Casual Sex

17 years ago
Posts: 1027
I don't mind people having casual sex, or being friends with benefits, but i'm not cut out for it. I am not able to casually continue being friends with a person (friend i care about) and ignore a possible relationship. But that said, I will remain being friends if that possibility is non existent.
And as someone already said i don't really understand why not try to engage in a real relationship...you won't get much better then a friend and a good lover.
So all that talk about no baggage and stress doesn't really apply to me. Call me an old fashioned woman 🤢
One night stands are another thing...
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17 years ago
Posts: 92
yeah~ you need something to support your needs
and its not like you always want to be in a relationship

17 years ago
Posts: 872
My thoughts on this is like everyone else's... people are free to do whatever they want, I will not reprehend my friends for doing that, but I will not do that and I would like my friends not to reprehend me for doing that.
I guess that makes of me what Calliber mentioned as an 'emotional man-woman', but that is just who I am 😛 I still believe in fairy tale like relationships and love at first sight 🤣
Side note: I think I would feel unsecure having a relationship with somebody who have casual sex... does that makes me an asshole? 🙁
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Tempted, but no. No matter how fun it sounds i think it well inevitably end up as a mess with hurt feelings and all. Not that i am speaking from experience or anything, after all i almost punched my bf the first time he kissed me on the lips. 🤢

17 years ago
Posts: 412
Quote from Mamsmilk
Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.
Agreed whole heartedly.

17 years ago
Posts: 131
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Quote from Mamsmilk
Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.Agreed whole heartedly.
Do you mean:
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice SO i approve.
or
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice AND i approve casual sex.
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17 years ago
Posts: 2708
Quote from Mamsmilk
Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.
But would you personally have casual sex?
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
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I approve of casual sex, it's just I've been single for so damned long I might as well wait for a proper long term relationship. (Not that any girls would be interested in me either way 😢 )
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17 years ago
Posts: 412
Quote from krosko
Quote from Lybi
Quote from Mamsmilk
Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.Agreed whole heartedly.
Do you mean:
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice SO i approve.
or
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice AND i approve casual sex.
Good point. But I never really liked the choices. To approve something is to almost promote it and to disapprove is to promote not doing it and I'd say I'm neither. If you want to, go ahead, I don't judge, but if you don't, I don't care either :3

17 years ago
Posts: 2708
Quote from Lybi
Quote from krosko
Quote from Lybi
[quote=Mamsmilk]Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.Agreed whole heartedly.
Do you mean:
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice SO i approve.
or
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice AND i approve casual sex.
Good point. But I never really liked the choices. To approve something is to almost promote it and to disapprove is to promote not doing it and I'd say I'm neither. If you want to, go ahead, I don't judge, but if you don't, I don't care either :3[/quote]
I have to agree with you, Lybi. I don't want to promote it, but I don't want to tell people how to go about their lives. If they want to, fine for them, if they don't, it's still okay.
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.
Quote from amaranthine
I don't care what other people do, but it's not for me... 😳 I don't even kiss on the first date!
Hahaha, I feel your pain, brother.
First dates never go well for me.
I always get so tense, especially if I really like the person.
Even when I know they like me, I still fell completely awkward.
I just can't make the first move on a first date, because it would seem like I'm pushy/desperate/etc. A hug is all I've ever gotten on a first date... sort of pathetic compared to some of my friend's stories... Makes me depressed as I think its time to start looking again... you find some people strangely annoying after going out for awhile.

17 years ago
Posts: 131
Quote from xShatteredSoulx
Quote from Lybi
Quote from krosko
[quote=Lybi][quote=Mamsmilk]Yes, I do not have the right to butt in to someone's
life and choices. I approve.Agreed whole heartedly.
Do you mean:
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice SO i approve.
or
i don't have the right to butt into someone's life and choice AND i approve casual sex.
Good point. But I never really liked the choices. To approve something is to almost promote it and to disapprove is to promote not doing it and I'd say I'm neither. If you want to, go ahead, I don't judge, but if you don't, I don't care either :3[/quote]
I have to agree with you, Lybi. I don't want to promote it, but I don't want to tell people how to go about their lives. If they want to, fine for them, if they don't, it's still okay.[/quote]
You know that you can have an opinion about thing without pushing your way of thinking onto the other.
I disapporve of casual sex but it's only me, i'm friend with some who approve it.
We don't discuss about it, they are the way they want, i don't have and don't even want the right to choose the way they are.
So i ask you what do YOU think about casual sex ?
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If one day you feel useless and depressed, remember: one day you were the fastest spermatozoon of all.
The speed of light is faster than the speed of sound, which is why sometimes people look bright until they start talking.

17 years ago
Posts: 412
Quote from krosko
You know that you can have an opinion about thing without pushing your way of thinking onto the other.
I disapporve of casual sex but it's only me, i'm friend with some who approve it.
We don't discuss about it, they are the way they want, i don't have and don't even want the right to choose the way they are.So i ask you what do YOU think about casual sex ?
I don't really have an opinion. I personally don't dip in casual sex mainly because I have a boyfriend and I don't have enough confidence in myself physically anyway.

17 years ago
Posts: 872
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Quote from amaranthine
I don't care what other people do, but it's not for me... 😳 I don't even kiss on the first date!
Hahaha, I feel your pain, brother.
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17 years ago
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Quote from krosko
So i ask you what do YOU think about casual sex ?
I approve of casual sex for other people. I do not approve of it for myself. (does that mean I hold myself to a higher standard?)
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.