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What do women look for in men? 😕

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What do women look for in men?

The answer to that question is very different depending on who you ask. I think that a number of factors are taken into account when a woman (or anyone, really) is looking for a partner. Some things score higher than others, depending on the person. I believe a good sense of humor goes a long way, but then again people have very different kinds of humor, too.

With that said, the most attractive men for me are the ones comfortable in their own skin. Not to be confused with self-arrogance or narcissism— those are very different lmao.

As ^^^ said, it will be very different for different women. Its probably a bit easier to ask what women dont look for in men, and even thats a broad category subject to change based on the woman.
I feel confident in saying that a majority of women steer away from the self-pitying, why dont women like me, I'm a nice guy type, because they often are the ones to call girls bitch/dirty slut when they're rejected, haha. And universally, self-pity is a uniquely unnatractive trait.
The well adjusted woman steers right away away from the overtly abusive, controlling, narcissistic, egotistic, gaslighting types. Of course, many women aren't well adjusted, and may well be drawn to these qualities.
So that's that. Apart from not-white-knights and not-psycopaths, it's hard to say what women look for in a man. Everybody who doesn't fall into those categories is someone's type, and even if they do fall into one of those, there's still probably someone that does it for.

Would ladies be turned off by a guy who is so into fiction Light Novels?

Nah, not if they share similar interests at least! I like reading manga and light novels, so if I was dating a guy who liked the same stuff that would be cool.

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What do women look for in men? 😕

A question that will always be relevant. Here's some more specifics than the usual Be Morally Decent and Not Annoying advice:

Don't worry about making yourself "attractive" when it comes to completely arbitrary things. Looks, style, interests, hobbies - every woman has different taste anyway. If you genuinely like what you do, women who share those likes will be interested. Those are the women you want. If you're insecure about those things, those women will be driven away. These things are never the primary reason you're having trouble finding a girlfriend. If you think they are, it's that insecurity about them that's the real problem.

As a generalization, women have an intense social radar. They're always looking out for how everybody else is feeling/reacting and trying to go along with the tone of the conversation. They don't want to say things that are inappropriate, they don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, and they're very careful about it. To an extent, you have to play to this. Women absolutely love guys who can read the mood. Pay attention to her reactions. If she's eager to talk, keep doing what you're doing. If she brushes you off, stop right there. The most important thing, above everything else, is to be able to notice when she did not like something you said/did and to not do it again. Never ever push something onto her that she doesn't want. And if you're not sure if she genuinely wants it, ask. Make sure she knows you care about what she wants.
There are a lot of things women are afraid to say out loud. You can be the one to say them. Start the conversations she's afraid to start, give her the things she's afraid to ask for. If she's overthinking other people's behavior, be there to give her a different perspective. It's the differences between people that make them function better together.

Lastly: everybody wants to be loved. Showing love is all about noticing and appreciating the small details. And it's especially about loving the things people love about themselves. Compliments to the things she puts effort into are better than compliments to the things that come naturally (but of course both are good). Compliment the things she creates, the way she dresses, how impressive her skills are. Give very specific compliments to show you really notice and care about every little thing about her. Complimenting her entire appearance isn't as good as complimenting specific features. It's not just about telling her that you like her, it's about showing her exactly what you like about her. She doesn't want to feel like you'll take any reasonably good looking girl you can get, she wants to feel like she's the one for you.

Source: am female, know many other females, think a lot about these things
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Are there really still mothers who say that “being smart won’t get you married because men don’t like women smarter than them”?!? 😳
My mother told me to avoid being arrogant but to never undermine my smartness and thirst for knowledge because people in general should respect others’ smartness and cultural or scientific interests, so men who don’t like women who are smarter than them are misogynists who lacks even common decency and a woman shouldn’t waste her time with them.

if you're super smart you can see all the flaws in your prospective partner and valid reasons to wait for the next one
lucky you!!
my workplace is filled with nothing but educated women
I definitely have a preference for the brash, unapologetic 'get guud' types
I don't think my views do an especially good job of reflecting other men at large
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Your mother is right. Also why tf would someone not want to be with someone smart? That allows to learn more from the other person and to have more complex and deep talks, it's just a plus. The only reason one might wish the other was dumber is either if there is open competition or in order to manipulate them, but that's most certainly not the case with healthy relationships

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Just ask them as long as the question is appropriate. If you are shy, try to rethink it, does your curiosity bigger than your feeling. And if you truly cannot ask, dont force yourself. You can ask google.

What do you want to ask them?

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