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[quote=silencer]Right now it should be like this :

A girl who goes to the lectures and tutorials to take notes of important things for me ( so that i can sleep or do what i like in my room)...when i need though.
She has a comprehensive knowledge, good at calculating, she is able to realize my mistakes (if they exist - not necessarily know how to correct them), she can understand me, basically.
Around my age, perhaps 1 or 2 years more or less.
She has a distinguishable hobby compare to other girls, she is not clingy at all.
She is cute.

Perhaps i already knew someone like that... 😕

wow...
sorry to comment on your post but...
it seems that your looking for a servant not a lover...

I agree with you ;O

i agree with you 😐

j/k

Those are the things that i expect from her,in exchange, i will do anything to be able to come up to her expectations, if i can...but that s not what this thread is about...[/quote]

ok im speechless... 😛

oh please do click this!
The sweeter the apple, the higher the branch. The quieter the fart, the nastier the smell.
GUESS WHO??

Brains!
That's the most attractive thing in a man.
He may be handsome and nice and adventurous, whatever. If he turns out to be less intelligent than me, I have no interest anymore at all. And I have empirical proof for that.

He should be able to say his mind and be clever with it (cunning), not shy, balanced, have a few interests similar to mine but some of his own as well and should be able to stand his own company and leave me alone if I cannot care to be bothered (I would do the same).

And yes, looks help. But I have no preferences.
(I analyzed what draws me to people and only found a pattern in behaviour, not in looks.)

Someone that is smart and clever. Understands me and all of my faults/ fucked up personality. She is very independent, mature and strong, but still has rare times when she act like a naive child. Does not need/want me to do everything for her, but will ask me for help when she does need it. have a few similar hobbies or interests. As far as looks good I really don't care all that much, but I like dark hair nice legs, and a great smile. So yeah here's to hoping you are out there somewhere

" 9 years and 163 days later, 2% of my body cells are still in love with her"

I prefer guys who are slender (or maybe on the verge of being skinny), funny, understanding, nice, not selfish about food, and be able to keep up with me and all of my cynicism. Also I would like for him to have a nice smile. Beside that, just average height and looks, and above average intelligence would do.

Nulla in mundo pax sincera
"Always go too far, because that's where you'll find the truth." - Albert Camus

Well, I pretty much think I've found the One and Only, but I'm surprised he's not what I was aiming for... Yet somehow, he's perfect.

Before I met him:
I want him to be smart, maybe a little smarter than me so I can be challenged by him.
I want him to be a bit taller than me so I can look up to him but not too much that I have to be on my tippy toes.
I want him to be athletic so that I could, again, be challenged by him.
I want him to be a bit different, so that there's always some spice in our convos.
I want him to love me just the way I am, with all my faults, insecurities, and craziness.
I want him to always be my side and never look at any other woman.
I want him to take care of me.

After I met him:
He's sweet and kind and he's my best friend
He's a tad less smart than I am, but I love when he relies on me
He's athletic and he acknowledges my athleticism too
He teases me almost as much as I tease him
He gives me butterflies everytime I catch him looking at me
He talks to me constantly
Either he's always around me or I'm around him
We have a ton in common

But the only thing that breaks my heart is the fact that he has no interest in romance whatsoever and only thinks of me as a best friend, nothing more or less. Oh well. There are many more fish in the sea... I hope.

I am vindicated!
I am selfish;
I am wrong!
I am right,
I swear I'm right.
Swear I knew it all along
And I am flawed!
But I am cleaning up so well
I am seeing in me now
The things you swore
You saw yourself...

~"Vindicated" by Dashboard Confessional

Physically?
6-6'5 feet tall (I'm 5'2)
Green eyes, black hair, olive complexion,toned but not overly buff
Can play an instrument well and/or sing
White, straight teeth and dimples
Good taste in clothes

Also, smart, funny, easygoing, not too intense, has romantic skills physically/emotionally.

Has a hot accent!! Perhaps British, Spanish, Australian, or Irish

*I haven't met the "love of my life", so this is just Mr. Drool-worthy. Actually, I met a British guy one time that fit all of this except for the intelligence. What a coincidence XD 😛

"That day, all female officers will be required to wear TINY MINISKIRTS!!!!!"

