Quote from KennEH!
Why can't a guy be told why he is being scolded? Like we aren't mind readers, if something is wrong why can't you tell us? (This has probably been asked but I can't find post so sorry if it has been)
Would you be upset if a guy told his friends about his relationship with you?
EDIT: To elaborate on my first question I'm pertaining to when you ask and teh response is, "you should know!"
ooh! this seems like a fun time over in this topic! well i would say that a girl might be embarrassed to talk about what is wrong. I hate to reinforce negative stereotypes because i'm pretty crazy and not the normal girl out there, so take what i'm saying with a pinch of salt. But a lot of the time I get crazy and irrational about things it's because i'm being crazy and irrational. The reason I'm yelling at you might not be, like say you bought a T-shirt with a spider emblem on it and tried to hug me while wearing it. I would yell at you and be very upset for seemingly no reason even though if you were reminded you would probably instantly know that i am completely out-of-my-mind terrified of spiders. I would not tell you perhaps because I don't want to put the problem with me, I want it to be with you, but then i would feel guilty and embarrassed. So to sum up, all sorts of negative emotions don't really lead to openness and rationality.
If a guy told his friends about our relationship? it depends on a lot of factors. Like are they our mutual friends? If so then yes i would, because i might not feel comfortable with you talking to our friends behind my back about me. If they were just your friends then i would try to be understanding but be crazy and slightly paranoid anyways. I would try to understand that it is fair to tell your friends as much as i tell my friends. And make sure that you are telling only your close friends who aren't complete gossips or gonna make rude comments to me. Otherwise it might seem that you are bragging and i'm only worth the notch in your belt. Otherwise i would try not to care about what you tell them, like if we've had kissed, or if I'm not good in bed, or that i'm a crazy.
and now i'm gonna answer that question about mentally undressing hot guys, because it sounds like fun. I never mentally undress people when i first see them. the most i'll imagine is people giving me a hug, or even just standing near me or bumping into me. I only do that with tall guys though (yay! slight fetish). I imagine doing perverted things to guys that i am attracted to intellectually. hot guys are just hot guys, they are there to be hot and not much else--unless they also have the right personality then they are there to be taken by some other girl. I might not be able to take my eyes of a guy's killer abs, but i'm just staring at them in admiration.
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Sorry for being incoherent