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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...
- Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?! 😕
Hormones? Plain horny?
Maybe they think they can? I know some who do, some who don't.
I have a married relative who bluntly states how good looking (and other things) other women are. Next to his wife.
...
I'd take a bet and say many guys just take sex and everything sexual less seriously than most girls.
Yeah they do take it less seriously. I know some girls who believe in their first time to be magical, I mean I really don't but it'd be nice if such a thing were true. But you can't say the same for guys. Honestly how many guys actually dream of their first time (well besides actually thinking about it in a horny way) being something magical? Can't say I've met a guy who has.
16 years ago
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Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...
1- Why do guys insist that they are looking for a serious relationship, something new, a girl who is willing to commit...but then when you give them a chance the next day or so, they are with someone else who is nothing like what they say they are and appear to be the easiest girl around? Um like wtf? Are we suppose to take you seriously when you make such a huge leap >:-(
- Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?! 😕
Honestly I would never do such a thing NEVER I would be lolyal to my girlfrind (if i had one) the reasson is becuse I was disappointed many times I wouldnever broke the trust someone has to me.
so I can only guess the answers
- ther are many guy who pretending they are looking for that serious relationship, but they dont 8some of my frinds do so...)
- Instinct maybe...sorry i cant help even if I am a guy...
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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...
1- Why do guys insist that they are looking for a serious relationship, something new, a girl who is willing to commit...but then when you give them a chance the next day or so, they are with someone else who is nothing like what they say they are and appear to be the easiest girl around? Um like wtf? Are we suppose to take you seriously when you make such a huge leap >:-(
- Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?! 😕
My Answer to 1
You playing with players? Guys willing to commit? where? the ones that are looking for a serious relationship are not THAT many and some players use this to their advantage, there are only 3 kind of guys that think about commitment: The inexperienced ones that don't know Hack shit about anything (highly religious guys fit very well in here), the ones that already have experience, but are looking for something else, and the others...
The others = the ones that don't fit in neither of the 2 main groups.
Oh yeah, I am saying commitment = the road to marriage... if you mean to be loyal to a single girlfriend that is a complete different matter, men can be loyal, but remember we have a hunter genes and some just can't stop hunting.
My answer to 2
Well you are asking too much, for a hunter is only natural to take a look at what the world has to offer, but that doesn't mean we are going to jump an attack the first hot girl that gets into our range.
... yeah I have been playing a game and teh words Hunter and range got stuck in my brain... sorry
16 years ago
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Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...
- Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?! 😕
Hormones? Plain horny?
Maybe they think they can? I know some who do, some who don't.
I have a married relative who bluntly states how good looking (and other things) other women are. Next to his wife.
...
I'd take a bet and say many guys just take sex and everything sexual less seriously than most girls.Yeah they do take it less seriously. I know some girls who believe in their first time to be magical, I mean I really don't but it'd be nice if such a thing were true. But you can't say the same for guys. Honestly how many guys actually dream of their first time (well besides actually thinking about it in a horny way) being something magical? Can't say I've met a guy who has.
Some guys do.
Although I wonder how many people actually get their first time to be magical... With all the pain and lack of experience....
Probably depends on age too...
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16 years ago
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First is never magical... (at least guys don't use the word magic)... is AWESOME at first, then becomes a good memory and finally turns into an embarrassing moment because you could have done it much better, however for some guys is indeed a very special time, but only if they got married with their first crush/time/girlfriend/wife and never got bored of her (that is less than 1% of the world male population, I can assure you that)
Girls expect too much, you want the perfect prince/guy, but those don't exist, you can get something awfully close, but never perfect, guys never aim for perfection and as such it takes something HUGE to make a guy feel disappointed in their girlfriend.
There is this joke about a department store that sells husbands... lets see if I can find it in the net
This is almost like the one I read in spanish, but it has a few different things... oh well I will fix it a little 😛
A store that sells new husbands
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where
a woman may go to choose a husband Among the instructions at the
entrance is a description of how the store operates:
You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value
of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights.
The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose
to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit
the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first
floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs
She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where t he sign
reads:
Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids
"That's nice", she thinks, "but I want more."
So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking
"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and
Help with Housework
"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help
with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the
sign
reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on
this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible
to please.
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
PLEASE NOTE:
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store
just across the street.
The first floor has wives that Love Sex.
The second floor has wives that Love Sex and Love to do housework.
The third floor has wives that Love Sex, Love to do housework and Have money.
The fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited.
16 years ago
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Quote from Chaoswind
Girls expect too much, you want the perfect prince/guy, but those don't exist, you can get something awfully close, but never perfect, guys never aim for perfection and as such it takes something HUGE to make a guy feel disappointed in their girlfriend.
