care of them everyday, but it is true i am a kid right now xDD

18 years ago
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Yeah i'm lazy too but I like kids(except for my three evil cousins). Probably cause i'm a kid at heart still. I like childish stuff to this day. In fact if I ever go to a relatives birthday or something I end up playing with the younger kids rather than sitting around talking garbage with old people. Also some of my cousins are my senseis at video games. I only play pc but when I go by their house I end up playing xbox and getting owned by 9 year olds and 6 year olds. Also right now I have two new cousins who are so adorable even though they're evil they're only two years old and one year old. And in a few years they'll own me at gaers of war too. And they're girls so the shame is even worse. TT__TT

18 years ago
Posts: 290
Gahahah Wow LuisA you're becoming like chueisha....
Quote from luisalirio84
And they're girls so the shame is even worse. TT__TT
LoL 😀

18 years ago
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Quote from luisalirio84
Yeah i'm lazy too but I like kids(except for my three evil cousins). Probably cause i'm a kid at heart still. I like childish stuff to this day. In fact if I ever go to a relatives birthday or something I end up playing with the younger kids rather than sitting around talking garbage with old people. Also some of my cousins are my senseis at video games. I only play pc but when I go by their house I end up playing xbox and getting owned by 9 year olds and 6 year olds. Also right now I have two new cousins who are so adorable even though they're evil they're only two years old and one year old. And in a few years they'll own me at gaers of war too. And they're girls so the shame is even worse. TT__TT
if i consider your age, i can call you an uncle and play with you ^___^ but excuse me, and no.
I might change my mind though, i mean you never know, it might be when i turn into 20, i would LOVE kids. I see kids are a pain now but i am not a pain 😀 , i sit at the computer for 24/7 and does not bother anyone at all. I wish my kids are like that but i don't think so.

18 years ago
Posts: 1199
Quote from FuN!
Gahahah Wow LuisA you're becoming like chueisha....
Quote from luisalirio84
And they're girls so the shame is even worse. TT__TT
LoL 😀
Nah I just don't like consoles I hate them in fact. All my kids are gonna have to play pc games only. They can also read manga and be nerds I don't mind. How am I becoming like chueisha? 😛

18 years ago
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i also think kids are a pain....in fact, i don't think babies are cute at all, and those bratty kind of children who go around and annoy others are the ones i dislike the most....yea, sure, they can put up the "awww, he/she's so adorable" act long enough, but i'm not buying those mischievous smiles >:-( ....right now, i just want to:
_maintain 4.0 or up
_get into the important AP classes for my freshman year
_join and have fun in sport teams and clubs next year in high school
_get a job when i get into high school
_improve my designing skills
in the future, i'd like to:
_go straight to a prestigious university after high school
_study something interesting, worthwhile, and can produce lots of money legally
_live a carefree life, 'cause i want to have at least 5 years of the college life
_go back to my home country for a visit
i guess that's all i can think of right now....i didn't put down anything relates to me love life, 'cause i think whatever happens will happens...no use to wishing for something as coincidental and materialistic as love....in fact, i don't intend to find a boyfriend in the future....things are great as it is to just hang out...lol, i find guys to be more interesting and funnier than girls, so i tend to have a better time hanging out with my guy friends (i like to think of them as my joke-buddies)....right, too much about my personal life eh....
ps: also, as chueisha had said....i'm pretty lazy myself, and i prefer to live life the easy way....exciting and easy, that is....i enjoy simple things in life, so it's pretty easy to satisfy and make me happy 😀

18 years ago
Posts: 290
No? You don't see any similarity between your posts and chueisha's? TT__TT

18 years ago
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Quote from Cerulean
in fact, i don't think babies are cute at all
If you consider seeing my brother's ass. That is squishy, big, round, white, AND SOFT. think differently ^__^ i don't like babies, they're just human also, why calling them cute?..
@fun, he write in ONE HUGE paragraph, when i write in seperate paragraphs. I like to skip his post and read the other short ones.