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17 years ago
Posts: 334
Quote from ahoaho
Not to discount the good doc's post, but I have a question. If a guy says that he loves you, but you do not love him back, what do you do?
For me it's best to just say it to them straight. From my experience, men are usually persuasive, and they keep coming back if you're not frank enough.

17 years ago
Posts: 182
Quote from ahoaho
Not to discount the good doc's post, but I have a question. If a guy says that he loves you, but you do not love him back, what do you do?
All you can do is tell him that you don't. Other than that you just going to hurt him worst.
Dr.Love:
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I prefer a guy with a sense of humor. I guess some girls like the romantic type, but I rather go to Burger King an a guy make me laugh, then go to a romantic restaurant and be bored.
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I don't like the type that are so insecure that they do anything for the girl there with, even if they walk all over them. I also dislike the cheap-guys and sex-obsessed. It gets on my nerves.
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I try to give hints to the guy I like unless he a idiot and I know that, so I just plan out say that I like him or write a note.
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Well that actually happened to me, and I just started laughing. I was young and immature at that time. If it were to happen now, I would try to tell him and if that didn't work I would just ignore it.
I'm to tired to respond to the rest of the questions xD
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17 years ago
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Don't know generally. Pesonally someone with a great sense of humor would win. Romantics nice too but humor is what gets you through the day.
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All those you mentioned, except perhaps momma's boy are negatives. expecially Sex-obsessed guys, clingy guys. I can't be too harsh on unambitious because I'm the same way.
3)Most of the people I know will give hints, some just say screw it and directly tell them. I don't give hints or do anything about it in general.
- I'm not sure I'd notice, but if I did..it would be awkward. I'd probably just ignore it. I'm good at ignoring unpleasant things. Besides, it's most likely embarrasing for him too.
5a) I've always maintained I will not have kids. I find the world overpopulated as is, and my general life plan does not involve the money-sink that a child creates. If you have a kid they should come first. If you think a career is more important than a child you shouldn't have one.
5c) In terms of parenting, both should participate but I'm rather old-fashioned in that I think there should be one stay at home parent when the child is younger if at all possible. Don't care if it is the guy that stays home and the woman works or vice-versa. Of course this isn't always possible financially.
- Should be alone, not with a group of people. In person is preferred. Be direct and honest, maybe say why you are asking them out if they don't know you well (as long as your only reason is not that they are so hot or have a great ass, in that case don't say anything)
Don't whine if they tell you no and keep asking (see above under clingy as a not desirable trait)
for Ahoaho - I'd apologize and tell them I didn't feel that way.
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17 years ago
Posts: 2506
To Razril, just so you know, your male friends have probably had boners in your presence that you weren't at all aware of.
To Amantharine, I don't know how you plan to blackmail a guy with a picture of his expanded crotch, but I believe everyone knows he gets boners, and that it's not exactly something you can use against him.
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17 years ago
Posts: 694
Hmm....this is actually for both gender: why do some ppl (both girls and guys) stare at others on the public transit? (and please answer honestly as ive had many lie about it)
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17 years ago
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Quote from Reiketsukan
Hmm....this is actually for both gender: why do some ppl (both girls and guys) stare at others on the public transit? (and please answer honestly as ive had many lie about it)
Ocular evaluation.
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17 years ago
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Quote from Reiketsukan
Hmm....this is actually for both gender: why do some ppl (both girls and guys) stare at others on the public transit? (and please answer honestly as ive had many lie about it)
Ocular evaluation.
Seconded, the man knows his business
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17 years ago
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Quote from Chibidoro-sama
Quote from ahoaho
Quote from Reiketsukan
Hmm....this is actually for both gender: why do some ppl (both girls and guys) stare at others on the public transit? (and please answer honestly as ive had many lie about it)
Ocular evaluation.
Seconded, the man knows his business
And from female point of view, thirded 😛
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17 years ago
Posts: 535
here is a perverted question for the ladies
if you had to choose between a great lover and the love of your life...which would you choose
Lover: great in the sac all the time as much as you want but mediocre relationship...besides the sex...it's really not there
Great Love:tends to your every need mentally...but not physically "built" lol to tend to your physical needs
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17 years ago
Posts: 4917
Quote from Reiketsukan
Hmm....this is actually for both gender: why do some ppl (both girls and guys) stare at others on the public transit? (and please answer honestly as ive had many lie about it)
hmm, i am not really the type to stare at people, i'll glance over once in a while if they are pretty, but thats it...
i am just gonna go with what goolz said.

17 years ago
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Hey Keel, love of your life seems too all encompassing of a term to me. I mean, it is the most noteworthy relationship of your life, after all.
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17 years ago
Posts: 187
Quote from Keel
here is a perverted question for the ladies
if you had to choose between a great lover and the love of your life...which would you choose
Lover: great in the sac all the time as much as you want but mediocre relationship...besides the sex...it's really not there
Great Love:tends to your every need mentally...but not physically "built" lol to tend to your physical needs
Thats easy. Great Love. I don't view sex as a neccessity in a relationship.
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17 years ago
Posts: 535
Quote from x0mbiec0rp
Hey Keel, love of your life seems too all encompassing of a term to me. I mean, it is the most noteworthy relationship of your life, after all.
your ryte...but your also a guy
i agree with u but thats still a male perspective...females view things diff remember
come on ppl great sex for the rest of your life
or a great love...
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17 years ago
Posts: 694
great love for sure 😃
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17 years ago
Posts: 4030
Quote from x0mbiec0rp
To Amantharine, I don't know how you plan to blackmail a guy with a picture of his expanded crotch, but I believe everyone knows he gets boners, and that it's not exactly something you can use against him.
I don't know 'bout you, but it's still a funny picture. Also, it depends where you live some countries are more conservative, even if everyone knows how you guys get it..