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Hmm... My perfect lover.... (Warning, there are a lot of condradictions)

Appearance

-Male, preferably older than me but not to old. About 1-4 years older, 1 year younger.
-Taller than me. Which is easy to find because I am short. 😐
-Willowy or lanky with muscle. I like thin guys. Not sickeningly thin, I want them to be bigger than me. I like athletic but not meatheads. There is such thing as too much muscle. So basically I want him to be toned.
-I like slightly feminine faces on men. Or a chistled jawline with stubble. Both are interchangable.
-I love, love, LOVE green eyes. Blue is a good second.
-Short and shaggy or medium to long hair length. I like longer hair on guys but it's so hard to find, especially ones that keep there hair nice.
-Darker hair is prefered. Black is optimal. I don't mind blonde but I hate ginger. I love red but there is a fine line between red and ginger.
-As for race I'd prefer white or asian. But if I find someone I love, it doesn't matter the race.

Personality

-Must be mature but also knows when to be playful.
-I want us to rely on each other, I want to be bestfriends with him. Where we tell each other secrets and share those "looks". Sort of like my cousin and I. We can look at each other and know exactly what we are thinking.
-Likes some of the same things as me. He should also have is own things too.
-I love outgoing friendly guys. I'd like to hang out with his friends and vis versa.
-INTELLIGENT. There is nothing I hate more than a stupid man. I don't want to talk to a ken doll.
-Clever. He can be a genius but if he doesn't know how to use it then well....
-Loyal. I am a very loyal person and I expect the same devotion.
-Like most girls, I like the bad boys. Or at least he lets me think I tamed his bad boy ways. 😉
-I don't want him to be clingy. Touchy is fine as long as it doesn't go overboard

And there is my impossibly long list. If anyone finds him tell me what book, movie or manga he's from because I doubt I'd find him in real life.

I'd like a girl that's about my height (a not so impressive 5'4'') and between like 16 and 20. Appearance-wise, I have a certain preference for east Asian features and long, straight black hair. I like slender, though not so much that I can see ribs, and a flat stomach is oddly important to me.

More importantly, though, I need someone that's a friend. I have few people to talk to, and no one to talk to about anything important. Hopefully she would be kinder rather than meaner and about as intelligent as I am. I'd like her to be shy, but still able to deal with my occasional wishywashiness. Maybe she would like to travel the world with me, and if we were struck with poverty or something she would sit there on the street with me. It would be nice if she were clingy, too, 'cause I would probably be pretty clingy myself. Hey, we could be clingy together.

So...any ladies interested?

I just realized you could possibly be referencing Pygmalion with your topic title and I enjoy that. Moving on...

Personality wise
Well, I always imagined I would end up with somebody who was an artist, or who had a passion for something. My "perfect" lover would be someone who could understand the way I talk (I speak the way I write and sometimes words fall from my mouth in really strange patterns), someone who is intelligent, understanding... Someone who loves life and creating, and doesn't limit their thinking at a certain point in time, because I think a lot of people hit a point in their lives where they think their experience entitles them to a certain belief and idea system and while that's perfectly natural, I am constantly growing in and out of myself. Like in a Socratic seminar, I always have a short term infatuation with the person who plays "Devil's advocate". Someone who'd be willing to travel all around the world with me and just try out different activities and ways of living. I like shopping at clothing stores just as much as I like going to the library, so, I'm sorry to say, I'm not someone who is able to appreciate the macho man type, who think women are ridiculous for going shopping and yet who deride them for trying anything else. I have no patience for feminist types either. Gender equality is a wonderful thing of course, but I get annoyed with the "it's 'cause they're men" or "it's 'cause they're women" jokes.

Physically
Someone with beautiful hands and an expressive face, with a voice that can bring me in and out of myself... ergh I don't know how to explain it. Like a voice that can bring me to different sensations. For guys, I do like taller men, or at least where I feel a bit small in comparison. I also like guys who have a "clean" feeling, who kind of take care of their appearance. I know that's a bit picky but I'm a bit picky with my own appearance. As for women, I like soft, slender-ish curves, vibrant hair and smooth skin.

So...any ladies interested?

Give me a few months to lose my belly fat 🤣

I want a guy who respects me. Because if a guy respects me, he'd never cheat on me and wouldn't do something that would hurt me. Plus, even if it may sound selfish, if a guy respects me, I believe he wouldn't leave me. I'm a very dedicated lover hence I'd like it if my boyfriend wouldn't have an affair or do something fishy behind my back, and, I know for myself, I won't get tired of someone once we started to get serious. (I'm usually the one getting dumped because they are tired of me. How freaking sad is that?)

That's the only thing I need from a guy for me to consider them to be perfect (Simple, no?). Other things would only be a bonus: ie, rich, handsome, smart, etc.

