For girls,what do you first look at in a guy (physically)?
i don't judge base on looks but personality. enough said..i can go for anything XD

16 years ago
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Well, first thing I SEE when checking out a potential is over all brawn. I looove beefy guys <3 n_n;
But personality, manners, and brains are what matter most to me n_n I could grow to love a skinny guy, but not an asshole o_o; Lucky for me I found a guy that has it all n_n;
I feel bad posting cuz i'm not a girl >_< but i'm gay! so that still counts, right?
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I feel bad posting cuz i'm not a girl >_< but i'm gay! so that still counts, right?
Absolutely! 😀 ..if you look at guys in a, ahem!- um, love interest way , anyone is welcome..

16 years ago
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His hair.
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16 years ago
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Well, I might be boring person but I don't really care about face and looks much ^__^;; I found my "like kind" type when my friend make a survey on me 😮 ( Kudos to my guys friend who become a "substitute" hehe 😀 )
I care for their personalities and how they treat others but, my surrounding is full with well-looks guys >.<;; is it I'm being cursed? Haha 😀 D
If I ask to choose which part his body I like, can I say his eyes? Uwa, Droopy eyes 😛 worthy to drool one bucket.

16 years ago
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His handsome good looks.
Hey, when you first look at a guy, how are you supposed to tell how his personality is? We're just as superficial as guys~ 😛
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16 years ago
Posts: 81
I have a thing for smiles but I also look at hair a lot (dunno why).
And I like to see how he dresses cuz I don't want a guy that worries about his appearance more than me coughmetrocoughgaycough...
But that's just following the poll (physically) cuz above all is his personality.
Chose "How smart/cool he dresses and his hair looks." Of course I choose guys that I'll feel proud showing off to my friends 🤣 And another thing is that I really like guys with glasses. It's kind of a fetish already, methinks 😁

16 years ago
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How the guy holds him self not cocky but not low self esstemish. Personality it don't matter how hott a guy is but if he opens his mouth and his personality is like yuck then I'm like can I just put him on mute LOL.
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How the guy holds him self not cocky but not low self esstemish. Personality it don't matter how hott a guy is but if he opens his mouth and his personality is like yuck then I'm like can I just put him on mute LOL.
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16 years ago
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I tend to look at the smile and eyes, because I think I can see a little of his nature: simple, selfconfident, serious, sweet, snob... at least it works for me. And he must have manners, I like it if he's the easy going type but I can't tolerate rudeness. And I do judge based on looks too,surprisingly in a negative way: I like handsome guys but I'm prejudiced against the ones that are too good-looking, because they're usually too selfconscious even when they act shy on the outside.
There's nothing bad in being a bit picky 😃

16 years ago
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I tend to look at the smile and eyes, because I think I can see a little of his nature: simple, selfconfident, serious, sweet, snob... at least it works for me. And he must have manners, I like it if he's the easy going type but I can't tolerate rudeness. And I do judge based on looks too,surprisingly in a negative way: I like handsome guys but I'm prejudiced against the ones that are too good-looking, because they're usually too selfconscious even when they act shy on the outside.
There's nothing bad in being a bit picky 😃
So if a guy is too good-looking, it's his fault and he should do something to make himself not so good-looking?
I for one think the better looking, the better! 🤣 Everybody is selfconscious, if it's not because of looks, it can be because of other things. If you think that's a bad personality and judge someone based on looks. Wait you will find out that those who are not good-looking also have bad or even worse personality. For example, they can be selfconscious because they think they are handsome but not too good-looking so they are liked by girls (like you) and "better" than those who are too good-looking.
I don't think being selfconscious is a bad thing though.

16 years ago
Posts: 139
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I tend to look at the smile and eyes, because I think I can see a little of his nature: simple, selfconfident, serious, sweet, snob... at least it works for me. And he must have manners, I like it if he's the easy going type but I can't tolerate rudeness. And I do judge based on looks too,surprisingly in a negative way: I like handsome guys but I'm prejudiced against the ones that are too good-looking, because they're usually too selfconscious even when they act shy on the outside.
There's nothing bad in being a bit picky 😃So if a guy is too good-looking, it's his fault and he should do something to make himself not so good-looking?
I for one think the better looking, the better! 🤣 Everybody is selfconscious, if it's not because of looks, it can be because of other things. If you think that's a bad personality and judge someone based on looks. Wait you will find out that those who are not good-looking also have bad or even worse personality. For example, they can be selfconscious because they think they are handsome but not too good-looking so they are liked by girls (like you) and "better" than those who are too good-looking.
I don't think being selfconscious is a bad thing though.
well, as I said, I'm prejudiced, but it comes from personal experience cause I've met a few guys like that. It's a feeling, there are also guys that prove me I'm wrong. I'm just diffident towards those types who are too self conscious about their looks to the point of being vain, they're transparent. But I have to admit, I'm thinking about men in my country: it's pretty much a national disease that's spreading through dumb reality shows in our culture. I did met some handsome foreigners but never got the chance to get to know them very well.
If one has brains, is smart and good-looking I don't complain. But he has to show me that he is, and we're talking about a first glance here. Therefore I look at other sides of a guy and not only at his face as soon as I meet him.
And no, it's definitely not his fault and if he's a "natural beauty" he should stay the way he is 🙂

16 years ago
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Usually a lot of people who are good-looking are those who have good tastes and take good care of themselves, not just because of "natural beauty". I personally think it's a good value to be well-presented. It shows respect for others and this also tells a little part of a person's personality. Yet people shouldn't be judged on one aspect. Anyway good looks are always nice to look at and always give me a good first impression so I never think it alone is a bad thing. I guess that's just me.
14 years ago
Posts: 34
I usually don't really care about looks as long as he isn't boring and funny it's okay. But on first impressions I really like tall guys, a guy's smile, and if they have amazing eyes