Quote from Makaveli
another thing i wanted to say is that: ask her what she wants...if she can finish school wit good grades(B average) and get to good university and pursue her goal thn thats good. because not everyone will get the job/career they want, regardless what college they went to (ivy league or not) or what ...
True (ignoring professions which require graduate degrees- which there will be more of in the coming years), but you should also keep in mind that going to a good school enhances your networking dramatically. There's a reason former ivy league students continue to stay in contact with the schools, and aside from the obvious, they tend to be an obvious pool of talent. Why bother sifting through the chaff when you can immediately have access to someone you know at least possesses enough of a work ethic, and ability to work the system, to get into the school you did? Resourcefulness is key.
So, that's important, but also: the world needs garbage men. And more optimistically plumbers, and mechanics. Even with comparative advantage, not everyone can have a white collar job, but you can still have a stable career in a trade.
In the long run, GPA doesn't matter that much- it's about the person. If they can work hard with a great attitude, and can convince others that they can do that, there's a way to succeed. Not spectacularly, but class mobility is (mostly) an illusion anyway, so why not forge a steady life doing something real?
@Tinny: Honestly, you're rationalizing a bit. Yeah, yeah, your situation sucks, but a: it's your opinion that you have more raw talent and intelligence than your friend, evidently not everyone's, and b: other aspects of the application may have been vastly more impressive than yours. Be happy for your friend and find a way to make your own situation better. It's not like you can't transfer, if you're really as talented as you believe you are.
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