I'm looking for a psychological yaoi like the first chapter of Jikan Akima Jinbutsu(sorry I'm new idk how to link 😕 )where the seme psychologically tortures the uke (or the other way around!) any recommendations? 😀 thank you!

You might like Caste Heaven. It has non-consensual and dubious consensual sex in it, if that's not your thing. But it does have that psychological manipulation/torture to it. That author has other works with that sort of manipulation, but a heads up: some of it has incest, in case you don't like that.

Chapters 5 and 6 of Kimi wa Amai Amai... But it might be more bullying.

Sam author as that previous one, Kimi no Iru Sekai Shikairanai it's been awhile since I've read that, but I think this might be similar enough?

highly recommended:
Zankoku na Kami ga Shihaisuru
Zetsuai + sequel Bronze
Sono Kuchibiru ni Yoru no Tsuyu
Sakura-Gari
Kyuuso wa Cheese no Yume o Miru + sequel Sojou no Koi wa Nido Haneru

others:
≠ - Not Equal
Acid Town
Brother x Brother
Cold - Zettaireido no Koibitotachi
Cut
Itsuka Ame ga Furu You ni
Koi ga Bokura wo Yurusu Hani
Koi no Kawaki
Mitasareru Kuchibiru
Negai Kanae Tamae
Nounai Renai no Susume
Yuuutsu na Asa