How to Win My Husband Over

Description

I thought I'd finally escaped my hellish life when I died in an airplane crash, but I fell into another nightmare when I awoke as Rudbeckia de Borgia, a minor villain from a historical novel destined to die at the hands of her husband, Iske van Omerta. Surviving with the dysfunctional Borgia family is hard enough, but now I have to marry the man who will kill me! Still, it's okay, I just have to convince Iske, his family, and all his countrymen that I'm completely harmless! How hard can that be?

Original Webtoon:
KakaoPage, Daum

Official Translations:
English, S.Chinese, T.Chinese, Indonesian, Japanese, Thai, German

Type

Manhwa

Related Series

How to Win My Husband Over (Novel) (Adapted From)

Associated Names

Come portare mio marito dalla mia parte

Comment faire mon mari être mon allié

Como fazer meu marido ficar do meu lado

Cómo hacer que mi marido esté de mi lado

Cómo poner a mi esposo de mi lado

How to Get My Husband on My Side

Kocamı Nasıl Kazanırım

Les intrigues d'une Borgia

Nampyeoneul Nae Pyeoneuro Mandeuneun Bangbeop

Phương Pháp Làm Chồng Hướng Về Phía Em

Wie man seinen Ehemann zähmt

Как переманить мужа на свою сторону

Нөхрөө хэрхэн өөрийн талд оруулах вэ

Як переманити мого чоловіка на мою сторону

چگونه شوهرم رو در کنارم قرار بدم

วิธีดึงสามีมาเป็นพวก

只為尋求丈夫的支持

夫を味方にする方法

让丈夫站在我这边的方法

남편을 내 편으로 만드는 방법

Groups Scanlating

Leslie and the Victims

Latest Release(s)

c.101-102 by LuaScans 9 months ago

c.100 by LuaScans 9 months ago

c.99 by LuaScans 10 months ago

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Status in Country of Origin

3 Volumes (Ongoing)
111 Chapters (On Hiatus) Since 17/Oct/2024

S1: 65 Chapters (1~65)
S2: 46 Chapters (66~111)
S3: TBA

Completely Scanlated?

Anime Start/End Chapter

N/A

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User Rating

Average: 8.5 / 10.0 (265 votes)

Bayesian Average: 8.28 / 10.0

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Last Updated

May 9th, 2025 10:50pm PDT - 13 hours ago

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Genre

Drama Fantasy Josei Mature Psychological Romance
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Recommendations

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Author(s)

Spice&Kitty

Artist(s)

Siru

Year

2021

Original Publisher

Carrotoon

Daum

Kakaopage

Serialized In (magazine)

KakaoPage (Kakao)

Kakao Webtoon (Daum)

Licensed (in English)

Yes

English Publisher

Tapas

Activity Stats (vs. other series)

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Monthly Pos #241

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3 Month Pos #226

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6 Month Pos #102

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Year Pos #22

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On 355 wish lists

On 39 completed lists

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Rather good one

by Ms.Aaron
3 years ago

Rating: 9.0 / 10.0

this is a good story , yes it does have it rough turns . In my opinion the misunderstanding between the fl & ml was actally very intresting and added realism to the story . Both of them had been through and lot and are very diffrent from each other .

Backstories: the backstories mainly for the FL was amazing well , not amazing . it makes everything to the way she acts makes sense , such as ptsd attacks to be honest this was sad to watch at the same time.

With the ML IT MADE THINGS MAKE A LOT more sense overall , making more sense why he wasn't fond of the idea of marriage or love

Characters: Some of the characters are annoying asf, overall izek was my favorite maybe bc he somewhat reminds me of myself <3 THE FL was tbh amazingly written the way she acts like a actal human being , showing signs of a person with actal trauma .

Romance: devolpment , was shown and I loved that .

This story isn't for everyone a person who doesn't like abuse etc. or so on as it says in the tags

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Great

by Snoopy219
3 years ago

Rating: 9.0 / 10.0

Really refreshing to see an isekai manwha with a lot of dark subjects and struggles for the mc rather than the usual happier stories ( or the basic revenge ones). Mc is clearly struggling mentally and her pov really makes me want to keep reading since I’m really rooting for things to get better for her. She’s powerless so I can understand her actions of trying to make herself seem almost like an airhead. I can’t lie right now the ml is as bland as cardboard but I can’t wait for his development too. A bonus is that the art is really pretty I would highly recommend this.

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LOVE IT

by H3lene
3 years ago

Rating: 10.0 / 10.0

Yes there are some clichés but with the FL backstory, I don't think it's hard to understand why she can't trust the ML or anyone else and why she panics so easily.

And with the ML background, it's understandable why he's so expressionless and easy to misunderstand.

This really is just a slow burn kind of story. It's not for everyone, but I love it!

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Glad I gave it a shot

by Utsukushii Yume
3 years ago

Rating: 8.0 / 10.0

I feel the tags are warning enough, if you are sensitive to topics of abuse this story might not be for you.