There is this joke about a department store that sells husbands... lets see if I can find it in the net
This is almost like the one I read in spanish, but it has a few different things... oh well I will fix it a little 😛
A store that sells new husbands
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where
a woman may go to choose a husband Among the instructions at the
entrance is a description of how the store operates:You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value
of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights.The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose
to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit
the building!So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first
floor the sign on the door reads:Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs
She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where t he sign
reads:Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids
"That's nice", she thinks, "but I want more."
So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking
"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and
Help with Housework"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help
with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the
sign
reads:Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on
this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible
to please.Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
PLEASE NOTE:
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store
just across the street.The first floor has wives that Love Sex.
The second floor has wives that Love Sex and Love to do housework.
The third floor has wives that Love Sex, Love to do housework and Have money.
The fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited.
I don't look for perfect guys because such a thing does not exist, but I will agree that there are delusional girls who try to find such a man but meh they all have flaws. And what you said about guys not looking for perfect girls, yeah okay if you say so...I think they search for the 'perfect' girl maybe even harder than we search for the 'perfect' guy.
"A store that sells new husbands" that's hilarious 🤣 I've read the Spanish version before.
It's sad though cause it's so true not for all women but well you get what I'm saying. Yes, we are hard to please but only because men have either showered us with displeasure time after time, or merely because we are searching for something that men have not been able to provide, thus why some if not all women are picky with their type of men but like I said all men, and women as well have flaws.
But what does that say about men...it clearly states that all man need from a woman is sex, a maid, and money. That actually explains a lot 🙂
16 years ago
Posts: 1145
Quote from LunaMay
Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...
1- Why do guys insist that they are looking for a serious relationship, something new, a girl who is willing to commit...but then when you give them a chance the next day or so, they are with someone else who is nothing like what they say they are and appear to be the easiest girl around? Um like wtf? Are we suppose to take you seriously when you make such a huge leap >:-(
- Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?! 😕
Can't really answer 1 since I'm not a guy... but females are the same way.
As for 2, it's natural to look at other people and find them attractive. Women do it as well. And I actually see women flipping out more often about their guy checking out another female then men do when their girlfriends check out other men. As for why they flip out about it... it's called jealously and insecurity.
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16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
I don't look for perfect guys because such a thing does not exist, but I will agree that there are delusional girls who try to find such a man but meh they all have flaws. And what you said about guys not looking for perfect girls, yeah okay if you say so...I think they search for the 'perfect' girl maybe even harder than we search for the 'perfect' guy.
"A store that sells new husbands" that's hilarious 🤣 I've read the Spanish version before.
It's sad though cause it's so true not for all women but well you get what I'm saying. Yes, we are hard to please but only because men have either showered us with displeasure time after time, or merely because we are searching for something that men have not been able to provide, thus why some if not all women are picky with their type of men but like I said all men, and women as well have flaws.
But what does that say about men...it clearly states that all man need from a woman is sex, a maid, and money. That actually explains a lot 🙂
Hehe, is not like we are swallow, is just that we are not deep enough
😲
Don't take it the wrong way, even if most guys are like that at certain age (most) have a change of heart when they get older, sadly when we do, we usually look for a younger partner, that is why girls over 30 have a tough time looking for a love bird O.o
Hey I have a question...
Would you say what is your biggest flaw? (both men and woman)
If yes... then say/write it... smart ass...
I will say the truth, I am just insane, I can burst into laughter for no apparent reason (after staying quiet for hours in a corner of the library) and my friends say Lucifer must have recorded my laugh to use it as Hell's welcome theme.
Next to that one would be my strange memory and my bad habit of saving all my resentment until it reaches Critical Mass in with result I would attempt to Kill you or at the very least kick your ass to oblivion.
Not many girls can stand the way I laugh (is scary), but my friends love it >_>
and those are the flaws (that I am aware off)
16 years ago
Posts: 1138
Quote from Chaoswind
Hey I have a question...
Would you say what is your biggest flaw? (both men and woman)
If yes... then say/write it... smart ass...I will say the truth, I am just insane, I can burst into laughter for no apparent reason (after staying quiet for hours in a corner of the library) and my friends say Lucifer must have recorded my laugh to use it as Hell's welcome theme.
Lol at the laughing, I actually laugh at anything so yeah I can understand that.
My biggest flaw would have to be my over protectiveness/jealousy. If I'm with a guy I don't mind if he has friends of the opposite sex but there's a limit to how you divide your time with me and your friends, meaning more me time 😃 . Some guys don't like that, but I've dated guys who think that's a total turn on (weirdos I think).
I'm not patient. I use to date guys I thought were mature but proved me wrong and well my patience wore very thin.
Another flaw would be my judgment a lot of girls and guys have told me that I shouldn't base my judgment on what others think. I really don't but I do ask for the advice of my best friends who I've known for years and well they probably know me better then I do myself and they are both guys so I take what they think to heart nothing wrong with that, but past boyfriends didn't like that much.