"Shouldn't be alive but the condom broke."

Let's see, the idea of a perfect lover, warrants some thought, honestly. Because, frankly, he wouldn't exist in this world if I put down all the specifics. Like a) he must be non-human: think, vampire, lycanthrope, fey or demon; and b) he must somehow, in all his supernatural glory, actually love a mere normal human (that being me). See, if he fulfilled a) I'm pretty sure he wouldn't fulfill b), but since I don't particularly think anyone fulfilling a) exists so let's just say the point is moot as of now. So let's take a step down from perfect. And we'll go with the as-close-to-perfect-as-it-is-possible-for-a-human lover.

Since, I'm pretty shallow, yes I know, I'm shallow and I don't give a- Well, yeah. I'm embracing my shallowness. This close-to-perfect lover would have to be real easy on the eyes, let me change that, eye candy. Gorgeous and all that, you know, eye candy. Think Jean-Claude and Asher from Laurell K. Hamilton's Anita Blake series, (Hey wait, they aren't human! Big surprise...) I'm not really specific on the features, as long as they work together to make up one completely knock-out face. I'm rather partial towards violet eyes though, so pretty... Mooooom, why don't I have violet eyes?

Amazing body, of course, I don't want a body-builder, nope, sorry, pass. I think it's really because I've been reading manga since I was 11; and really, no self-respecting bishonen would have bulky muscles, so that translates to my taste and preferences in guys, no bulky muscles. Absolutely not. Tall, please and thank you. I'm petite, that's what I tell myself to make myself feel better about being short, so that's easy. Like the heroes are always a head taller than the heroines, or the semes are always a head taller than the ukes. Honestly, if I ever meet this close-to-perfect guy, there's a 99% chance he's gay. But I'm fine with that, hot gay couples make me sigh. I know guys say they don't understand the female psyche, frankly I don't understand it myself, and I'm a girl. Duh.

You know what, since I'm pretty sure I'll never meet this guy, and if I do, he'll be gay, so I'm going to be a little more outrageous with my demands. He must be this totally rich CEO of this totally huge company, and I wouldn't mind if he has a few fingers in the underground society, like Asami in the Finder series, isn't he so delicious? Or maybe Sinclair from the Undead series, also delicious, and guess what, not human! I wouldn't mind it if he's a chauvinistic ass, then we'd be arguing all day long, cause I'm pretty much a feminist, but we'd kiss and make up. He must be possessive and stubborn and privileged, used to getting his way far too much, cause if he wasn't, I'd suffocate the poor guy to death with my overbearing ways, and he'd be completely drained before the month was out.

Sharp too, because I'm a compulsive liar and I want someone who knows when I'm lying and when to call me on it and when to let it slide. Smart enough not to be manipulated by me all the time, and smart enough to turn the tables on me some times, just some. Ruthless enough to protect what's his, but not inhumane, I'm asking for practicality not cruelty. Great, I'm going way overboard, this is beginning to sound like a romance book fantasy of some sort, but I don't believe in love changing a person for the better and all that, it honestly sounds like complete bull to me, so he just has to love fiercely and wholeheartedly. Yeah, I'm pretty sure if this guy's out there, he's gay. But never mind, I'm just fine with that.

Let's see...my perfect girl...

Well, she has to be intelligent. And, she needs a great sense of humor (has to get my humor). I've always liked girls who are total bitches to everyone, but me, so that would be great (anyone know the Japanese term for that?). Not crazy, but adventurous. She doesn't have to be a farm girl, but she needs to get dirty sometimes (actually dirty...outside. Nothing sexual about it). She needs to understand music. I don't want to deal with the Jonas Brothers and Justin Bieber for the rest of my life. It would be nice if she could play an instrument as well. Also, since this is supposed to be my perfect girl, she should be a rich girl, with a dad who owns a big company. I honestly have no idea what I'm going to do with this diploma, so I need a good job. She doesn't really have to know how to cook or anything, but it would be nice if I didn't have to do everything in the house because she might start a fire cooking pasta. She can't have any problems traveling. I would like her to be honest from the start...I don't want any of this “oh, I love watching baseball.” Then, a year later, “we are not watching baseball. Steel Magnolias is on.” And, I don't care how many guys she has been with, as long as I'm the only one she's with now.