The one thing I appreciate about the story is the FL's motive, based on her background it makes sense, how she acts makes sense and why she has chosen to pretend to be innocent makes sense. While she isn't the modern in your face FL, I still think she is doing her best within her abilities. She cries a lot, but again her crying makes sense and the author has put in effort to show how desperate she is to escape.

I also like how the FL looks and acts normal, mental health problems like trauma isn't always obvious and I appreciate the fact that she is written like a normal human being who is trying to deal with her trauma.

The biggest con that bothered me about this story is how personality wise the ML and his sister are flat. I am up to chapter 38 and both the ML and his sister got a little screen time to show they are more than just stoic beautiful people. If the author continues to build on that and flushes them out some more that would be great.

The other issue I have is everyone else who hates the FL (not including the jealous friend and her brother) I understand tension is high between the two countries, but the amount of hate people have for the FL doesn't really make sense because I don't understand what you gain by lying and being nasty to her while acting against the wishes of someone you claim to respect and love. I just wish the author explained a bit better why everyone hated her so much.

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Really good, sincere depiction of mental illness and trauma

by MatrixM
1 year ago

Rating: 8.8 / 10.0

Reviewed @ch68

This is a psychological drama with some romance about a main character with two lives of severe trauma and abuse resulting in the appropriate illnesses (ptsd and anxiety disorder, trauma responses and even an ED as an unhealthy coping mechanism)
As such you should know that going in if you need trigger warnings

It's a really sincere depiction of it, too. And our mc isn't the only one with mental health issues as a result of traumas.
Another thing that's done well is the characters that wish to support the mc have no idea how to do it: they don't live in modern times with a modern understanding of how these people should be approached and treated. They're stumbling through with good intentions.

Another interesting thing this series does is the way the peggy sue part is addressed. Our mc read the novel of the world this takes place in but 1. She doesn't remember the details clearly and 2. (big one) the novel, from what I understand, seems to be from limited perspectives, which means her understanding is only at surface level of events. she doesn't truly know people's motivations, and she especially doesn't know when people might have outright lied about what happened. This means she's not filled with external knowledge about people's characters and motivations and back stories.
She has a limited knowledge of some key points and the rest and the causes she has to figure out on her own

The romance in this is done decently well. The limited first person perspective of the mc means our understanding of the love interest (and, indeed other characters) is all coloured through her view (until we're given enough information to judge things for ourselves and partially put aside her mental illness-induced view of things. This coincides with more pov from other characters, though it's not much.)

Judging from other people's comments. it seems some detail was lost in the conversion from novel->webtoon, like the extent of our mc's illness and reactions to certain events is more intense (or perhaps just better communicated due to availability of more words) in the novel. But it's still very very well done overall.

In the end, this is a great psychological drama that requires many trigger warnings and is quite dark and executed really well.
I'm tossing up between an 8.5 and a 9. I'll be able to make a clearer judgement when it's complete, (which could take 3 more years)

... Last updated 1 year ago

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it’s actually really good?!?!

by maccadeau
2 years ago

Rating: 8.5 / 10.0

with the artstyle and initial chapters i expected this story to be frivolous but it’s actually a really sensitive and nuanced depiction of trauma. love love love what i’ve read so far. highly recommend.

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waiting to see how it goes

by lehedonist
2 years ago

Rating: N/A

This reminds me of under the oak tree. The FL is very traumatised and this entire series should just come with a huge trigger warning for multiple triggers. It’s tear-jerking to watch her struggle and misinterpret things. The ML’s development comes quite late so pacing wise the story is slow-ish, but I cannot wait to see the ML & FL develop on both personal and relationship fronts. They both have a lot of work to do. The upcoming story might be kinda predictable though but we never know

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Good adaptation. Liked the story

by IrisAlda92
3 years ago

Rating: 9.0 / 10.0

Liked the story so far, but I couldn't wait so I read up to chapter 114 of the novel online. The adaptation is quite good.

I'm glad to see the FL making some emotional progress in relation to her disorder. I haven't found many stories that talk about this kind of illnesses, which I know nothing about to be honest. I don't know how accurate the portrayal is, but still, I always find that raising awareness through storytelling is the best way to start reducing the stigma and encourage to seek help from loved ones and/or treatment from professionals. It is alright to not be alright all the time, specially when carrying certain emotional loads, we are human beings after all, not perfect, not flawless.

Take care of yourselves and your loved ones <3

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A sometimes frustrating read

by Y_Sasuke
11 months ago

Rating: 8.0 / 10.0

The FL has multiple psychological problems due to suffering years of abuse, so the series is painful to read sometimes as she acts bright while suffering and is unable to trust anyone around her, not helped by the fact most people are actually hostile to her.

I'm not sure it is a realistic depiction of psychological problems, but it is sometimes hard to watch. Later there is a good amount of fluff though and the art is top notch.

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Sigh

by serobins
2 years ago

Rating: N/A

Fun drinking game: every time the heroine trips and falls into the ML’s arms, take a shot of tequila.

Oh shit now you’re dead of alcohol poisoning.

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