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Post #127742 - Reply to (#126097) by Nins_Leprechaun
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1. I agree with the workplace thing. The discrimination. I've read that for every dollar a man makes, a woman makes 75 cents.


Alright I would like to clarify this issue because people who ***** about how woman earn less than men on average and flaunt statistics like that irritate me. First off yes, statistically speaking men earn more money than woman, and far more men hold extremely high level executive positions than woman. Now the reality which most people do not realize about these statistics is that they dont tell you much of anything. There are many factors that are not shown in these results, but I will just address two of them: The amount of personal/social life one is willing to sacrifice in order to get ahead, and the general attitude someone has to hold in order to progress quickly in a company.

The first factor I mentioned (sacrifice of personal/ social life) is fairly major. Some one who is going to try and aim to be a vice-president of a major corporation is not going to have time for much of a social life, and will need to be able to lead a hectic life style. Basically if the company says you are needed for an important meeting China in a week, and you have a friends wedding to attent while your away, the company gets priority. Furthermore, dont expect to spend much time with your family either, and you better be prepared to consistently work late, leaving little time for anything else. Remember in buisness there are atleast 1,000 other people with your exact same skills or better that are willing to work crazy hard to get a high level position, and you are competing with every single one of them.

The second factor I mentioned (attitude towards addressing issues) also plays a big roll in how you will do. Basically you are playing the "cover your own ass" game. Addressing issues in a way that most benifits your company isn't neccessarily what you want to do (despite what your wonderful compay mission statement says), its what is easiest and most benifical to you.

Anyways, while I feel there is no doubt SOME descrimination I doubt theres actually that much, because not only are there laws against this, the person who is responsable for highering or promoting you typically benifits directly if he makes good choices based on skill, so he is going to do his best to get the right people. There are so many other mental/physical differences and factors that play into these things that without more information these statistics have very little value for me.

Note: Oh and out of my 5 aunts and my mother, four of them work (or have worked for an extended period of time) a respectable and high level job ($100k/year+), except two because I don't see them very often and I'm not sure if they even have a job, or what that might be.

Note: Also these are figures of you parents earning for the most part, (I'm saying this because I dont see many people over the age of 24 here), where there was without a doubt much more discrimination in choosing your profession (or what university degree you would get if any)


..Yeah I didn't really read that all but it's a known fact that if you are over 6", you are more likely to get a job/job promotion/better job than most people around the 5"5 and below arena.

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i kinda dont like how i can't think about something not perverted for more than 10 seconds; resulting in the boners lawlz

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I hate being a woman for many, many reason

1) Period - damn, don't even get me started on this. -_- I get bad cases of PMS at times, and the rare times I get cramps, it hurts like a bitch
2) Pregnancy - ...*shudders* I once thought I was pregnant. When my period came that one time it was the happiest I'd ever been to have my period. XD Ahaha. NO ONE KNEW. >__>; So shh, don't tell
3) Dangers of the world - women are exposed to more dangers in the world, believe it or not. Speaking generally, we're weaker. Rape is my worst nightmare, and once I.... yea, well, the thought of rape makes me freeze up. In my late years of elementary/middle school and early years of HS, I tried to make myself as unattractive as possible. It worked pretty well, but people weren't necessarily friendly to that one "girl that dresses like a guy" at my school. laugh I'm still a tomboy up to this day [last time I wore ANY kind of makeup was in kindergarten]. It annoys people to no end. >_> Like, fuck off, will you? I can wear boxers if I want to [not saying I do].
4) Discrimination - ............................................................

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I once knew a Tomboy (b4 i moved T.T) and she was one of the coolest person I've ever met.

just wondering, what do you people think of tomboys?

and to make this post on topic. . .lets see what do i dislike about being a male. . .

I guess it would be that how we have to treat girls "nicely" and go "easy" on them in sports and social interactions. If I were to try my fullest against a girl, i would be critisized for being overly aggresive and if i act like myself in social conversations with girls I would be considered brusque. I just want to treat everyone the same way regardless of their gender--well I guess I just want to treat girls the same way I treat guys lol. Am I the only one here that's like that?

Post #136891 - Reply to (#136856) by Wufu
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I once knew a Tomboy (b4 i moved T.T) and she was one of the coolest person I've ever met.

just wondering, what do you people think of tomboys?

and to make this post on topic. . .lets see what do i dislike about being a male. . .

I guess it would be that how we have to treat girls "nicely" and go "easy" on them in sports and social interactions. If I were to try my fullest against a girl, i would be critisized for being overly aggresive and if i act like myself in social conversations with girls I would be considered brusque. I just want to treat everyone the same way regardless of their gender--well I guess I just want to treat girls the same way I treat guys lol. Am I the only one here that's like that?


Hurray for that, I mean if a girl were to come at you with a knife and you were to punch her in the stomach (purely for self-defense) people would still judge you and say "Ah, how could you do that, she didnt mean anything"

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Post #136897 - Reply to (#136891) by Chibidoro-sama
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I once knew a Tomboy (b4 i moved T.T) and she was one of the coolest person I've ever met.

just wondering, what do you people think of tomboys?

and to make this post on topic. . .lets see what do i dislike about being a male. . .

