Hi,

I'm looking for a romance manga where the female protagonist understands and accepts the reasons behind potentially careless or violent actions of the male protagonist. Ideally, the male would fall in love first and pursue the female.

• An example would be Mugen Spiral where the male puts of a facade of wanting to steal the female's power to gain the throne, but in reality really just wants the power to save his family.

• Another example would be like Five where the male begins by bullying the female, but the female ends up giving it right back and then accepting the males for who they are.

Other examples include:
Kaichou wa Maid-sama!
Shitsuji-sama no Okiniiri

Thanks in advance!

Not violent, but Koi Dano Ai Dano would definitely fit that description iirc.

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How about Hana Yori Dango?
You can also try Ouran Koukou Host Bu & Fruits Basket