Another thing I'm aware of is probably that guys don't really like know it alls or sarcasm for that fact, and I tend to do both. I guess guys really do go for the dumb girls, and those who go for the smart ones don't know how to hold on to something. No offense to other people.
16 years ago
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Quote from Chaoswind
Hehe, is not like we are swallow, is just that we are not deep enough
😲Don't take it the wrong way, even if most guys are like that at certain age (most) have a change of heart when they get older, sadly when we do, we usually look for a younger partner, that is why girls over 30 have a tough time looking for a love bird O.o
Hey I have a question...
Would you say what is your biggest flaw? (both men and woman)
If yes... then say/write it... smart ass...I will say the truth, I am just insane, I can burst into laughter for no apparent reason (after staying quiet for hours in a corner of the library) and my friends say Lucifer must have recorded my laugh to use it as Hell's welcome theme.
Next to that one would be my strange memory and my bad habit of saving all my resentment until it reaches Critical Mass in with result I would attempt to Kill you or at the very least kick your ass to oblivion.
Not many girls can stand the way I laugh (is scary), but my friends love it >_>
and those are the flaws (that I am aware off)
Swallow. 🤣 You mean shallow correct? 😛
My biggest flaws... one would be that I don't know how to use the word "no." Which tends to get me into trouble. 🤢 But when people ask a favor of me, to do something, to borrow something, I can't help but say "yes." Which sadly causes a lot of people to take advantage of me (and not in a good way!). A lot of people say that I'm too honest/blunt. And I guess that can cause some problems because I never say what people are wanting to hear, but the actual truth and opinion. Another... I am so damn stubborn it is not even funny. It's not that I can't give leeway or compromise... but, I'm just very firm in my beliefs and opinions.
...and thinking about my flaws, I actually have a lot. But they're "charming" dammit. 🤣
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16 years ago
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Quote from NightSwan
Hormones? Plain horny?
Maybe they think they can? I know some who do, some who don't.
I have a married relative who bluntly states how good looking (and other things) other women are. Next to his wife.
I would say those types of guys probably have bad manners. They can think other women are attractive and appreciate beauty, etc. But they don't have to be blunt and rude. What is blunt and rude or not varies from person to person. It's up to women who would or would not find such manners acceptable. On the other hand, many guys also judge girls based on their manners. At least they do where I live.
I'd take a bet and say many guys just take sex and everything sexual less seriously than most girls.
I'd say it also depends. It has to do with people's culture, values, social environment and backgrounds, I guess. Many girls I know don't take sex and anything sexual seriously at all. I am sure they are good match with those guys.
16 years ago
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I have a few more questions 😛
Not sure if these have been asked though...
-If a girl is currently dating or interested in another guy, does this situation motivate you to pursue her more or to just give up? Some girls still go for it when guys are dating other girls, is it the same for guys?
Do guys like girls with more, or with less sexual experience then them? same applies for relationship experience.
-Do guys really have a fetish for like example: maid, nurse, school girl costumes? I know they do, but around what age are guys really into that stuff?
16 years ago
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Quote from LunaMay
I have a few more questions 😛
Not sure if these have been asked though...-If a girl is currently dating or interested in another guy, does this situation motivate you to pursue her more or to just give up? Some girls still go for it when guys are dating other girls, is it the same for guys?
Do guys like girls with more, or with less sexual experience then them? same applies for relationship experience.
-Do guys really have a fetish for like example: maid, nurse, school girl costumes? I know they do, but around what age are guys really into that stuff?
For the first question, I'd personally decide to still be their friend, but avoid anything emotional.
The second part... I don't even know.
The third question, it depends on the girl really. If she fits the look its really really stimulating, if not its really akward.
16 years ago
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Oh wow! This thread too! I love this thread.
LunaMay's questions:
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I'd probably back out out of respect for their relationship. I'd not feel good if me bein' a creepster and trying to woo her strained the relationship in any way.
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They both have their advantages. I'd personally prefer less or equal experience for the same reasons you probably don't go play tennis with your friend the varsity team captain.
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I never understood those fetishes. I think everybody's a little too keen to claim it's a fetish when in actuality they just think that a lot of women that wear maid or nurse outfits look cute. I could give you and age range but it'd be a bunch of malarkey
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16 years ago
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Yay! You always answer my questions Pirate! Thank you! 🙂
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- I never understood those fetishes. I think everybody's a little too keen to claim it's a fetish when in actuality they just think that a lot of women that wear maid or nurse outfits look cute. I could give you and age range but it'd be a bunch of malarkey
Yeah I wanted to see an age range because I would find it weird if someone close to my age had such a fetish. I use to always associate fetishes with grown older men, don't know why though. But everyone has them I guess.
