looking for a yaoi manga like Love me hard where the uke isn't feminine but actually the one controlling the relationship or something like that.

Dunno if you're still looking for it anymoar ^_^;; but

Ano Kado wo Magatta Tokoro and Not/Love the uke basically controls. Though I haven't completed the latter.s

Forever lurking...

You could try something like Koisuru Boukun or Gokujou no Koibito and Naono Bohra's works seem to follow that pattern a lot, sometimes it's hard to tell who's going to be on the bottom in her manga.

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Innai Kansen it is a little hard to decide who is in control