Ask the opposite gender

17 years ago
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Quote from xShatteredSoulx
shrugs Dodge her, I guess.
Okay, a question to ask a guy...
If we get into a conversation about something, will you find it annoying that I will sit and debate/discuss with you at length about the subject, or would you rather me just agree and not really offer an opinion?
I'm normally willing to hear anyone out.
May not always like what they say, tho.
But in a real debate, i normally wouldn't take things personally.

17 years ago
Posts: 2342
Quote from xShatteredSoulx
shrugs Dodge her, I guess.
Okay, a question to ask a guy...
If we get into a conversation about something, will you find it annoying that I will sit and debate/discuss with you at length about the subject, or would you rather me just agree and not really offer an opinion?
I like a discussion, stubbornness is what irks me. I know too many women who just state their opinion and won't give a reason or take what anyone else says, pisses me off.

17 years ago
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Wonderful, I can talk to all of you, then. Don't you boys have a question, though?
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.
Quote from xShatteredSoulx
Wonderful, I can talk to all of you, then. Don't you boys have a question, though?
Nah... Men take the "hands on" approach when it comes
to learning things about the opposite sex.
It's the best way to learn.
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17 years ago
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mod did a double post^^ or is it just me seeing things? 😕
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Nah... Men take the "hands on" approach when it comes to learning things about the opposite sex.
It's the best way to learn.
but wouldn't it be good to have some info? or else you can fail pretty bad...

17 years ago
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mod did a double post^^ or is it just me seeing things? 😕
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Nah... Men take the "hands on" approach when it comes to learning things about the opposite sex.
It's the best way to learn.but wouldn't it be good to have some info? or else you can fail pretty bad...
If you're afraid of failure, you'll never have success.
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I just wanted to comment that for some reason all the guys i know always seem to go for the more 'dominating' type of girl that will try to be the un-announced leader of the group of friends if they are in one and will always be trying to make the decisions. I mean i can understand no liking undecisive people but it just seems a little weird to me, is it the same with the guys here?

17 years ago
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I just wanted to comment that for some reason all the guys i know always seem to go for the more 'dominating' type of girl that will try to be the un-announced leader of the group of friends if they are in one and will always be trying to make the decisions. I mean i can understand no liking undecisive people but it just seems a little weird to me, is it the same with the guys here?
I like women who can stand up for themselves and be forward, just not to extreme. Though I also find something attractive on the other end too, submissive. Don't know if I answered your question, but just my point of view.
My question: dom, sub, or neither?

17 years ago
Posts: 2506
Quote from Sorceress_Rin
I just wanted to comment that for some reason all the guys i know always seem to go for the more 'dominating' type of girl that will try to be the un-announced leader of the group of friends if they are in one and will always be trying to make the decisions. I mean i can understand no liking undecisive people but it just seems a little weird to me, is it the same with the guys here?
Usually people who become the leaders of a group are the most outgoing and charismatic. They'd be the easiest for a guy to get to know, and they most likely have a certain natural attractiveness to their personality. However, the girls my friends have liked over the years are pretty varying, so keep in mind that where I am taste varies wildly.
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I just wanted to comment that for some reason all the guys i know always seem to go for the more 'dominating' type of girl that will try to be the un-announced leader of the group of friends if they are in one and will always be trying to make the decisions. I mean i can understand no liking undecisive people but it just seems a little weird to me, is it the same with the guys here?
I like women who can stand up for themselves and be forward, just not to extreme. Though I also find something attractive on the other end too, submissive. Don't know if I answered your question, but just my point of view.
My question: dom, sub, or neither?
hmmm, I personally think i would be bored with just being with a sub or a dom, so is there an inbetween? I hate guys who won't stand up for themselves and tell me what they want but i don't want to be completely controlled all the time.

17 years ago
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Quote from Sorceress_Rin
I just wanted to comment that for some reason all the guys i know always seem to go for the more 'dominating' type of girl that will try to be the un-announced leader of the group of friends if they are in one and will always be trying to make the decisions. I mean i can understand no liking undecisive people but it just seems a little weird to me, is it the same with the guys here?
I like women who can stand up for themselves and be forward, just not to extreme. Though I also find something attractive on the other end too, submissive. Don't know if I answered your question, but just my point of view.
My question: dom, sub, or neither?
Depends, do you mean in life or sex? In sex, I can't answer, but in life, if you try to boss me too much, then I will sic three footballs players, a baseball player, and a cop on you. Then, if you happen to die, my Dad can make it look lik an accident. It's great being the daughter of a med school graduate.
But, murder aside... I can take being shoved around a little bit, but I don't appreciate it. Push me too far and I'll retaliate. Push me too hard and you'll find that the guys in my family are protective, as already stated.
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.
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Quote from KennEH!
I like women who can stand up for themselves and be forward, just not to extreme. Though I also find something attractive on the other end too, submissive. Don't know if I answered your question, but just my point of view.
My question: dom, sub, or neither?
Depends, do you mean in life or sex? In sex, I can't answer, but in life, if you try to boss me too much, then I will sic three footballs players, a baseball player, and a cop on you. Then, if you happen to die, my Dad can make it look lik an accident. It's great being the daughter of a med school graduate.
But, murder aside... I can take being shoved around a little bit, but I don't appreciate it. Push me too far and I'll retaliate. Push me too hard and you'll find that the guys in my family are protective, as already stated.
Uh huh... Make sure you let men know this, so they know that they are dealing with a potential murderer.
If they're willing to take that risk... You've got yourself a keeper! 😀
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17 years ago
Posts: 591
i have a question and it is where do girls stand on texting?...i know that if your trying to get close to a girl you call them but..what do girls stand on texting..is it just for fun?
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17 years ago
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I don't think texting shows that much interest. Texting is just a quick way to exchange information. I don't see texting as romantic.
@Calliber
I'm not a potential murderer, I'm just the person feeding them to the real murderers. 🙂
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.
17 years ago
Posts: 9
Wait! Is this texting to get close to a girl or just texting? Because I'm used to getting texts (well not anymore) from my boyfriend and it's not that it's romantic, but that its thoughtful. I'm sure different girls find texting different, but if you want to get close to one, don't rely on texting. And make sure you're at good standing with them or else that's just creepy (calling might also be creepy... Is there a non-creepy approach to things?)