Honestly, I don't really care what race she is. I find girls of all races attractive, so I'm not worried about that. I'm not worried about her eye colour either. Green eyes look good on some girls, but those dark mahogany eyes that a lot of Asian girls have are great as well. I usually go for more of a cute face rather than sexy, and I like girls to be a little chubby. But, she can have any kind of body, as long as she is healthy. I don't have a certain hair colour that I like, but it should look right on her. Some girls look good with pink hair, some don't. Although, I guess I would like her to stick with her natural hair colour if possible. I would really like her hair to be a little curly at least. I love that look when a girl just gets out of bed...curly hair looks messier than straight hair (so hot). I'm a big guy (honestly, I look a lot like a defensive lineman), but I really like smaller girls...maybe 5' to 5'2”. Although, height isn't that high on my list of criteria. If she's 6'3” but fits everything else, then that is my girl. I do like an accent, so that would be nice (anything except that “Baston” accent).

I guess that's about it...can't think of anything else at the moment.

Ah. She does need one very important thing to even make the list...glasses. She has to wear glasses. All girls look better in glasses anyways...this whole Lasik surgery craze is a horrible thing for the world. Doctors are sucking the beauty out of the world on girl at a time.

By the way, if anyone knows someone who fits this description, please send me a message. Thank you very much in advance.

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I just realized you could possibly be referencing Pygmalion with your topic title and I enjoy that.

i didnt notice until you pointed it out...interesting 🙂

anyway
my perfect lover is someone deep, deeper than anyone else i met. someone who likes thinking beyond the surface(critical thinking)..someone who likes pondering stuff. he is a dreamer and well informed; i.e. should have a good knowledge on a lot of subjects. he is open minded but with a strong sense of justice. he enjoys reading, and discussing books. he is smart, but not an intellectual(i would prefer if i was smarter than him)...he knows what good music is(he loves classical music), and loves art and poetry. he has the same religious believes as me.

he is a little shy and pure(the kind of person who cannot hide the way he's feeling)...he's gentle and respects me. appearancewise: i dont care; as long as he's not out-of-the-world-ugly...i like guys with average looks, more than average is ok but (FROM MY EXPERIENCE) goodlooking guys tend to be narcissistic. he's into stuff like mythologies, religions(i really love it when someone has a good knowledge on a lot of religions...especially buddhism) and politics. he's gentle and different...also, he wouldnt modify his opinions to impress people; he is himself.

oh and.....NO CHEST HAIR

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@Highway-STAR
I like your taste, it's similar to mine. 😀

Close to my age, or slightly younger, or even slightly older, like 1-2 years would be fine. (For some reason I have a thing for older women)
I'd like someone shorter than me, but not too short, at least 5". Preferably long silky hair, but short hair can work too. For body-type, I would have to go with between chubby and thin, if you know what i mean. Not too chubby, but not so thin that you can see the bones, so just a tad bit of meat. Breast size would fit the palm of my hand, so that's maybe High-B, Low-C. Butt doesn't matter, but just not too big. Personality wise, I'd go with someone slightly shy and quiet. Intelligent, open and broad minded, honest and loyal(we all know this is important). The main thing I would like is that she would be happy to spend the day sitting next to me, while holding hands or my arm around her shoulder holding her close.

Nice to meet you 😉 😉 😉
Lolz jkjk xD

Well for me... I like guys who like me for who I am, who put up with my yaoi obsessions, and just enjoy sitting there with me, staring up at clouds, or just talk casually. No bulky muscles please 😔 . Slim (not too thin, not too chubby), taller than me. (more than 5") Romantic, sweet, and makes me feel like Im the ONLY girl in his world.
I cant really think of anything else, but this is the rough outline

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A girl aged between 17 and 20. Bespectacled, because I adore wimmenz with glasses. Short black/dark brown hair that falls lightly onto her shoulders. Bangs and a fringe would be nice.
Heightwise, anything in the 5" region would be great, though I don't mind petite women either.
As for her body, it'd be incredibly curvy, like an hourglass I guess. Large hips, and skinny-fat (not slim but not fat either; a bit chubby in other words). A bit of a belly would be a plus! Oh, and large boobs and ass as well, whatever's realistic lol.
Personality is just as important of course. She'd be down-to-earth, honest and a little critical. Intelligent, open-minded and well-read, highly willing to engage in different things. A lover of nature, art and simplicity, and she'd enjoy doing things as simple as lying on a hill watching clouds with me. I'd like her to be a tad shy and introverted, but comfortable in small social gatherings.
A dedicated lover, as well!

Okay that's enough fantasizing from me. 🤣

This makes me feel a lot better about myself, at least physically 😀