I guess it would be that how we have to treat girls "nicely" and go "easy" on them in sports and social interactions. If I were to try my fullest against a girl, i would be critisized for being overly aggresive and if i act like myself in social conversations with girls I would be considered brusque. I just want to treat everyone the same way regardless of their gender--well I guess I just want to treat girls the same way I treat guys lol. Am I the only one here that's like that?


Hurray for that, I mean if a girl were to come at you with a knife and you were to punch her in the stomach (purely for self-defense) people would still judge you and say "Ah, how could you do that, she didnt mean anything"

I like tomboys, and it always annoys me in mangas how they're made to change. Especially in Shoujos. It pisses me off. What kind of message are the young girls being sent!?

As for treating everyone the same, conversationally I'm the same with both genders, though physically I have a hands off policy, even if they don't keep their hands off me.

P.S. Chibi, as I'm staring at your sig, I begin to see an odd bulge in each of the cat girls crotch. Trap much?

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Post #136902 - Reply to (#136897) by x0mbiec0rp
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I like tomboys, and it always annoys me in mangas how they're made to change. Especially in Shoujos. It pisses me off. What kind of message are the young girls being sent!?

P.S. Chibi, as I'm staring at your sig, I begin to see an odd bulge in each of the cat girls crotch. Trap much?


Exactly. I refused to translate any more of Tenjou no Kajitsu exactly because of that plot. We're in the 21st century already, I thought women have come so far already. Being a tomboy shouldn't be a negative.


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I don't dislike being a man that much... i think life whould be much more time consuming if i were a girl (except in making money...for a girl to make money all she needs to do is give up her dignity...there are plenty of sugar daddies to go around...some wemen might even find it convenient...just remember anna nicole).

The only things i'm not content with is *why didn't balls evolve to be inside the body (just like ovaries) if they hurt so damn much when they get hit...& yes i know they need a temperature cooler than the body's to be able to produce good "merchandise" .
And i also don't like "blue balls"...why must God punish us if we don't go all the way confused
I also want to kill the guy who thought of putting zippers on pants...couldn't we just have stuck to buttons confused ...accidents do happen from time to time, even if it's just once every couple of years, but the memory of it leaves u scarred for life

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Post #136927 - Reply to (#136897) by x0mbiec0rp
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I once knew a Tomboy (b4 i moved T.T) and she was one of the coolest person I've ever met.

just wondering, what do you people think of tomboys?

and to make this post on topic. . .lets see what do i dislike about being a male. . .

I guess it would be that how we have to treat girls "nicely" and go "easy" on them in sports and social interactions. If I were to try my fullest against a girl, i would be critisized for being overly aggresive and if i act like myself in social conversations with girls I would be considered brusque. I just want to treat everyone the same way regardless of their gender--well I guess I just want to treat girls the same way I treat guys lol. Am I the only one here that's like that?


Hurray for that, I mean if a girl were to come at you with a knife and you were to punch her in the stomach (purely for self-defense) people would still judge you and say "Ah, how could you do that, she didnt mean anything"

I like tomboys, and it always annoys me in mangas how they're made to change. Especially in Shoujos. It pisses me off. What kind of message are the young girls being sent!?

As for treating everyone the same, conversationally I'm the same with both genders, though physically I have a hands off policy, even if they don't keep their hands off me.

P.S. Chibi, as I'm staring at your sig, I begin to see an odd bulge in each of the cat girls crotch. Trap much?


Hoooo, so you´ve noticed, didnt think you´d be interested though, hohoho cool

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The fact that some people consider I have some sort of obligation to mankind to put on makeup or actually give a damn about fashion. Oh and PMSing. That thing is monthly suicide, especially when you're out of Algocalmin.
And the list is just beginning...

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The fact that some people consider I have some sort of obligation to mankind to put on makeup or actually give a damn about fashion. Oh and PMSing. That thing is monthly suicide, especially when you're out of Algocalmin.
And the list is just beginning...


Forgot about PMS, one of the things why I pray to God every night thanking him that Im not a woman, + childbirth (pain,pain and more pain)

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Ohhh! I thought of another one.

The fact everyone thinks you like clothes and thus gives you them for birthdays. T_T

I'd much rather have money.

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Post #137089 - Reply to (#137082) by Dragonfiremule
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Ohhh! I thought of another one.

The fact everyone thinks you like clothes and thus gives you them for birthdays. T_T

I'd much rather have money.

Hell, nobody likes getting clothes. They'd rather pick them out themselves regardless of gender. Only an idiot would think otherwise.

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Post #137246 - Reply to (#137089) by x0mbiec0rp
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Ohhh! I thought of another one.

The fact everyone thinks you like clothes and thus gives you them for birthdays. T_T

I'd much rather have money.

Hell, nobody likes getting clothes. They'd rather pick them out themselves regardless of gender. Only an idiot would think otherwise.

I like getting clothes because I don't have enough money to go buy them for myself anymore T_T Underwear and socks would be nice... I keep running out of those...

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Post #137304 - Reply to (#137246) by Lybi
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Ohhh! I thought of another one.

The fact everyone thinks you like clothes and thus gives you them for birthdays. T_T

I'd much rather have money.

Hell, nobody likes getting clothes. They'd rather pick them out themselves regardless of gender. Only an idiot would think otherwise.

Underwear and socks would be nice... I keep running out of those...



Same!!!
i keep running out of them and i have no clue where they go off tooo....-.-"

on topic...
i rather dislike being a guy cause my legs are kinda hairy....

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